Sadness and happiness

#Blog 235

When we're young we make a quick decisions without hesitation. That sometimes we can realized our mistakes once we've done of it. A very aggressive attitude isn't? Damaged been done and cannot be returned. Mistakes is natural coz were just a human being can commit mistakes in life.

Good thing is we can barely changed ourselves to be more matured. Be wisely enough in each decisions. Don't let yourself to be fool with others. Deceptive people are just roaming around. Waiting to be their victims.

However when I got married at the age of 23, Ive learned how to adjust the situation. Patient is a virtue if you want to maintain your marriage. But betrayal is a kind of evil that ruined my own family. I've been in a situation of being a martyr for many years just to keep our marriage tight. Sadness and happiness is really a packaged if you build your own family.

Need to survived if we want them. I rather choose my son over my ex husband that time. A hard decision but that's life! We must find our freedom in letting go the people don't want us to be happy. Don't bother if your married coz the more you sacrifice the more he eager to betray you.

Sometimes I shared some advices to those my virtual friends that are still single. They ask me some questions about that thing then I answered them, but the decisions is still in their hands. It's up to them if they follow my advice. Being in love in this generation is terrifying. Loyalty is so rare and people are so quick to choose a good time over a good thing. This generation doesn't know what love is. All they want is just relationship because it's "the thing to do".

Now that I have 2 adorable sons that makes my life completed. Sometimes I don't mind thinking my own happiness as long as they are with me. They are my everything. My life. That's how I learned my mistakes. Be matured in everything. I've been struggling a lots of battles but I never surrendered coz I want to be alive in this wonderful world that God give us.

Just keep fighting and I know you can do also what I've been encountered for many years. Wag maging tanga sa pag ibig at maawa kayo sa sarili niyo. Although my partner is a responsible man but some things that makes me irritated that I don't want to implement in our relationship. A little bit adjustment is the key.

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May 28,2022

6:19 pm

Saturday

Philippines

The fighter mom,

@Jeansapphire39