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Life is like a race,never give up in life because there will always be Huddles for you to jump over but what makes you stand is how determined you are to reach the finish line.

Live your life your way. "Live life your way" this came to my mind when I heard a story of a young girl who lived to please others and did what they wanted not what she wanted, this ended up in the wrong path, the funny thing is that if you live your life to please others, they won't suffer with you but only you get to Bear the consequences of your actions. I have learnt that in life not everything that favours others will also favour you, because everyone has he or her Destiny. If prostitution favoured someone and she got married through it, it doesn't necessarily means it will favour you as well, if illegal things favour others it might not favour you. You must live your life the way you want but it doesn't mean you live a wayward life. Live a life Worthy of emulation, gossipers will always gossip,that shouldn't make you deviate from the right path. In this generation people do things because it favoured someone they Know,not because it will favour them.

Every problem is a gift; without problems we wouldn't not grow There's no shortage of remarkable ideas, what's missing is the will to execute them.

Clear vision backed by definite plans,gives you a tremendous feeling of confidence and personal power. Business opportunities are like buses, there's always another one coming.

Make your life count. A female Facebook user in Nigeria took to social media and made this statement: "your life is what you make of it". She then went on to tell the story of her life. According to the story,she was abandoned by her mother at the age of seven months. Her father and stepmother were left to take care of her. Her stepmother (now late), subjected her to all manner of malteatment. Many times, she underwent starvation. She would go without food, not just for hours alone but days until she saw death staring her in the face. On one occasion, she was hungry that she had to eat the leftovers from their dog food which she was supposed to dispose. So their neighbor's son saw her eating the dog's leftovers. Then the young man told his mother about it. That evening, the boys mother invited her over for questioning to clarify if what her son saw was true or not. She was scared and begged the woman not to tell her stepmother, because if she did,she would be beaten up severely.when the woman learnt of her plight, she promised to assist her with food everyday; this was a promised she kept until they moved out from that accommodation, without her stepmother's knowledge. Apart from starvation, she also went through capital punishment. She said she was flogged mercilessly severally until she fainted. Her stepmother applied pepper on all parts of her body including her private part, ampits,neck,eyes. She was sometimes abandoned in the toilet in the house for hours without food. She was forced to pray often for death, but it didn't come. Despite all she went through, something good went for her;she was intelligent and liked education. She knew within her that it is a sure way out if all her troubles for her to be successful, so she took her academics seriously.Today, she is a proud and beautiful lawyer. She is living her life devoid of all the PAST! Rather, she chose to embrace positivity, forgiveness, kindness, peace and love. We all have a past and we all have struggles! Many, if not all, had an ugly past. You must never allow the last to drown your tomorrow because your life is your message to the world.you must make sure it's inspiring! The young lady of today's story became a lawyer out of her ugly past. She refused to be negative! Please put your past behind you; forgive those who hurt you or despised you. You can only achieve something when you set your mind to, don't let one ugly past disfigure your life. Shapen your life into whatever you want it you be.it all depends on you. Just know that the past can't hurt you anymore unless you allow it, so make your life count. Please like and comment thanks...

Cowardice is just an habit. Cowardice is just like fear.fear of doing this, fear of doing that so you are just non-challant on taking actions on your issues and problems. Nelson Mandela before his death said something about fear"I learned that courage is not the absence of fear,but the triumph over it. The brave man is not he who does not feel afraid, but he who conquers that fear." So we should try to conquer our fears and not let them way us down. One cowardly person came to a master of martial art and asked him to teach him how to be brave. The master looked at him and said: i will teach you only with a condition: one month you will live in a big city and tell about 100 persons you meet on your way "you are a coward". And you will have to say it loudly,open up and looking staight into the person's eyes. For a couple of days he was sad and thought about it, but realized he couldn't live with this cowardice because it was so unbearable, so he decided to travelled to the city and did exactly what he was told. At first when he met the passers-by,he was afraid, he stammered and lost his speech not knowing what to say and couldn't contact anyone. But he needed to finish up the task, So he began to overcome himself.when he came to the first passer-by to tell him about his cowardice,it seemed to him that he would die From fear. But his voice sounded more and more confident with each passing day. Suddenly he realized he wasn't scared anymore, and he continued further with the task, the more convinced he became about the fear leaving him. After a month, he came back to his master, bowed himself and said:"thank you, teacher. I have finished my task. Now am not afraid any longer. But how did you know that this strange task will be of help to me??" Then the teacher replied:"The thing is that cowardice is only a habit. Now you also know that bravery is also a habit.And if you want to make bravery a part of yourself,you need to move forward to confront your fear. Wow! CONFRONTING YOUR FEARS! For example, the best way to conquer a plane crash is to keep flying! **Whatever you fear happens to you!** Being brave is not the absence of fear, "being brave is having that fear but finding a way through it". There are people who are afraid of ending their lives in shame/disgrace!some are afraid of ending up in sickness,poverty,divorce, demotion,some are afraid of car/plane crashes, rise and fall betrayals, heartbreaks and more. Refuse to live in fear of anything, person or event because fear is a hedge breaker! Don't fear what others are fearing! The eagle has no fear of adversity,we need to be like the eagle and have a fearless spirit of a conquerer! Lastly, do not fear but try to overcome and conquer your fear with actions.

