The difference of being kind in this world
How are you give and share your blessings to others? How are you show your kindness side to others? As I observed other people there are two different kind of showing kindness in this world and I want to know which in these two kind of things are you.
Like What I said, i observe the others from afar
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if how they show their kindness to other people. I don’t know but while i observe them i think that “Oh! There are two different kinds of kindness?” Because they are both showing kindness but in the end it was different.
How I can say that there are different kind of kindness?
As far as i observe myself and to other people it was not different from them all of how they give their things, their blessings, from money etc. to others it is also the same as how i can share them all of what i mentioned to other people who are in needs
How about how is your way to share or give the things that you have to other people?
Because I think there are some different kinds of way how to show our generosity. It is depends in to someone or person if How they can show it. While reading a story, or watching some television I also observe the characteristics of each characters in the story. As you watch some movies or dramas you know there are two kind of characters, the Antagonist and Protagonist. What is antagonist and protagonist?
`The protagonist works toward the central story goals, while the antagonist works against the goals.`
Source: Masterclass.com https://www.masterclass.com/articles/writing-101-protagonist-vs-antagonist-characters
But! Did you know that even if they are working in different roles, we can’t change the fact that they have a chance that they will be act the same at the end because not all of the antagonist forever in their life will be remain antagonist they will still change and they will feel the same way as the protagonist feels.
Okay so How about if you see someone begging for money in the streets? How are you going to show your kindness to them?
Because awhile ago, while i was walking for going home and i stop in the other way i saw a beggar in the other street as I sip my drink I observe from a far how the other people passing by show their kindness to the person and that is the reason why i found at that there are many kinds of how we can show our kindness.
The First person is a Woman with a child. While I observe that woman, she is older around 30 years of age I think and she looks like a little rich based on how she wear her dress. The beggar call her “Madame” because she knows that the woman is rich person, by looking at the beggar’s expression and how they look at their position the beggar looks like she is begging and pleasing the lady while the rich woman looking at the beggar with a disgusted look. At first, I thought that the woman will not lend a money but I am wrong because she grab her bag and wallet and grab a dollars to her wallet and give it to the beggar with a not nice look as I walk to nearer I hear her saying “Eat some food that you want!!”
After a minutes, The second person that catch and notice the beggar is a lady. She looks exhausted because how she look. She have a messy hair, and I observe that she is working to a nearest mall as a Sales lady. She looks tired yet she still goes to the beggar place and she lend her a small amount of money and smiled. She even hold the hand of the beggar Without a disgusting look but a natural smile and she let go it and then walk away.
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As after I observe them, This are the two kinds of how we show our Kindness.
The Two things that I observed in the situation
1.In the first person, She is not good at showing her kindness to other people that we think they are a bad person because of how they look. But even if some people looks like that, they are still a kind person. They are just not good at showing or we call them as a not showy person. Even if they give their kindness like that, they are not actually means what they said every time they give but they are wishing also that they help the person that they help who are in needs.
How can I say? Because my Aunt is very strict and she look like not nice person. At first, I thought she is scary but while i’m growing up, I find her she is kind to others. She is willing to give and help others even if she is not good at being look nice.
2.The second person is poor yet she is willing to give even if it is just a small help and I can tell that she is really a nice person because she still hold the beggars hand even if they are dirty.
Actually not all of how nice person is really nice like what you think because there are some nice if you will look but at the end they will show their true colors. Just like for example, the other lady also give some money to the beggar and even smile yet when she walks and turn her back to the beggar she act like she was disgusted. Funny but there are some people like that, acting nice but the truth is they are Fake.
What is the purpose of these topic?
Well, I don’t have other intention of writing this. I already said the first reason right? I also thought that we don’t care if how we can show our kindness to others. We don’t also mind if how many amount we can give as long as it is from our Heart and we can help other people. **Small or big amount, Simple or in hard ways, the most important is we help and we can change the life of the person we helped.**
How about you, how are you show or how can you be a kind person? Are you the First, Second, or Third Person? Let me know! Thanks for your reading!
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Hey people! Another Article was finished! I become busy to my reality life and I don’t have much topic to discuss with you. Good thing that I go out earlier.
By the way, as I opened my account I was so very shock because of how huge amount I get from the bot.
But of course it was because of you, thank you for reading my previous article titled, “Can we really face our fears to be better?” https://read.cash/@Ysah/can-we-really-face-our-fears-to-be-better-8f2dca6d
Can we really Face our Fears to be better?
Everyone has their own fears in their life. You, Me, Them, all of us have the same fears in our life but sometimes we don’t.
Do you fear death? Me too.
