Dont forced yourself

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2 years ago

In this world of full of madness and judgement its really complicated to be pleased with anyone. Some are pushing themselves in order to be in a circle of friends. Anything they can do as long as they will accept in that group. But all of the sudden your not welcome. Did you experience that? How painful is that, right? If you have a bad instinct in that kind of friends dont forced yourself just to be in that group.

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Friends are everywhere, can be virtual also. You cant trust anybody these days you think you have a good friend. The one you've trusted till you turn around and realize they have a knife 6 inches deep in your back. Be smart to whom youve been trusted. Friendship can be build with trust and love. It doesnt matter how long or short youve been in that frienship.

A pack of intelligent people..

Mostly in social media treated themselves as an intelligent one, then the low profile treated them as a puppet. Dont be like that. God create humans to spread love and share each other. Let people underestimate you thay way. They'll never know for sure what you're capable of. Just be yourself and you can find a better person.

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In my part ive been good to some people even they betrayed me but one thing I can assure once you betrayed me. Get lost and dont dare to be near on me. Its not the end of the world if I lost some of my friends. I dont want to waste my time to the people who are plastic. Be careful coz I can feel the real motives of a true person. If you are a wise one then ill be the smartest human being.

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Thank God I still have a true friends that never forget me even they are belong in a high standard status. Thats the essence of true friendship that I build to them. Im with them with happiness and loneliness part that they cant forget. Dont treat your friends as you can benifets only with your own agenda.

I feel pity on that kind of attitude so if they cant get something on you then your not a friend, how silly is it? Friends with benifets is another way of saying good enough to hang with, good enough to lay with but never good enough to be with. Ive encountered a lot of friends. Some I kept but some I erased them in my life. If they are not worth it dont stick with them.

Im not a good adviser but I can share some of my ideas that really happened on me. Some put me in a situation that I cant forget that embarassing moment and all I can do is forgetting them also to avoid heartache. Insecurities, betrayal and selfishness are the things that will never make you a happy person. Life is too short so make it sure your life will be meaningful will full of love and happiness.

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Thats all for today guys and please be good to your friends. Dont wear you mask just to hide the real you. Thanks and God bless you all...

December 28, 2021

5:22pm

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Philippines

The fighter mom,

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They say you have three real friends in life, ones that will come running no matter where they are in the world. I guess yours are your three decades old friends like Jeanette in Norway. Love your banner and Happy New Year in advance :)

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2 years ago

Yes Teng. Jeanete is really a true friend of mine. Always on my side no matter what happened. Happy New Year too and its raining again today..

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2 years ago

Trust but verify! Only friendship tested by years can be real. And I will also say that a friend is a friend in need.

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2 years ago

True sis! Must be verified and trust must be gain. Friend can be in you side even sorrowness or happiness.

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2 years ago

Sis kung ayaw nila huwag mo pilitin ,hayae na lng na sila ,minsan bag hahanap lng nsman yan dila ng makukuha saiyo .Pro ang totoo e mamarites ka lng nila

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2 years ago

Nawitness ko lng yan sis pero di nmn nangyari yan sa akin ksi pg ayaw ko din ako na umiiwas. Mahahalata mo nmn kung ano pakay syo. Kya wag pilitin pumasok sa isang grupo na di ka nmn kayang tanggapin ksi.

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2 years ago

Sa totoo ang panahon ngayon! simula nung naging hightect, marami na tayong makikitang nagseselos at judgmental,minsan akala natin mabait, pag kaharap lang natin, pag nakatalikod tayo makikita na natin ang inis! Ngunit, hindi lahat! malakas na kagat sa likod .hehe

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2 years ago

Tama! Naging hightech na din pag iisip ng mga tao. Mas gusto ko pa yung ipakita na lng na ang totoo kesa mgmamaskara pa para magmukhang mbait. Tao nga nmm oh.

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2 years ago

Life is full of surprise. We must preserve it. Use it to live happily and enjoy a calm life. Fun, entertainment, optimism, energy and comfort. We should not force ourselves to do anything.

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2 years ago

True.. Better to stay in a real people, good morning to you.

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2 years ago

True friends always stand by you

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2 years ago

Yes sis.. As always. Thanks to my true friends.

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2 years ago

We should not force ourselves to become someone who we are not just to seek some attention from someone. There's high possibility to meet with fake friends, fake peoples than real one, nowdays we must stay more careful than before. I think we all once faced betrayal in our lives, we have to choose our circle of friends very carefully.

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2 years ago

Your absolutely right, we need extra careful to the fake people. Its so tiring to be plastic to others, right? I choose to be happy rather to be a selfish.

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2 years ago

As we don't want fake peoples in our life like this other people too deserves real friends, real people. We need to understand that first of all we need to make ourselves real only then we will get real people in our life.

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2 years ago

Your right. We really need to be real first but even were real some people really hurt us. By using us.

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2 years ago

There are lots of people like this, no matter how good you behave to them they will always think to betray us. Just leave those people and cherish those people who are good and healthy to your soul and mind.

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2 years ago

I leave them already and learned to forget them. Anyways advance happy new year to you..

