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Be the Soul that Never Gets Tired of Learning

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There are endless knowledge lying everywhere one just need to notice them and gather them. When we feel hungry we feed our stomach like this when you feel you're mentally hungry just feed your brain and mind with positive words and thoughts. Maybe our life is short and temporary but those lessons which we learn are permanent. We can get lessons from our past from our relationships, from our pains _ just open the eyes of your heart and you will find everything which you need in order to make yourself a priority and happy soul.

I'm not that good weaving words or giving a good introduction , so give me your pardon and allow me to delve into my thoughts.

If You Want to Make the People around You Happy, You Must Find Your Own Happiness First. Being Selfish is not always a Bad Thing. Sometimes it's okay to be a Selfish.

Just a couple of years ago, I was so eager and interested to make others happy and content with my works. In the process of making others happy, actually I did not achieve anything except lots of knowledge & self love but I also lost almost everything, my own happiness, my dreams, my desires, even my own self. What did I earn by losing these precious things?? Absolutely nothing but longings , pains, heart aches, miseries but even after losing all these worthy things I could not even make them happy and content for a single day. I was such a failure, no I guess I was nothing but just a fool who wanted to make others happy in vain.

After suffering a lot, after losing a lot, I realized now I should just please none but my own self. But when I started to love myself, to give a little bit attention to myself , some people began to tag me as a selfish person, I'm only thinking about myself, I'm not spending my time with them. Was I a selfish? I guess NO coz I can explain about that. I was just trying to give some of my love, care, attention to myself after a long, very long period. So surely these things doesn't make me a selfish person because I too deserve all these things along with themselves. I'm not hurting anyone, I'm just trying to heal my wounds which I got throughout the years .

You can't give anything to anyone if you don't have that thing so like this you can't love anyone if you don't have any love for yourself. Giving yourself Self Love does not make anyone selfish, if even after this someone things you're selfish then let them think about you anything. Just remember, sometimes we must need to chose ourselves first before choosing anyone else, when other refuse to do.

When You Are Tired Get Some Rest. When You Are Sad, Go Ahead & Cry. It's Okay to Cry.

When you feel physically tired just go and take some rest and when you feel you're mentally tired then go ahead & cry. Our shading tears do not symbolizes our weaknesses, our fragality, it just symbolizes our aliveness.

I was once afraid of crying in front of someone but I realized it is totally okay to cry sometimes, to shed some precious pearls because our tears are the rivers of our soul, so just allow yourself to continue the flow of your broken and shattered soul. If you are getting some mental peace by crying then just go for it. Don't think about anyone or anything. You're totally allowed to express your longings and sorrows in the form of tears.

Please Count One Two Three or Think Once before You Do Anything Atrocious.

I have saw and observed the proud behaviors of lots of people who thinks they are supreme, what they think & do is absolutely right and one must obey them in any condition, they never think once before uttering anything lethal.

One must know the true power of words. A single and small word can break us, can make us, can motivate us, can demotivate us, can heal us like ambrosia, can kill us like poison. It takes the same time and energy to utter a bad and good word, though it's up to you what you will chose but one should choose a good word instead of bad words. One must know a small word has great and huge impact. So please count one, two, three or think for once before uttering anything which will only break people's heart instead of their sorrows.

Adults Can't always be Right. We Make Mistakes until the Day We Die.

Let me ask you one thing__ if someone who is younger than you come and tell you that you made a mistake and you should correct that? What will your reaction will be? Surely, you will be angry and maybe you will scold that person. It is pretty normal to do coz none of us would like our mistakes to be pointed out by someone specialy from them who are younger than us.

We thinks now we are adults so it wouldn't be possible for us to make any kind of mistakes but this idea of ours is totally wrong. We need to understand adults, old people can make mistakes too. None of us are free from error. We must need to realize that adults can't be always right because it is the most common instinct of human being and will continue to make mistakes until the day we die.

So accepts your mistakes as soon as possible, don't be afraid or feel shame for this. Your mistakes are the proofs that you're alive, you're still trying, you're still growing and learning through your mistakes.