Do you fear losing someone? Me too.
Do you fear of losing Income? Me too.
Do you fear eating gross food? me too.
We have a lot of similarities of Fears and I know that we feel the same way. But do you know that,
We Can face our Fears to be A Better and Brave Person?
Yes! You read it right. To become brave we need to face the things that making us weak. For example, If you are fear to do the things that you want to do before but you can’t because you have a trauma, you need to face them to scape from the past. Because if you will stay for being a weak person you can’t live in a happy life.
Well if you are asking me why i was talking this topic with you is because I have a trauma before. Let me tell you what happened,
*I like to go to the mall to watch a Movie with my Friends but my parent’s won’t allow me because I’m still young that time.*
*I scape in our house but my Dad saw me but I still continue to run faster and looking at my back without looking to my way on my front and then I did not know that I’m already at the high way with a lot of cars passing by and it was late because boom! I was hurt but...It wasn’t me who collided but the person who I like since I was still kid.*
I regret for disobeying my parents. I always blame myself for what happened. It’s been a long years after that incident happened. After that, I close my door to everyone, I stay on my room, I did not go out and 1 year of stop of studying. I told my Dad that I don’t like to go to the same school, in where we are living before reason why they decided to move to other house and place because I want to move on.
Yesterday, was his death anniversary. I decided to face my fear. So, even if it makes me hard to face it I still go because my Parents said that it was just a accident, It’s not my fault and he choose to do it.
I travel alone to the place where he collided. At first, I don’t like to look because the scene is still fresh to my Mind. The blood, the look of the night, the darkness around and all I can see is him...laying on the ground lifeless. It was hard for me to breath and I can’t look longer anymore so i decided to close my eyes while crying and go to his parents house but they said that they are not in their house and they go at his grave.
When I’m already at the place, his parents and his family was there and they look at me with a sad eyes. I thought they will angry to me so I decided to kneel down and I can’t stop saying sorry but they said is it’s already over and his life that has been lost will cannot be restored anymore.
Lesson to Life
We can’t live in the past. We need to accept what has been happened and done. Sure, it is very hard for us to accept because it’s very painful but we should not live in the past and move forward.
His Parents console me that it was okay. It happens for a reason and we cannot do anything about it. Maybe, their child which is my Friend for a long time really like me because he was always tells to them that He will marry me some day.
*Dear Kyle, If where are you right now. Me too, I will marry you too someday.*
After what happened yesterday, I feel better, the weight that I am holding for a long time finally gone. I can now face the high way where is the accident located and my Parents ask me if we will go back to live there but I decline because I’m happy for being like this and I need to move forward.
So hey, I hope that you can also now feel better when you face your fears so that we can be brave and become strong. We should not let our self live in the past. Okay?
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I want to shout out @Meyzeefor reading my article and this amount of big tips that she give to ***my First article!*** https://read.cash/@Ysah/my-second-day-of-exploring-and-learning-7cee01d3
God bless you always! So Thank you for reading my article today I hope that you enjoyed reading this. See you on my next article!
My second day of Exploring and Learning
Yesterday, I signed up here. I don’t know what to feel when some people notice my first blog. I feel mix emotions because after I signed up yesterday and I write my first article here...I log out my account because I’m embarrassed. What if they will just read it and they will not finish my nonsense work? What if my first article will never be consider as like how they write? They will never get interested to me, right?
But thankfully, when I visit my account in the morning, There are some many people who are commented to my account and I received a tips from them. Which is making me feel so happy ❤️
I am very thankful to @ARTicLEE , @Mictorrani , and @ExpertWritter because of how they welcomed me in this platform. If you read this guys thank you very much for your encourage and welcoming me here! Reading your comments makes me feel happy and grateful
and for the tips that you send me.
Small amount if you will see it but this is my first tips that i received in this platform which is making me feel so happy and excite to write my another blog today.
And! Oh! I also received a comment from @ExpertWritter about how to write an article here and I was very amaze because she was right here is the link of her Article: **How I write articles the Guide to the Beginners** https://read.cash/@ExpertWritter/how-i-write-articles-the-guide-to-the-beginners-3987b467
The buttons that i discover to her article if what I needed and that can be help me to write a good content articles. So that is what i did today, Exploring this platform, well the others is I already knew about how to use it because it’s so very obvious.
The @ when you will mention someone to your articles, some other social media platforms are also like this. Like in Facebook, Twitter, Instagram. Right?
The Fonts are very important because writing some blog in platforms will never be complete without different fonts.
