Why cheating is too much hurt?

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1 year ago

Yesterday I was busy scrolling at my social media. I saw some post about cheating. I remember my experience. A painful experience that I didn't expect that time. I experience how it was hurtful.

Why cheating is too much hurt? It's truly hurt because you love that person. You trust that person. You expect that person that the true happiness you commit already. You expect that person will be the one for you. You cared that person. You believe that person makes you happy. The most of all, you believe that person will never hurt you.

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The reasons why cheating is too much hurt. Too much painful. Too much heartbreaking. Some are having a long time to move on. It's really unforgettable especially if you have a lot of memories already with that person.

It's not easy to forget. You always bring the pain everyday. It's really not easy. Cheating is one of the most heartbreaking reasons of the couple separation, breaking up.

Some are felt crazy because of the pain they had. To be cheated is like you are seeing only in a dark room that full of pains, heartaches. Especially if the situation still fresh, everytime you see a thing that makes remind to your partner it became worst even a lot of days passed there are still tendencies that pain will flash you a sudden.

Cheating can cause a trauma of a person when it comes to trust, when it comes to love. If there was a cheating already happened, the relationship will not healthy anymore. It will started to be a chaotic. There will always be a trust issues. Everything will be ruin. Cheating will destroy everything.

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Especially to those couple who having a children already. It's really painful to them. They are the one who will be suffer because cheating can destroy a family. Children will experience a broken family which is not really good. They are the victims.

Please don't cheat. Stay faithful, honest and loyal to your partner. Be a good partner. Love your partner. Make your partner to be happy. Don't hurt your partner. Be contented. Don't do the things that will make your partner's hurt especially on cheating.

It won't help because it will worst the situation. Don't wait the time that you always bring the word regrets. There are a lot of temptations in this world but please stay away from it.

You already know what are the good and bad things. Bad influences it will bring you to the wrong path that's why avoid it. Stay away from it. It's for your own good, not only you but most of all to your partner.

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Thank you so much. I hope I give you some learnings with this article of mine.

God bless everyone. Stay safe always. πŸ™

-JRamona20 πŸ’œ

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Ito ung pinaka ayokong mangyari na ulit sakin kasi sobrang nkaakbaliw to eh lalo na kapag binigay mo na lahat.

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1 year ago

Totoo langga. Nakakabaliw talaga lalo na pag binigay mo lahat dahil mahal mo yung tao. Super sakit.

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1 year ago

Cheating gives the same pain as with someone that lost a dear one, everywhere and everything turns dark at that particular moment. It's so bad.

The worst of it is that, cheating is now a common thing in the world πŸ’”

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1 year ago

True friend. When it comes to cheating everything will turn into darkness.

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1 year ago

Stay loyal nowadays is like uncommon in people as we are moving in new era we are becoming heartless and don't feel anything when people cheat.... Its very hurtful that we are becoming worst and don't feel guilty after cheating.....

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1 year ago

True friend and that's the saddest one. People now don't have fear when it comes to cheating.

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1 year ago

Our partner really matter a lot , Iife is a big journey and there are so many chapters ,people of different types we meet daily , experience so many things day to day basis. Cheating is become normal and I think it's due to materialistic thoughts of people.

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1 year ago

Yes friend. There are a lot of different situations we face and cheating happened everywhere.

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1 year ago

Masakit talaga siya Sis because you're going to realize that you're not enough to that person. I was a victim, but thanks GOD, nawala sya sa buhay ko:D

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1 year ago

Sorry sis. Victim ka din pala. Totoo mapapatanong ka nalang sa sarili mo. Hindi siya deserve sayo sis.

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1 year ago

Cheating hurts a lot. Presently, I don't have a relationship but I was once cheated on and God knows I was very pained. I so much detest cheating

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1 year ago

I'm sorry to hear that my friend. It's true. Cheating is really painful. πŸ₯Ί

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1 year ago

It messes with your head in a bad way, no doubt. It takes a while to get it out of your head and sometimes it makes you doubt yourself if you are good enough despite all you have done. It's really a lonely and sad road... No one wants to be on it.

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1 year ago

True my friend ola. It's the reason why sometimes we think a lot of questions in our mind like what you've mentioned. How are you my friend ola?

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1 year ago

I'm very well my dear and how are you too? I hope you are doing great?

