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Signs That Someone Treats You More Than A Friend

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1 month ago

Hey there! I'm still here. I just got busy these past few days because I was hooked with a couple to who I just became a fan to but it makes me sad because I discovered them late and the public has speculations that the couple just broke up.

Well anyway, I finally had something to share and write about. I thought about sharing some of my experiences with someone who liked me or who I liked.

This is a cliche article as one would have a hunch with someone who likes the other but I think with experiences, you can elaborate more. Also, this doesn't apply to male and female relationships. This applies to all relationships in general.

Here are the signs that someone likes you more than a friend:

Body language

Actions speak louder than words. As they say, your actions reflect on how you truly feel. Sometimes these non-verbal mannerisms speak for themselves.

Tina is a huge fan of Coldplay. She listens to the song on the bench under the tree, chilling and relaxing. Then here comes Gino, Tina's longtime pal leans over to her and asks about the music she's listening to.

When he learned about the music, he practiced a lot of Coldplay's songs so he can sing them to Tina's.

One day he finds Tina eating spaghetti at Jollibee and soon he learns that it's Tina's favorite. From then, he asks the group to hang out in the fast-food and enjoy.

These simple gestures clearly show someone starts to treat someone special. They make efforts to let you know so pay close attention to these non-verbal signs. Someone might be having a crush on you.

Being clingy with you

Now, this is some kind of creepy and going overboard, for me. As someone who doesn't like close contact, this is a no-no for me. Someone should consider limitations and boundaries since you guys don't have a romantic relationship.

But if you are someone who enjoys hugs and kisses, then this gesture would mean something deep. However, this person only does to you. He treats you with extra care like holding your hand while climbing the stairs to support or tapping your head when they appreciate you.

They could also be playful to you like punching you lightly in the shoulder and slapping your legs while enjoying the moment.

However, this could mean being too abrupt and forward. I believe you should be careful with these gestures as it could lead to misinterpretation. Building or establishing a deep friendship would be the first step for this.

They help you with your errands

Someone must be looking forward to spending time with you all the time. Usually, they volunteer to accompany you with your errands like going to the groceries, walking with the dogs, help you buy stuff to organize your room.

Personally, I have experienced this when my man, usually asks me about my plans for the day. This was before we became lovers.

They seem to be generous of their time and attention. This goes to show that they don't care what activity you are doing as long as you are together.

They text or chat you a lot

Believe it or not, most of the relationships started with a "wave" or hi on Facebook messenger. Coming into this generation, texting or chatting has been the main means of communication anywhere in the world.

Our grandparents have not experienced this as they took advantage of the classic, vintage way of getting to know someone. Which is old-fashioned but sincere.

Many people are taking advantage of chatting someone over messenger and start a conversation. When someone likes you, they usually ask you a lot of questions and engage you in the discussions. From there, they'll establish better communication to get to know you more.

They usually ask open-ended questions so the conversation doesn't stop by a single answer: Yes or No.

They introduce you to their friends.

It's very important to know the people around someone you're interested to. This is the stage where the friends of someone who are interested in you may find you compatible or not to their friend.

This could also be the way of filling out those spaces between the two of you that other people could determine by hanging out.

Does he/she invite you with a group of friends? This could be the reason why. After all, it is still your decision. If you are comfortable with the person asking you, let yourself explore too by knowing other people.

This suggests a strong foundation when the two of you start to level up with the special relationship. However, this could mean the other way around too. Sometimes, the reason behind a relationship or friendship to lie low is because of incompatibility.

You don't usually click with the things the other party does or one left behind and gets out of place if it does.


Reference: Psych2Go Youtube Channel

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Thanks for reading!

Keep safe everyone. ❤

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"Believe it or not, most of the relationships started with a "wave" or hi on Facebook messenger."

uhm yes HAHAHAHA. unexpected pero solid at super saya nung nagkalabel. Inlove npw cry later HAHAHAHA char

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1 month ago

Uuuuy, may naalala sya 😆

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1 month ago

I think it encompasses more than the romantic sense. Honestly, some even do these stuffs because they feel their friend is a part of theor families too.