It is Okay to be Less than Perfect

Sometimes, it's totally okay to be less than perfect as the word 'Perfection' is a myth and illusion itself. No one is perfect and no one can't be as well So it is better to show who you really are instead of hiding your imperfection because your 'imperfection' are the only things which makes you special and unique.

One should give their attention on their progress in lieu of imperfection. 'Perfection'is a mirage , the more we crave for it the more we lose our peace and happiness. So just try to be the better version of yourself, not to be perfect. By seeking 'Perfection' in yourself madly , you're just abusing your physical and mental health ,so stop comparing yourself, stop seeking perfection in yourself,, just love yourself as much as you can.

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So by the mercy of Almighty, we are able to see another beautiful, shiny, glowing, bright, sunny yet cold morning. Don't waste your day by overthinkingbsndvtry to be the love which you always wanted to achieve.

Thank you sooo much for being here with me. Thank you sooo much for all of your generous support and unconditional love.

Thank you sooo much my daily readers, commentators, upvoters, subscribers.

Irene 9.28am 18.01.2022 Lead image source :— https://unsplash.com/photos/VWP5h4fKfsM

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Nobody is perfect as the saying says and this is right. Love self is a must for self boost. Never mind those people around finding fault in others as if they are perfect. I love how you present your point of view😊. More power to you dear.

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3 months ago

Thank you for your generous words of appreciation. Loving our own selves is not a crime so we should not mind others people's words.

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3 months ago

I understand this feeling especially the one where you try to impress and make the people around you happy at your own expense. What's worse is that you never get appreciated at the end of the day. I believe its called " the Goodman's curse"

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3 months ago

I can relate to this Sis, I've been in the situation that I'm so selfish to myself. I only think about the others, without noticing that I'm hurting myself and some are abusing it. Now I became a perfectionist, but I think this is a good trait of me; just not too much:)

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3 months ago

You did a great thing by noticing yourself before it's too late. Once I pampered about other's opinions but I'm no longer that sensitive person. Sometimes it is better to become selfish just to save ourselves.

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Dear Irene, you said very nicely, adults should also accept, sometimes they make mistakes. And more importantly, it's very good for everyone to think about something before they say it, some words can break the heart, and the heart will never be healed...

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Thank you Ellen for your point of view. It's really important to accept our mistakes no matter how old we are none of us free from errors.

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3 months ago

Exactly my dear... 👌

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3 months ago

I can relate. I'm doing this for 5 months and my relatives hate me for my sudden change. They are the reason why I avoid them. They don't care and validate my feelings just because they help me before they want to own me and control me forever. Tsk!

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3 months ago

When we start to love ourselves everyone says these kind of words. By we know what is best for us and whom should we love So just ignore them and love yourself. No matter how much you try to impress them you will never be able to satisfy them.

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3 months ago

10000% agree!

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3 months ago

Iba dito saamin ehh, adults is always right haha.. Kapag bata ka wag kang sumagot.

May one time nga nag argue kami ng auntie ko sumagot ako ng may punto.. Nagalit agad ng sobra ehhh.. Tama naman ako hahaha

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3 months ago

Sometimes our oldest can make Mistakes too. They should understand this point. It gave me really heartache by listening what had happened to you. I guess you're talking about your argument between you and your aunty , I'm not too wrong. Actually I'm not familiar with this language so please give your pardon if I'm wrong.

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I think I was once in the category of those that considers People first and trade my own happiness for it, but I changed because it wasn't a good one. There's nothing wrong with being happy first before extending it to other people. It's not selfishness

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3 months ago

I was once just like you but time teaches us everything. I'm really happy now that I realized that I too matters and I too deserve love before it's too late.

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No matter what we do, we can't be everyone's cup of tea. We can't please anyone and we aren't born to please anyone to be honest. Let's learn to choose ourselves regardless of what the other people may say.

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Absolutely, we will never be able to satisfy others no matter how much we try, so it is better to leave them and give that attention to only ourselves

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