He never experience to hold a phone
#Blog 293
The other day I came across at the article of my friend @BCH_LOVER that day I agree with her rules about using a gadgets.
Heres the link if you didn't read her blog: reasons why i dont want my kids to hold phones
Nowadays the gadgets are really important for us. But when it comes to my kids, I need to be more attentive especially to my toddler. A 3 year old baby. There are times that I really need to give my old phone to him it's because I'm a full time mom and I have something to do like household chores or buying some essentials at the grocery. My eldest son is the only person can take care of my lil son. As of this month my eldest son having a face to face class and it's more difficult for me so I need to wait him.
Having a kids at home it's not easy to managed them. We need to make a rules that they will follow it. When my eldest son was at the age of 3 years old, he never experience to hold a phone. He just exposed to outdoors activities because the family of my ex husband is the one helping me to take care of him. They always bring my eldest son outside while me doing some household chores like doing my dirty laundries, cleaning the house and cooking.
Since I have a new family then me and my 2 sons only at home so I need to control them. Disciplined and teaching is the key on how to managed their lifestyle. By the way I'm a product of broken family and maybe your confused what I'm talking about lol. Some of the my virtual friends here knows my status in life. That's how my life going on.
So let's go back to my sons. When it comes to my eldest son, he just owned his own phone when he was 14years old. Sometimes he just borrowed my phone when he want to search something at YouTube. Until my partner give him a new phone when he was at the right age.
Did your kids know how to do some household chores at home?
In my part I want my sons knows everything especially the household chores at home. I teach my eldest son how to cook rice and some viands, washing the plates, wash the clothes, cleaning the house and now taking care of his younger brother. We have each other at home and he need to help me of course. We're not rich like others, we don't have a housemaid lol. I don't want also because I need to adjust everything.
We have our own ways how to managed our kids but always think the outcome. Gadgets can cause death also as what I've seen at TikTok. They lost their only child, depsite of their busyness they let them hold a phone in a young age. Don't know what's the history of the kid. The only I've learned is I need to minimized my lil son using a phone, I don't want to lose any of my sons. For God sake!
My kids...my rules...
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September 6,2022
11:20 am
Tuesday
Philippines
The fighter mom,
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Nagkaselpon ko sis, paghighschool na gyud kay masuko ahung mader earth ug magkupot ko'g selpon kay malinga daw kuno, dili na maka.focus sa pagtuon. Pasalamat nalang din pud ko nga mao to'y ginabuhat ni mama kay nagtinundo man sad ko's ahung pagskwela.
Naa may ginatawag nga advantage ang paggamiy ug selpon, pero naa pu'y daghang disadvantage jud, maong kinahanglan jud disiplinahon ang mga batan.on ron when it comes to using gadgets gajud.