Not All Things Happens For A Reason, Many Because Of Wrong Decisions

I can totally relate. When something bad happens in out lives, we settle to the saying "everything happens for a reason" it has become our escape and excuse. We sourgrape to lessen our guilt on the things that we regret to do.

That saying will become a mirror later on, later if we found out the purpose of that certain situations in our lives. Mostly our current situation is the result of our decisions, but later on that saying “Everything happens for a reason” will play it's part on the later.

Yes. Some bad things that happen to us are consequences of the bad things we did. Taking it to the pov of our body. Whem some people get old, they face many complications and their health is severely affected, compared to others of same age range. Little did they know, what they do to their body when they were young, did not just punish them in their youth, but is just coming out one by one in old age.

Yeah. It's all our fault walang ibang mag tatama satin kung di tayo lang naman din , Galing Madam!

I think that saying is only applicable to those people who are always careful of their actions. Yun bang nag ingat ka naman, pinili mo naman maging mabuting tao sa lahat at maging marangal pero nangyari pa din yung mga bagay bagay na di mo ginusto. Napahinto ko sa ginagawa ko after ko mabasa yung first 6 paragraphs 'coz it does make sense. Mga sitwasyong nagyayari sa paligid natin tapos ang tanging masasambit na lang nila nangyari na eh, wala na tayo magagawa without assessing themselves if they did something wrong or recklessly.

"not everything happens for a reason", yes. minsan kasi tayo rin gumagawa ng bagay na naglelead sa wrong decisions na nanyayare

I will agree with this too Ms. Jane. Ako din sinasabi ko lagi na, "Everything happens for a reason." Pero minsan, napapaisip na din ako na, yun na ba yun talaga. Siguro, may pagkakataon din talaga na nangyayari ang isang bagay sa di mo inaasahan, kasi sa pag-aakalang tama ang naging desisyon mo. May mag instances sa life ko na, iinisip ko'ng "Tama na siguro yun" , pero doubtful ako sa naging desisyon ko, yung gusto ko sanang umatras o ibalik yung time na hindi pa nagbunga ang desisyon na ginawa ko pero huli na ang lahat. Nangyari na ang nangyari. Gaya nung nag.cheat ako nuon kay MGD. Well, anyways, Share ko lang naman po hihi.. Pinagsisihan ko na yun..

I agree with your point mostly "not everything happens for a reason" it's our choice what we choose . Like you said if father leave job by some reason then your condition is so bad . Then why he do such work that he would leave the job. But sometimes reason happen accidentally , you don't want to drop anything related to wealth , Heath etc but it gone without no reason Thnx for this wonderful article mam jane

Yep.. usually things happens because of our wrong decision... There may be reasons why it happened but mostly reasons are from our doings too.

Yes, your publication makes a lot of sense. When we are mentally irresponsible we blame others for those wrong decisions. But even that being wrong can lead you to mend your life after your bad decisions. And take a better path which then leads you to your better destiny. It may be a long road but it can be a comforting one.

Sa LAhat Ng mga Nangyayari sa buhay po natin , all have a reason .. Godbless po😇

Yes I agree with this maam " not everything happens for a reason" it's our choice, God is only giving us a chance but it's our choice, on how we responds and overcome those situations we had. There's nobody but us to lead our self control.

God bless you ma'am Jane.🙏❤️

So agree to this, sa maling desisyon na lahat nalang sa Kanya isisisi, I mean everything happens for a reason kung hindi ikaw ang nag decide for yourself. Basta yong dumadating nalang na problema na di inaasahan, yong ang nangyayaro for a reason. Ay basta, ganon 😵

Many bad things happen without any explanation. But I agree with you that it's our own decisions that lead us to most of the situations we live in. And we're the only ones responsible for the consequences. We mostly will have options to choose when something bad happens to us, except for death. And only we can make that choice for the good or bad. Have a nice week!

If we are to judge this grammatically, there is still a reason for everything that happens or occurs in one's life but the only problem is that we are used to the future occurrence forgetting the past.

Yes, a person might die today and some will say there is a reason for his or her death and that's very correct. I mean why would the person die if there was no reason or cause of the death?

Either the reason for each occurrence in our life was in the past or it is for the future but whatever be the case, there will always be a reason for everything in life.

So instead of us saying that everything happens FOR a reason, we should rather know that everything that happens is because of a reason. Not always looking forward to why the thing happened because most times the reason we are looking for had already passed and is in the past and in this case, that is where the wrong decisions you spoke of comes into play.

Nice one Jane by the way!

Finding a reason for excuse. hard to admit but lot of People including me sometimes this kind of mindset where we just let the faith decide LOL. "Go with Flow" hahaha

Tama po ang iyong mga sinabe Ms. Jane Lahat ng nangyayare ay may dahilan, wala tayong dapat sisihin na ibang tao dahil tayo ang gumagawa ng ating kapalaran. Sisihin ang ating sarili huwag mandamay ng ibang tao, kung may pag kakamaling nagawa. Tanggapin at gawin ang tama para lahat ng pagkakamali ay maitama natin. Ako lagi ko po sinsisi ang aking sarili dahil sa mga nangyayari samin, sinisisi ko ang aking sarili kaya hindi ako nakapag aral ng college dahil wala akong talino upang mag scholar sa school upang walang bayaran sana, Pero ganon pa man Naging positive think ako na isipin ko nalang ang kapakanan ng aking mga kapatid . Sila nalang ang makapag tapos ng pag aaral 😊

I learnt from this article that not everything happens for a reason but there can always be a reason for everything we do.

The choice is ours to make, as we shouldn't give up.

Wrong decisions made because it wanted us to learned from it and reflect from it. Making wrong decision twice is another story, then for me if that so, it's already a choice. Good eve sis.

I have found when people say, "Everything happens for a reason." They are simply at a low for words. And in hindsight we can always point to A leading to B leading to C. You are right, though. Most people refuse to acknowledge their decision making process.

I get your point po. Tama, every action and decisions have corresponding consequences. Maybe, lahat ng bagay may rasn , pero nasa atin parin yung kung anong result yung gusto nating makita.

True... Someone just don't study all year and say upon his failure that it happened for a reason... Yeah and the reason was thay you didn't study hard. That's it.

Right, all this assertion are very plausible , we are human and everything happens not because its meant to happen but our actions sometimes trigger many occurrence , whether good or bad they will surely influence.

I think saying "Everything happens for a reason" is our ways of accepting defeat, accepting not to put in more effort.

Totally agreed with you when we will start accepting our mistakes then we'll see our bright future ahead it's our wrong decisions we blame it's happened for a reason

Hindi ka naniniwala sa destiny?

It would suffice to say "everything happens" because it does. Sometimes I just blame my hormones :D

What a nice Article. I really like to read a life lessons like this. I am new here and it was very nice reading some articles that are have lessons to life because I can relate and i can learn with the words of others that I can’t tell it to my self. 🤧

Totally makes sense and true also. More importantly, what lessons to take away from the situation?

As they say "humans are the architect of whatever happens to them". We can't keep blaming fate for whatever happens to us. We humans have two options, either to choose the good or bad one.

When we choose the good choice, we will surely enjoy our lives but when we choose the bad, that means the wrong decision, then we should be ready for the aftermath.

Right everything happens has a reason but sometimes it is our fault why our life become miserable ,why our decision didn't get the way we want it to be. Because after it was our choices why things happen like this .

not everything for a reason .. sometimes they are for lessons and a call to attention..

Everything does not happen for a reason. Everything just happens. It's very insensitive to say that statement to a dying person for example. Yeah, she's dying because she deserved it. Very wrong at so many levels.