What makes me amaze is on **how to copy and paste some links.** Oh! When I tried that earlier that is my first time but I also tried to copy some url links and paste it below the photo for example:
**I** am also learning from reading some others works, and even if I am not that good at interacting some other people because I am shy, i think I did my best to comment my thoughts on your works? I don’t know but I feel so sorry if I can’t comment some better thoughts.
And I also notice earlier that there are a lot of users writing about some challenges. Like would I rather, and Never have I ever is very popular in the home page. Can I join with you? Because I don’t have any topics to write about yet because I’m still learning.
I also tried to click the **boost**
in the top which is I learned that you can boost your articles so that it can easily notice by other users. Am i Right? So when i received some tips from the tree kind people, I tried to boost my article and if it is really working.
As a new user, I need to be careful in publishing here. So of course as a first learner I want to make sure that I am not doing some bad things. So i notice this in the 3 lines beside
so that i will be aware if what are the rules of this platform and this is the only one that caught my attention:
and I guess that’s why i notice that there’s no article such as like that here. All of what I read to my first joining here is from a decent writers of this platform. Which is the reason why I like this place.
What I want to know in this platform?
Well after reading some articles earlier, **I am curious about the robot that giving such a big amount of tips.** I want to know if Who is that? How can he give a tips? Is that a real robot or there is an anonymous person who is using that to give some tips to all good content articles?
Another thing that makes me curious is **the diamond badge beside the name of the authors.** Because of the first two person who commented to my recent article have that not just them but i also see some orange badge from the other authors. Well I have a hint but I don’t know if I am right. Maybe they are:
The Famous Authors in this platform
The admins of this platform and or;
Members of the Club
Correct me if I am wrong *(comment if you know about the meaning of that or if you know about them thanks).*
So yeah, I still have a lot of things that i will learned to this platform so please guide me if there are still things that i don’t know about. I am willing to learn from you.
Hey! I want to thank you for Reading this from the start to this end. I’m sorry if Im not fluent in writing in English. I hope that you’ll understand.
My First Article link is Here. https://read.cash/@Ysah/starting-to-blog-sharing-my-thoughts-and-learn-with-you-c4796289
Starting to Blog, Sharing my Thoughts, and Learn with you
Hi, my name is Ysah not my Real name but I will use that as my username to this platform as a writer-Should I really consider myself as a Writer?
I discover this platform earlier when I’m bored. I don’t know how to write Article but I think I can learn when I will explore to this platform right? Since, I saw a lot of Good Writers, Authors, or bloggers in the Home page, writing a good content articles. However, I don’t know about Cryptocurrencies since I also saw it here that there are some articles that contains about How they earn in crypto.
I like writing but it’s not my hobby. I just consider it as my past time when I want to share my thoughts and i think, this is not different from writing diaries? Well, I also like writing diaries when I want to voice out my thoughts and feelings what happening to my life. But, When I look to some titles of the Articles here, I think I discover a new platform that I can make it as my Bestie since I don’t have a friend that i can relay when I have a problems, and makes me feel sad.
Oh, while writing this nonsense thoughts of mine, I’m not sure but I’m enjoying it. Well, it’s been a long time since I told a little information about me but I’m scared that no one will get interested to me and I don’t like to think that! It will just hurt me. But still, here are some a sample information about me since this is my first time writing at this platform
What I like?
1.I like Reading stories in Wattpad but a horror and fantasy fiction and not romance. Do you think I am bitter? Geez...Not really!
2.I like eating banana flavored desserts. I am not a monkey but I like eating Banana flavored desserts but not the original fruit and I know that i’m Weird.
3.I like Haruma Miura but He died years ago. Which is making me feel sad but I can’t do anything now. He leaves me but still he is in my heart.
4.I like taking pictures even if I just use a simple camera of my phone. I am not professional photographer but that Is one of my dream so I use a simple camera and applications to practice my skills.
What social Media Account do I have?
I have facebook account but it’s just a dummy account and I use that to connect in instagram. I don’t use them often or should i say, I’m not a fan of Social Media and I really hate toxic world. I like peaceful and quiet life living. Maybe that’s the reason why I don’t have a lot of friends. Because I’m boring and I am very serious to everything.
Why I like to write Here?
I like to learn. I don’t know if I can really earn here but I think I will just enjoy writing here and meeting a lot of good people. Reading others stories can also make my world fun I Guess because I can explore and know their beautiful story of their life.
So that is just all the small sample informations about me since this is just the start of my life writing here. By the way, it was fun Writing here. I think i can share a lot of nonsense things with you and I’m looking forward to get to know you as well!
Thank you for reading this. This is my first article to share with you and I think I did not really write very informative article. See you 🐝