But then, of course, these are some things that could be a romantic symbol to know that someone has feelings for you. Although, I was too slow to realize it at times, lol.

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1 month ago

It could work the other way around too. You can work on that too. Hehe

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1 month ago

I remember my last crush, he was too nice to me, but in the yungisang friend pala namin ang gusto niya haha

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User's avatar sc
1 month ago

Sya ba yung ngkakaintindihan mo lately madam?

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1 month ago

Hindi madam hehe. Yung crush ko yan dati 🤣

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User's avatar sc
1 month ago

Kmusta na kayo nong ka MU mo ngayon? Hehe

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1 month ago

Going strong hehe

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User's avatar sc
1 month ago

Yieeeeee! Kinilig nemen ako ey 😍😍😍

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1 month ago

Omoooo. May naisip ako from this. Hihi

When I was in first year college, F2F pa 'nun, may mga boy na friends ako sa block namin na super close ko talaga. 'Yung tipo na walang malisya kung mag-ala koala ako sa kanila kasi ganun kami eh. But then, may isang guy na naka-close ko lang dahil sa research namin sa isang minor subject. Tatlo kami, him, ako, and may super close gayfriend sa block namin. Ewan ko pero ang comfty namin sa isa't-isa, as in. Actually s'ya lang naging crush ko sa block namin hanggang sa nag-lockdown. May time na bumalik ako sa college namin to harvest the crops that we planted kasi baka masira lang. Ayun, abot paalala. Mag-ingat daw ng sobra and kapag tapos na, uwi na kaagad. Ewan ko ba. Iba eh. Or assuming lang ako? HAHAHA

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1 month ago

Did he tell you about his feelings? His actions show eh but it's not enough para di malabo. 😅

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1 month ago

Walang aminan na nangyari puro paramdam lang. Hahaha. Then 'yung guy friend ko na taga-Aurora is naka-close din n'ya tapos ayun, masyadong ano. Parang spy ba. 🤣

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1 month ago

Super true especially don sa pinapakilala sa kaibigan 😆. However that was my mistake too. After telling it to my friends, I feel the atmosphere became awkward hahaha. I think he dont like that 😂😃

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1 month ago

Hehe, may awkwardness talaga no. Pero naging kayo ba?

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1 month ago

I remember someone from highschool.. He's been so good to me and I seemed to ignore his actions even if it's already too obvious. Hehe.. we're still good friends until now..

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1 month ago

High school life 🥺😍

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1 month ago

Hhahaha halos ginawa ng bf ko lahat ng sinabi mo po ate nung hindi pa kami mag on hahaha. Aside sa pgiging clingy. He never tries to touch me. He always ask for permission if he could hold my hands or what.

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1 month ago

Aysuuuuus. Kilig kilig 🙈😍

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1 month ago

After reading this, I suddenly remember all my exes,Hahahhahahha. This is so true in every word,hehhehe

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1 month ago

Hehe. Kilig kaayo madam? 🙈❤

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1 month ago

Oo madams,heheheheh..

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1 month ago

Check lahat/all of the above hahhha.. Pero para sure dpat my tamang label hehehhe.. Baka ngay bigla ma friendzone 😅

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1 month ago

True haha. Para hindi malabo, gaya ng mata ko 😆

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1 month ago

hahahha tama wahahhah

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1 month ago

Life has given me many good friendships, some of which have remained despite time and distance.

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1 month ago

That's good to know ❤ I'm glad you sustained that friendship.

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1 month ago

Ikaw b madam nka experience na nyan? 😅

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1 month ago

Yes nman. Hehe. Yung hanggang midnight mgka chat kayo tapos date date 😬😆

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1 month ago

But it needs to be clarified with words because actions without clarification can lead to mutual understanding but without label hahaha na expect kana tapos friends lang pala kayo hahaha ouch!

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1 month ago

Trueness. Need din ng affirmation eh. It could lead to misunderstanding jud.

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