According to Elizabeth Earnshaw a certified Gottman therapist,
Our parents is the reason why we are experiencing this life we had right now since they allow us to sees how challenging the world is. I must say there are different kinds of parents in this world, some were lucky of having their parents and some also were not because of some circumstances. In my case, I should say that I was very lucky to have such parent that are very supportive, caring and of course a loving one. My parents were able to give us all their six children the right to live, right to education and gives us the needs as their children since we were born and up until now. They were such amazing parents to us because they gave us their unconditional love. The love that is limitless and no boundaries at all even though there were times that we made them headaches still, they never stops caring us and loved us.
Before, when I never knew this things and my mind isn't matured yet I always felt that my parents doesn't loved me at all especially the time when I started to engaged in "puppy love" or whatever it calls, I started to had a boyfriend thing and that time I was still 17 years old. I always keep it secret to them because every time they knew they will just scolded me especially my mom. That time I felt, that they never felt the care for me and the love itself which I was wrong in the first place and I regret that time I felt that way to my parents because I was just being selfish that time and all I cared was my end and never cared for the reason behind their rants to me. For I knew they did that just for my own good and not theirs. Also, my parents does everything for us to have better life in the future and sad thing there is such times even if they can't eat as long as we their children can, that's already a very fulfilling for them.
There were lot of times that I felt the unconditional love of my parents that's when I get sick and hospitalized due to dengue and depression they were there beside me took care of me. Every time my allergy attacks me, they both there to look for me. and whatever I asked them especially in my studies they never failed me. And even now that I had already my own my family, if ever I'm struggling in financial thing they were always there to give me even if I'm not asking for it they still gives me. That is why, I am very lucky to have them as my parents and they were one of the reason why I strives for the better and work harder to reach my goals because they were one of my goals that hopefully someday I can somehow gave back to them their unstoppable love and support for me as their daughter.
Parents will do everything they can to protect, to care and to love their children. I fully understood that kind of unconditional love when I also experienced to be a parent because yes, I am already a mother with a 1-year old son. That is why I truly reflected everything and that unconditional love is truly limitless, a love that has no condition, a pure love. Being a parent, even if I'm still a newbie parent I already know how to love unconditionally because I cannot count already the amount of love that I have for my son since its countless and limitless I said. Just like my parents, I also wanted the best for my son and I worked harder for my son for me to give his needs because in the first place my son needs that love from me, from us his dad and even he won't asked for it we already gave our 100 percent love to him.
Now, as a parent I salute those who has this unconditional love for their children.
I knew someone that also has this kind of love to their child and its my friend @Zhyne06and to madam Janiza,@fredyzza07 I cannot mention you madam I don't know why.
Let's welcome ourselves into motherhood. I knew were just a neophyte moms but I knew too that unconditional love towards our child is already present in us even at the first moment we sees our kids.
Also to mommy @Eybyoung who also shares to me one time her kid who always sleeps late at night. I'm really amazed of you were you still plays with your kid at midnight. That's what a mother is and a mother will be.
To all parents out there, I salute all of you. Let's be a good parent to them and makes them felt that kind of unconditional love.
- Janz
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