Things I haven't done during my single life

2nd article of Feb 7

Before we are settling down and have a family on our own we all first surpassed the stage of being a childhood, the stage of a teenage life, a student life, and also the stage of being a single or our single life days.

Well, I must say first that I haven't regretted those times or days that I was still single for not enjoying the life of being a single and for not doing those things that a single lady should do to enjoy life at it's finest.

I am just going to share those times or moments that I have missed of doing during my single life because to those who doesn't know, I'm not single anymore. Well, I'm single in civil status but I'm living now with a partner.

Now, let me share those things that I haven't done during my single life.

Travelling. As I wanted to do this when I was still free but the problem is that I don't have enough money for the finances if everytime I wanted to go somewhere to see some beautiful spots. Another is that, I end up hating travels because everytime I had to go somewhere that needs long hours of ride I always get dizzy why travelling and the ending is to vomiting. That's why, when someone or a friend asked me to go somewhere to see some beautiful spots I'm not saying yes especially if I knew that it took a long hours of ride. Because for sure I will never enjoy the escapade instead I'll be tired and exhausted. Actually, I have been travelled places before but with friends. Also, it's just rare for me when it comes to travelling.

Outing with a family. Actually, we did this but what I meant here is that I wasn't able to have an outing with my family to my own credits. Like, I was the one managing and funding the outing. This was actually my dream before but I knew being not single is not also a hindrance that I can able to have good time with only relaxation and unwinding together with my family in a relaxing place.

Having an extra job. I failed to do this when I was still single. I really wanted to have a job when I was still single because all I need to mind of is to help my parents and nothing else aside from my own expenses. Because, when I became a mother or have a family I became so stressed on how I budget my money knowing that my money isn't enough as well. This was really one of the consequences I've been facing entering the motherhood life.

Night life. This one, I haven't done this before. I felt like I missed my single days with this thing. I've seen young people did some night galore nowadays and everytime I've seen them I have this thought. Why I haven't done this before when there's no one that will get angry of me because my parents I don't think they will get angry since they were supportive on me and allows me on everything. Maybe they thought that I'm already responsible of my actions which I really am as well. But I guess this won't really happen to me even if I'm still single right now because I myself doesn't also like night life. I prefer to just go to bed early and sleep instead of going out at night. It's tiring for me.

We had really those moments that somehow we felt we've missed doing especially the time that were not yet attached by someone. Because it's another story once we already in a relationship, somehow our actions were already limited.

In my case, those mentions above are the most and common things I had missed during my single life.

Disclaimer: This is already my 2nd article for today. I really planned to published 2 articles for I haven't able to published article last Feb 2. So, for me to complete 7 articles so far for this month I need to have 2 articles for today and the following day will be consistent already with 1 article.

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