It's okay to say 'No'

fact. That is a fact. can you imagine someone saying yes everytime? he will be target of bullies.

yeah. so much hospitality, i guess. and it's unhealthy..

well sometimes you don't have to explain yourself to anyone. but sometimes you do. haha depends on the situation.

when raising a child, every time you say no you have to explain it to the child for him fo fully understand why... you don't just say no. you say for example 'no you cant do that cause it will hurt your fingers...' these kind of things

when said in a proper manner, people can take the answer 'no'.. 😊 it means no disrespect. though sometimes it does..

Yeah, sometimes if we say "No" it will hurt their feelings, so we should realy say it in proper manner or in a proper way.

that's true. But sometimes hurting them by saying 'No' would be the best for all. and sometimes it helps them too..

why do people even get mad when you cant lend them money. theyre just asking for a favor haha. but yes, many people are like that. and they will start to spread rumors about you.I mean , not all but most of them are..

That's true. It’s hard to say no when you know they’ll get angry. They are annoying. Then they will make you look very bad to other people. You will not really be good to the person who just wants to give in to them. So it is not ok to say NO.

some people cant take no for an answer and these people are toxic. they have problems with their heads. 🤭

and at least say it in a good manner even when you got your chest out. 😊

yep. I agree, however there are people that couldn't take no for an answer. and we should be ready to handle this kind of situation and stand up for what you think is right

yeah. For some saying no is just like you insulted them somehow. Those people are hard to deal with sadly.

yeah as if they never said no. the fact that they don't accept no for an answer is already considered saying no haha.. if that makes any sense haha

It does make a sense actually haha. I got your point. They are simply saying no to everyone who doesn't share their point of view. So that's a little hidden no XD

haha and having that mind set (not taking no as an answer) is being hypocrite. haha then you should say yes to no if you don't accept no.. this is thought is becoming confusing haha

a little XD but it makes a sense, not accepting no as an answer is hypocrite indeed. your point of view is very accurate.

yeah. I'm actually referring to something that has a bad effect and something that you are not comfortable with. well of course decisions at work, if you have no control of it, you will have to say yes unless you feel the need to say no.

yep two powerful words. But we need to remind ourselves not to abuse it. we still have to know when to say no.m

yeah exavtly i support with your answers and thanks for your attention towards my comment

that's crab mentality, I guess. We can't say yes to everything and yet some people think we can and we should. it's sad sometimes especially when people are forced to agree to things they don't like..

yeah CRAB MENTALITY if the person doesn't want to join because of the importance of work or family all of the friends of that man say that he is KJ or they not know the meaning of life thanks for sharing

i agree. and it will not define your relationship with the person youre saying no to. You may lovr the person so much but if you disagree to some things, it doesnt mean you dont love him already...

yeah. just like saying no to spammers... hahhaa. is that correct... 😊😉

yeah culture sometimes is a big factor. like what you said, some cultures believe that parents are always right. But when a father is abusing a daughter in any form, the daughter has the right to say ,'no daddy i won't tolerate this....' this will make her more safe. but yeah saying no depends on the situation and we should avoid using it to abuse it's power.

yes you should start thinking about yourself first, bro. Saying no to them doesnt mean you dont want to be friends anymore. it's just that we all have different views and wants and capabilities. 😊 they will stay no matter what, that's what friends are for. 😊

i think we all can relate... i think everyone came to a point that we cant say no and we realized we should and wished we could have.. 😊

Noor

oh i didn't know about that issue but she was right. no one should ever call you names.. no one should ever insult you. I don't even agree when people say ,"who are they to judge you when they don't feed you.. " i think, even when they feed you, you should never take an insult and disrespect.. You only have yourself to protect you sometimes. and we should be brave enough and ready. 😊

Yesss the album reputation especially the song look what you made me do was written because of him. Taylor is so brave that she face all criticism. Its so sad that even though you are the one being insulted yet some people are turning their tables on you that an saying you are acting as victim. Media is so manipulative sometimess. Anyways haha thank you for replying to my comments even though the issue is not one of your interests 😂❤️

well, that's a reality we all should be ready about. people will judge you based on what they believe in and who they idolized. Being brave and stepping up is not like your acting all hollywood and playing victim. And also, if you think really closely, it can't be considered acting if it's real. She was a real victim of shaming and insults, given the fact it's true. Am I right or Am I correct hahaha

You are right and correct hahaha❤️

hurting ourselves is the worst feeling. Cause it is sometimes (or most of the time) the hardest to forgive ourselves. We begin to question our value and our meaning. And it's like fighting with someone we cannot even see loosing.

oh friends. yeah we are very attached to them and care for them so much that we will do almost what they say or ask just to have them around.. I was like that when I was younger. Then I realized, when they're really your friend, no matter how different your decision is to them, they will stay and will support you. Friendship like any other relationship needs respect too. 😊 you're mother is right and it's a good thing you listen to your mom. 😊

I'm thankful that i listen to my mom coz what if i didn't?i think i'll be miserable with those kind of friends.

mothers knows best as what they always say. Not just because they're mom but becauSe they have experienced almost everything, if not, at least they witnessed enough to know what's bad for you and what's not. at least that's what I believe in. 😊

wAhhhh you're right,i guess you're a very good mother to your son coz you already experience what your son could go through.Your son will be so proud of you ate @Jdine!!😊🤗

oh thanks. I try to be as good as I can be. I hope i'm doing great haha. we'll know shen he grows up and tell me how I was as a mother haha

Yeppp,you should ask him haha dyan magkakaalaman HHAHAHAHA

bigla ako natakot magtanong hhahaa

There also came a time I was always saying yes thinking it make them like me more. But eventually I realized that it's not a basis for someone to like you. They'll like you even more if they see you respect yourself. 😉

Same here. I thought they will like me more too. But then I realize too that i have to have respect in myself. And id rather be a God pleaser than people pleaser. Aja!!! satin na na-overcome ito!!!😅😅

hahhaa hephep hooorrrraaaayy!! hahhaa...

yes don't settle for less and don disrespect yourself for not disagreeing if you really want to. 😊

exactly! i agree with you. even if we disagree we still have to do it nicely not to offend anyone.

haha. relate much sis??? 😆