Think big and don't listen to people who tell you it can't be done. Life's too short to think small. Everything you've ever wanted is on the other side of fear Never underestimate the power to have to take your life in a new direction.

"the secret of change is to focus all your energy,not on fighting the old,buy on building the new." We all get the exact same 365 days.The only difference is what we do with them. We must be willing to get rid of the life we've planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us. The old skin has to be she'd before the new one can come.

"the secret of change is to focus all your energy,not on fighting the old,buy on building the new." We all get the exact same 365 days.The only difference is what we do with them. We must be willing to get rid of the life we've planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us. The old skin has to be she'd before the new one can come.

Even if you are on the right track,don't stop. Even if you are on the right track, you'll get run over if you just sit there. Another topic I got from my younger sister.do you agree with me that if you are on the right track and you stop moving,you will get run over. Let me Start with this illustration:of a vehicle (car) moving along the express and suddenly the car stopped.behind it is a tanker moving at a very high speed,what will happen when the car stops suddenly?? It will be run over by the incoming tanker. So it doesn't just depend on whether you are on the right route.you must not stop moving to avoid being knocked over by others. People feel that since they are on the right track they should just relax and watch others but those you are watching will come and overtake you and push you behind.so even if you are on the right track,we should continue so as to keep moving and progressing forward. For instance, there are many restaurants at a particular area and you happen to be the best with the most tasty food.and people patronize you allot. Your shop is always filled with customers,then you decide to just relax instead of coming up with my more recipes that will captured the customers and to keep you at a very good speed from your competitors,you just relax and be satisfied but others will strive and work hard to get new recipes to get attention of the customers. You then begin to lose your customers to the other restaurant that was as a result of your pause. In life,you don't stop because you have achieved something,you stop because there is no way further, because you have achieved everything. Please like and comment thanks.

Every problem is a gift. Every problem is a gift because without problem we can't grow. Problems are stepping Stones to new discovery. Any problem that comes your way makes you discover something new. If for instance am a scientist and am trying to build something unique. Each time I fail and I discover that there is a reason for the problem and I try something else and end up discovering something new and of essential benefits, am I right?? Some people might oppose to the fact that problems are ladders to greater achievement but it is the fact. Many people are ignorant of some things. Most times when I put my mind to do something and I end failing,I feel sad and frustrated but i always end up getting a knowledge of something new Because I try to find out the reason for the problem and that brings a new idea to the picture. Problems must come ,challenges must occur in everything you do,but what matters most is if you let the problems override you. There's something I admire most in my friend which is the fact that whatever she sets her mind to do,she won't rest until she achieves it at the best form. I have heard of a case where a man wanted to travel for a business meeting and due to his wife and children's demand,he ended up missing the flight, which he regretted and blamed his wife and children for but later on he heard that the flight he was supposed to travel with crashed and nobody in the plane survived.what will you call that?? A problem that led to his safety.if he had travelled on that plane for the supposed meeting his existence would have been a story of the past. Problems are meant to happen so we shouldn't give up just because of problems that arise. please like and comment thanks.

Almost everything worthwhile carries with it some sort of risk, whether it's starting a new business, whether it's leaving home, whether it's getting married,or whether it's flying into space. Your present circumstances don't determine where you can go.they marely determine where you start. Life is about change, sometimes it's painful, sometimes it's beautiful,but most of the time it's both.

Almost everything worthwhile carries with it some sort of risk, whether it's starting a new business, whether it's leaving home, whether it's getting married,or whether it's flying into space. Your present circumstances don't determine where you can go.they marely determine where you start. Life is about change, sometimes it's painful, sometimes it's beautiful,but most of the time it's both.

Darkness cannot drive out darkness only light that can do that,hate cannot drive out hate only love can do that. God doesn't take you in straight line.there are twist and turns, it may not happen the way you thought,but the disappointment,the bad breads are all a part of God's plan.

Darkness cannot drive out darkness only light that can do that,hate cannot drive out hate only love can do that. God doesn't take you in straight line.there are twist and turns, it may not happen the way you thought,but the disappointment,the bad breads are all a part of God's plan.

Think bigger, forget limits embrace the idea of endless possibilities,it will change you. He that cannot forgive other Breaks the bridge over which he himself must passif he ever reach heaven;for Everyone has need to be forgiven. Holding onto hurt and wishing/praying that something bad happens to the person that has hurt you is like drinking poison and hoping that another dies.

Think bigger, forget limits embrace the idea of endless possibilities,it will change you. He that cannot forgive other Breaks the bridge over which he himself must passif he ever reach heaven;for Everyone has need to be forgiven. Holding onto hurt and wishing/praying that something bad happens to the person that has hurt you is like drinking poison and hoping that another dies.

