Hey there! I'm still here. I just got busy these past few days because I was hooked with a couple to who I just became a fan to but it makes me sad because I discovered them late and the public has speculations that the couple just broke up.
Well anyway, I finally had something to share and write about. I thought about sharing some of my experiences with someone who liked me or who I liked.
This is a cliche article as one would have a hunch with someone who likes the other but I think with experiences, you can elaborate more. Also, this doesn't apply to male and female relationships. This applies to all relationships in general.
Here are the signs that someone likes you more than a friend:
Actions speak louder than words. As they say, your actions reflect on how you truly feel. Sometimes these non-verbal mannerisms speak for themselves.
Tina is a huge fan of Coldplay. She listens to the song on the bench under the tree, chilling and relaxing. Then here comes Gino, Tina's longtime pal leans over to her and asks about the music she's listening to.
When he learned about the music, he practiced a lot of Coldplay's songs so he can sing them to Tina's.
One day he finds Tina eating spaghetti at Jollibee and soon he learns that it's Tina's favorite. From then, he asks the group to hang out in the fast-food and enjoy.
These simple gestures clearly show someone starts to treat someone special. They make efforts to let you know so pay close attention to these non-verbal signs. Someone might be having a crush on you.
Now, this is some kind of creepy and going overboard, for me. As someone who doesn't like close contact, this is a no-no for me. Someone should consider limitations and boundaries since you guys don't have a romantic relationship.
But if you are someone who enjoys hugs and kisses, then this gesture would mean something deep. However, this person only does to you. He treats you with extra care like holding your hand while climbing the stairs to support or tapping your head when they appreciate you.
They could also be playful to you like punching you lightly in the shoulder and slapping your legs while enjoying the moment.
However, this could mean being too abrupt and forward. I believe you should be careful with these gestures as it could lead to misinterpretation. Building or establishing a deep friendship would be the first step for this.
Someone must be looking forward to spending time with you all the time. Usually, they volunteer to accompany you with your errands like going to the groceries, walking with the dogs, help you buy stuff to organize your room.
Personally, I have experienced this when my man, usually asks me about my plans for the day. This was before we became lovers.
They seem to be generous of their time and attention. This goes to show that they don't care what activity you are doing as long as you are together.
Believe it or not, most of the relationships started with a "wave" or hi on Facebook messenger. Coming into this generation, texting or chatting has been the main means of communication anywhere in the world.
Our grandparents have not experienced this as they took advantage of the classic, vintage way of getting to know someone. Which is old-fashioned but sincere.
Many people are taking advantage of chatting someone over messenger and start a conversation. When someone likes you, they usually ask you a lot of questions and engage you in the discussions. From there, they'll establish better communication to get to know you more.
They usually ask open-ended questions so the conversation doesn't stop by a single answer: Yes or No.
It's very important to know the people around someone you're interested to. This is the stage where the friends of someone who are interested in you may find you compatible or not to their friend.
This could also be the way of filling out those spaces between the two of you that other people could determine by hanging out.
Does he/she invite you with a group of friends? This could be the reason why. After all, it is still your decision. If you are comfortable with the person asking you, let yourself explore too by knowing other people.
This suggests a strong foundation when the two of you start to level up with the special relationship. However, this could mean the other way around too. Sometimes, the reason behind a relationship or friendship to lie low is because of incompatibility.
You don't usually click with the things the other party does or one left behind and gets out of place if it does.
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Thanks for reading!
Keep safe everyone. ❤