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2 years ago

Your words are true. I have been a victim of trust. People might think they are better than you and try to use you achieve something. That really bad and forbidden. That why I am always careful before calling people my friend. This is really informative. Thanks

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2 years ago

Thanks for your compliments but thats the reality of some people sorrounds us. Its hard to find a true friend than never leave us... Have a nice day ahead.

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2 years ago

Pasagdaan nalang na natung mga ingon ana nga tawo dae, dili na sila love sa ilang mama. Hehe likayan nalang na natu mga ingon ana na klase sa tawo.

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2 years ago

Nktwa ko sa dli sila love sa ilang mama.. U make my day happy ๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ˜…. Bsta palayo sila sa ako dae ky sasamain jud sila.

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2 years ago

May pinaghuhugatan ka sis? Bitaw sis, mas ok ng gamay ra atong friends basta kay true lang, di pareho sa uban nga muduol lang nato para makabenipisyo or makaspy sa atong kinabuhi. Di pud nako kinahanglan ng mga plastic na friends, kung di sila ganahan nako feel free silang muhawa.

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2 years ago

Kanang wa nay lain nahimong topic sis hahaha. Kini rkn para maiba na sd. Di sd nko epugos ako self sa mga taong ayaw sd sa akoa.. Di mgskit ako tiyan nila ah.

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2 years ago

Mao man sis, bahala sila, mabuhi bitaw ta nga wala sila. Kaysa naman naa din makonsomisyon lang ta sa mga kaplastikan nila

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2 years ago

Mao mn! Dahhhh mg iyahay gud sis ky wa raba sila kahatag ug pagkaon nato, char lng! Hahahah

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2 years ago

Aw lagi tinuod man, sus di na uso karon ng daghan kaayo ang friendship. Bahala man ug gamay lang, basta kay trusted ug true lang

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2 years ago

Di sd ko gnhan anang sa kdghn mgwait pka kanus a paka storyahon hahahah.. Mouli ko ana ui ๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ˜….

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2 years ago

Hahaha maka OP sa, usahay murag flower2x rata nila

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2 years ago

Kadto c Annalisa pg muanhe dri sa amo lugar iya mi etapok tpos dghn kaau na amiga na mga mdams nya mao di ko muadto pg manghgad ug dinner. Mgyawyaw sya ngano di ko muadto. Ingnan nko kpoy mghulat ui kanus a ko nimo storyahon. Ktwa c Jeanete sko๐Ÿ˜….

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2 years ago

Hahaha, daghan man sad lagi mo nga friendship oi. Akong friendship ani akong mga igsoon ug akong family ra jud

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2 years ago

Dghn lgi pero selected ra sd ang masalegan sa tanan.. Friendly bya ko di bya ta pareha sa ubn nga mamili ky level up bya sila๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ˜….

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2 years ago

Haha ok lang na oi, at least naa jud nasalihan ba

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2 years ago

Dear Jean, you are definitely a kind and compassionate friend, but unfortunately some people even seek benefits in friendship, and only expect from others, the best thing to do, as you said, is to give up and forget. Such a kind person is certainly never alone, and her surroundings are always filled with worthy friends...

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2 years ago

Thank you my ellen. We dont need to stay with a plastic people. I still have a true friends can be with me for my whole life.

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2 years ago

Kaya ako sis naniniwala sa quality over quantity, di mo kelangan ng maraming friends as long as there is someone who will stay loyal to you:)

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2 years ago

Truelala ka dyan sis. Wla nmn contest sa padamihan ng friends ang importnte yung di plastic din. Hirap na mkhnap ng loyal tlga sis.

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2 years ago

Tama, minsan nga yung di mo inaasahan sya pa ang magstay na loyal

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2 years ago

Big check ka dyan sis! Yung andon talaga syo kahit wla namang kailangan. Iba na ngayon sis pg wlang makukuha, iiwanan ka na.

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2 years ago

Kaya nga eh, ung mangungumusta lang para mangutang๐Ÿ™Š

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2 years ago

Hahaha yan tlaga ang nagpapwindang sa akin sis.. Sabay sulpot pero mangungutang lng pala๐Ÿ˜.

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2 years ago

This is true sis. Nowadays it's very rare to find a real friends that's why we need to be careful to the people we want to be friends with. There are a lot of fake ones. You expect that they are real but it doesn't. I am a victim on this.

When I met a girl and we became close each other but at the end she's a fake. She's using me only. I thought she was real. It's really hurt. After what happened I am careful to the people who I've encounter.

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2 years ago

Sorry for that sis.. Ang galing ng acting pala at nadinggoy ka tlga. Saklap talaga pg naloko ka no pero ang mas masakit yung nilagay ka sa sitwasyon na pinahiya ka talaga. Kaya extra careful tlaga tayo sa mga fake friends.

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2 years ago

I've been betrayed so many times and have begun to have trust issues ever since. I don't see myself being too close with anyone ever again.

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2 years ago

Oh so sorry for that. As a matter of fact I still have trusted friends.

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2 years ago

Yes, friendship should be regardless of status. And friends should always be there to support each other and without any strand of betrayal.

I'm thankful for the kinds of friends I have.

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2 years ago

True.. Friendship is hard to gain also but once you get it, really worth it. Im happy for your circle of friends you had.

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