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1 year ago

I'm glad to hear that my friend ola. I'm okay. Thank you. πŸ₯°

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1 year ago

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1 year ago

i never experienced cheating in a romantic relationship (bcoz I don't get myself into any romantic relationship haha) but actually cheating can also happen in a friendly relationship and it hurts too, like you thought you're all friends but they don't treat you the same

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1 year ago

True. Nangyayari din yan sa friendship at super sakit talaga. Akala mo totoo hindi pala.

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1 year ago

Maybe because trust was broken. Though, kahit di ko naexperience, parang di ko ata kaya maexperience ang gnun. Kahit nanonood lng ako ng movies or ngbabasa about cheating nafefeel ko na agad yung sakit ng victim.

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1 year ago

Totoo sis. Hindi yan mangyayari sis. πŸ™ Super sakit talaga sis kasi lagi nasa mind mo yung ginawa niya na parang hindi mo matanggap.

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1 year ago

I also experienced being cheated how many times. Yung lahat ng sakit hindi nawawala kahit iiyak mo pa lahatΒ² nandoon parin. Dili lalim ng bation once nagcheat ang isa ka tawo. Mahugno gyud imuhang kaugalingon labina ug ikaw mismo makasakop then todo deny gihapon. Aguyyyy,,, narecall na noon nahu ang mga times nga gibinuangan ko... Cheating is a mistake!

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1 year ago

Sorry langga to hear that. Tinoud gayud na. Maka baliw pag ma experience mo ang ma cheatan. Matrauma gayud tas lagi chaotic ang mind langga. Dugay ka maka move on.

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1 year ago

True ate sis,, mao xd nga kanunay na lng sa mind ang kahadlok once mo enter nxd ug bag ong relationship ky maybe binuangan nasad ug balik...

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1 year ago

Totoo langga. Kanang ma trauma naka maong mahadlok na mupasok ug relationship.

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1 year ago

I believe cheating will be avoided if we don't expect too much from someone. We have this ideal person in our minds and how our relationships should be that's why we expect too much not realizing it is all bed of roses when you enter a relationship. There will always be good and bad but love should win above all. If you really love each other, you make it work.

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1 year ago

True sir lee. It's better don't cheat kasi alam natin mali yun. Nakakasakit tayo ng tao.

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1 year ago

Cheating is a choice so if nagawa nila yan meaning its their choice. Wala na talaga silang pake kahit pa may maapakan silang ibang tao. Sa panahon ngayon, ganito na ang talamak ee. Aigooo

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1 year ago

Totoo sis ruffa. It's their choice. Alam nilang mali gagawin parin.

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1 year ago

Cheating is unacceptable if you are no longer happy with your partner just be honest. There is no valid reason why people cheat. marami tayong chance to explain but some are very arrogant and ma pride.

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1 year ago

Totoo sis unacceptable. Balik baliktarin cheating is not good gayud maong dili gayud mag cheat.

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1 year ago

Mao btaw maam no. Dili ba diay makuntento na lamang ta ug unsa naa nato. Grabe gi cheatan pod diay ka sauna maam nga campus crush man ka sauna.hehe

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1 year ago

Mao gayud sir. Dapat makuntento. Hehe alegre. Nag cheat nako sir. Arang hilak kay nagbasol pero wana nako hatagi ug another chance.

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1 year ago

Hahah. Maayo ra maam. Dapat lang to sa iyaha.πŸ˜…

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1 year ago

Hehe oo sir. Pag magbuhat ang tawo sang inana dili na nila deserve ug another chance.

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1 year ago

Aguy ,makahinumdom mam pud tas kaagi ani sis. Di lalim oy as in sakita ,kanang wa ka nag expect nga mabuhat na niya sa imoha. Dugay kaayo ko naka move on bitaw.

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1 year ago

Gayud sis. Labi na wa ka magdahum na mabuhat d.i niya sis. Arang kasakit. Dugay gayud maka move on sis.

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1 year ago

It's indeed painful most especially for the kid's, they are the one who's affected the most with the failed relationship of their parents.

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1 year ago

True sis. They are the first one na maaapektuhan sa nangyayari. Kaya kawawa ang mga bata pag ganun.

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1 year ago

It hurts to know that the high value you keep for someone doesn't really have a reciprocal value. Cheating is so bad and wicked. No real person who understands would attempt that.. it is so bad

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1 year ago

Yes my friend. Cheating is truly hurt. It will give a trauma to a person.

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1 year ago