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Don't Tell me if You Don't mean it
***If you are about to tell me that you love me and you don't mean it***, please stop right there because it only hurts my pride as a woman, my heart as a man, and my emotion as an individual. ***If you are to tell me you want me and you don't mean it,*** please stop right there and fix your mind because you will just ruin my life and break my heart that I am guarding for so long. ***If you are to tell me that you'll stay and you don't mean it***, please stop right there and remember that life can be so cruel because you might end up crashing my world while trying to figure out if it's love or a mere fantasy. ***If you are to tell me you'll wait for me and you don't mean it,*** please stop right there and made up your mind while it's not too late because you may end up frustrated and make me feel bad for not choosing the same path that you risked for me. ***If you are to tell me that you'll be there in good times and in bad times and you don't mean it,*** please stop right there because you'll end up making me hopeful for things unsure. ***If you are to tell me something that you can't afford to do, please be clear and choose to do the the right thing and don't tell me if you don't mean it.***
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A lot of people fall into this kind of a trap. Do your findings before falling in love with anyone it may be because of your money
It might be, but mostly in this world they treat love as a sort of game to play. They are happy when they've gone into many relationships and forgot to realize that they are not playing with a toy but with a heart.
In life, as in love, sometimes things happen or things that can cause a whole series of unpleasant consequences, if you don't work with conscience ...
I agree with you. Also, this thing must be taken care of as fragile as it must be because you are not handling just a person but a person with a heart that is as fragile as you are.
> I agree with you. Also, this thing must be taken care of as fragile as it must be because you are not handling just a person but a person with a heart that is as fragile as you are. Feelings need tact, a lot, especially when they become of primary importance, sometimes a word less is better than one more ....
Wow! What a big word "a word less is better than one more". I like that phrase. That means a lot. That's one of the thing we need to keep in mind.
true words are powerful, it can hurt or praise us. some are tactless and even saying promises but meant to be broken.
Indeed! Words can make and break a heart, so in handling this, we need our foolish heart to understand that not all things that are pleasant are pleasant at all because some of those won't last a lifetime.
Yeah. A lot of people have been hurt by these kinds of lies. They just want something at that moment and they tell lies just to get it from you and then break your heart later.
Yeah, they have sweet lies and bitter truth. Their lies are spoken as if it's true but the fact is that, it's just a word with no meaning at all.
Relationship requires seriousness hence if you are not ready don't venture in to it.
Great! That sounds very credible. When you are not ready do not indulged to it. But no one is ready enough for it. And, almost everyone is rushing to it.
Yeah...nice point .. people often say things that they can't do and keep to..it's just mate words from their mouths
They jusy say it to hurt us sometimes. Sometimes we thought it's love but it's poison that suffocates us.
You’ll always have me, I promise. Even if the world will go against us. You'll always have me. Even if distance separates us. You'll always have me. Even if we don't communicate often. You'll always have me. And even if, my heart is partially filled with disappointment for not being with you everyday, you'll always have me. Remember that, I love you. ( One of the kind of white lies?
Yeah, hahaha it seems that it was spoken to just hurt us along the way. How sad.
Yes but i am not a broken. I just say what i see now a days hahaha.
Hehehe I am glad that you're not broken. Hold your breath and stay being whole, so when you see your other half, you're whole for him/her to have.
Actually i already see my other half. But i don't know if he's for me in the lifetime. I will wait the right time, and i will waiy God's plan :)
I just want to tell you that this article is Good. And I mean that. Selemet and more write ups and save draft to come.
You really did save it? Amazing! Your welcome ng marami. I will give you the authority to share any of my writings in any social media that you want to post with, if you want to share it so others may see. I am happy for your cheering spirit.
That's how it is. Don't tell me you love me if you can't prove it. Why does love is always like this. It makes my heart breaks.
That's the nature of love. Don't question it. Just understand it.
Sweet talk but a white lies... That's the reason why we fall inlove with the wrong guy.
Situation is not always in our control. People keep saying things which they don't mean. And it really broke down others.
Yeah,dont promise or say anything you dont mean it. This is right thing to do but sometimes they do this to protect someone or something.
Yeah, they can protect it for a little while but after a few days or so it will be revealed and the damaged made is greater than before.
Ur right and the consequences are heavy to handle!
Yeah, at times you don't know how to handle it anymore. It's dragging you and consuming you all over.
this article is so beautiful. it speaks volume and i think it needs to be read by a lot of people.
Its like huwag mo akong pakikitaan ng motibo kong di mo naman sasaluhin. MAganda keep doing more of it.
Yeah, most people in this world is "pa-fall" with no intention of holding you tight. However, the decision lies in us.