Everything you've ever wanted is on the other side of fear. Fear is a great limitation to achiving one's goal. As we all know, fear is an unpleasant feeling characterized by perception of danger,anxiety, failure or imagination. Sometimes we want to do something but fear of the outcome and result can restrain us from doing such. We should never give up because our 100th attempt or trial might be your final and successful attempt. We should just conquer our fears and attempt trail because at the other side of fear is what you evidence and achievement. Fear is like a barricade between you and your achievement, once you conquer and set your mind to overcome you will surely overcome. A wise man once said think bigger,forget limits, embrace the idea of endless possibilities,it will change you.so we should think big because big thoughts attracts big things while small thoughts attracts small things. There's a secret to conquer fear which I use always;say to yourself I can do it and strive to which is called determination. Opportunities are just like doors, when one closes another opens and it depends on your determination, If you are willing to open the door or not. For instance you are on a journey and when you eventually get to a point where you saw a barricade and you become too scared to cross over then you went back or stopped there without attempting or trying to.you can never cross without trying meaning you can never get to your destination.same as fear, if you don't try you won't get there... So please let us overcome our fears to be able to get to our destination. Fear has never yielded anything positive but only negative so we should not allow fear keep us at one spot. You will never know until you try. Please like and comment.. thanks

It isn't the mountain we conquer but ourselves. What would you attempt if you knew you could not fail??? If you think small, your world will be small,if you think big, your world will be big.

It isn't the mountain we conquer but ourselves. What would you attempt if you knew you could not fail??? If you think small, your world will be small,if you think big, your world will be big.

Fear is a powerful beast but we can learn to ride it. Try anything you haven't done three times, once,to get over the fear of doing it.twice, to Learn how to do it, third time, to figure out whether you like it or not. Forgiving isn't something you do for someone else. Iy is something you do for yourself.its saying, you are not important enough to have a strong hold on me.its saying you don't get to trap me in the east. I am Worthy of a future.

If you cannot forgive and forget pick one. Hate,it has caused a lot of problems in this world but it has not solved one yet. It is not where you Start, it's where u finish that counts.

If you cannot forgive and forget pick one. Hate,it has caused a lot of problems in this world but it has not solved one yet. It is not where you Start, it's where u finish that counts.

There is going to be hundreds and thousands doors slammed in your face before one opens so feel ok about rejection. We all learn lessons in life. Some stick, some Don't,I have learned that more from rejections and failures and also from acceptance and success. It is hard to stay true to yourself and what you want in life, when there are many distraction and so many crazy things going on around you. But determination and discipline helps you do so.

Don't work to please men, for men cannot be pleased but work only to please God in all you do. We make a living by what we get,we make a life by what we do. Heaven doesn't celebrate the richest man in Earth but rather the greatest man.

Some people drink from the fountain of knowledge while others just gargle. In complete darkness it is only knowledge and wisdom that separates us.. Knowledge is like money:to be of value it must circulate, and in circulating it can increase in quantity and hopefully in value.

Attitude Attitude defines you in total. Let me start by defining attitude. Attitude is a settled way of thinking or feeling about something.it is a positive or negative response towards a certain idea, object, person,or situation. Attitude influences an individuals choice of action, and responses to challenges, incentives and rewards. We should always put up a very good attitude wherever we are and at anytime. Attitude makes or mar you, it tells someone what kind of a person you are, and if you will be a positive or negative influence. Many times I study people before making friends with them because sometimes you are defined by the people you move or are seen with. If you keep someone who smokes as a friend you will labelled a smoker.so friends we keep matters allot. We should not be proud or rude to others just because we are in top.the fact that you are on top doesn't mean you will be there forever. I read a novel which the writer wrote was not a fiction that it was real. A girl who was named folake, was so rude, proud and felt like she was on top of the word and treated others like rag. Everyone was afraid of her and never wanted to step on her toes because it could incure her wrath.so she had no friends. Surprisingly something happened to her father which made which made them become poor and wretched,they had no one to fall back to because their attitude towards every one was a negative one. So please we should be of good conduct.and we shouldn't ridicle someone because of their current status, nothing is permanent. There was a guy who came to enquire about a girl from me but she wasn't of a good behaviour so the guy left her for someone else. Good attitude matters allot but bad attitude spoils and tarnishes ones image. Attitude matters allot..

Formal education will make you a living, self education will make you a fortune. Knowledge is power must you must know that power that cannot be tapped into is useless. Some people drink from the fountain of knowledge while others just gargle.

Identifying your problems gives you power and energy to profer solutions to them. Stopping advertisement to save money is like stopping your watch to save time. If opportunity doesn't knock build a door.

It is better to fail originally than to succeed in your imagination. We are together what we defined by what we repeatedly do. Experience then is not an act but an habit. Success seems to be conected action successful people keep moving they .ake mistake but they never quit.