Has Life Been So Unfair To You?

True everything has a purpose. God has a purpose

I used to ask God Madam, as there was also time in my life as I felt life was so unfair. Then I just stumble into a documentary at YT and I saw how hard the life of those people compare to me. I was crying while watching the video. So that became my routine, everytime I felt that feeling I would watch in YT. Promise masasabi mo na ng sa sarili mo Madam, grabe sobra blessed ko pa pala.

I am intimately closely familiar with the feeling you've described. I've had it happen to me that after years and years of futile struggling I'd hit rock-bottom. I'd lost everything I cared about and I remember thinking "Well at least things can't get any worse!".

After which the Universe went to great lengths to prove that it can always get worse, much much worse.

The worst thing you can do at such a time is to look for someone or something to blame. That is the greatest waste of time there is. Because it does not matter who's to blame. What matters is what must be done to get off the rock bottom and to claw your way out of whatever misery you're in. And if anyone can know that it can take a very long time, with many setbacks and failures along the way, but if you just keep slugging at it, keep fighting, then eventually either you succeed... or you end.

And there's nothing or no one that you can rely on, turn to, or trust except yourself. You're the only person on the planet who does things just because they benefit you.

And that is you.

This sounds harsh and uncaring but unfortunately, it is the truth. It's worse actually. Those who do help you for the sake of your benefit, usually are those that do so damaging or negatively impacting their own lives. Those are the ones you shouldn't turn to for help. Leaving you with again, only yourself to count on.

One thing about that makes things a lot easier though in one respect. Once you rely on yourself only and fail... you don't have to look far for someone to blame. That too is yourself.

TL;DR: Life is not fair. If you've hit the bottom, it's a reset, a restart of sorts, where you start your fight to get back up and better. And the one thing, the one force, that is going to drive that way back to success, the only thing: That is you.

I understand you well po😌, that thought na kahit naging mabuti kang tao hindi parin maiwasang magsuffer sa mundong ito, but then I realized as time goes by life is always unfair and we don't have the will to resist it kasi that's the reality. Be patient and humble lage pra makasurvive sa mundong ibabaw si Lord na bahala saatin and I know He is not blind to see our good deeds and faithfulness sa kanya. Our hope is in God alone🙏 thank you for this I gained a lot of realizations.

I agree sa comment ni ate jramona. All we need is acceptance and to be contented on what we have right now. Di man natincmapipigilan pero mas okay ung matuto tayo maging kontento lang talaga sa kung ano ung anjan satin ate.

For me life is unfair, kasi may mga bagay na I was working hard for it but no result.

I agree madam. We shouldn't compare ourselves to the others. We have a different lives, we are unique in that way. I believe that God has a purpose of everything. We should trust and believe in him. He knows what's the best for us.

We should have an acceptance. Be grateful on what we have. Talk and pray to God but never complains instead be thankful to him what we have right now.

Ako madam siguro kung iisipin ko lang lahat ng mga kamalasan ko sa buhay, mapapasabi talaga ako na life has been so unfair to me. And at some point eh nasabi ko talaga yan. Pero aam mo un dedma na lang, ang importante eh buhay at di naman lage eh ganun ang life, ika nga nila eh parang gulong lang minsan nasa ibabaw ka at minsan nasa ilalim naman. You just have to do your best para di ka manatili sa ilalim.

So many times I asked God why life has been unfair to me. But then that's life.. Can't do anything but accept, move on and make it better

Often times we compare ourselves with other people and we mostly forgot that each of us is different in our own ways. We have different paths to walk on. We forgot to remember the importance of acceptance. I am certain that we all have our seasons to bloom.

I found myself in that kind of situation as well. It is our first to ask God why? But later on, rather asking I'm believing in His words that all things work for my good and His words never fail.

I compare myself to her ex and she told me na, "You don't need to compare yourself kasi ikaw sobra-sobra kapa.", Aww nagmelt heart ko. Pero andaming times ko na nacompare self ko, insecurities were eating me, alam kong mali at di dapat