Thirst for revenge is like a Venom
Revenge is an emotion that we cannot neglect, the thought of getting back at someone that hurt us or betrayed us is enticing and it makes us feel good. Sometimes it's all we can think about. We can spend hours considering how to get back at someone and running through a list of potential ways to get back at them.
It’s a natural phenomenon, it is something we don't control but we can decide to go ahead with it or not, but one thing is certain, if you go ahead with it you won’t feel the satisfaction you seek after carrying it out. No matter the reason, you'll end up being the loser and will still be caught in the spiderweb of revenge.
When wronged, it's normal to feel bitter, but hate and seeking revenge can be avoided. Revenge and hatred kills a lot. Seeking revenge is like going about with venom, it eats you and hurts you. Not just that, but it also hurts those loving ones around you.
A lot of people have been hurt by others and some had to curse themselves for the way they were wronged. For those who've done wrong to others, think how long you'll take before you'd forgive those who have wronged you.
The effects of revenge and hatred are not just dominant to the person seeking revenge, but it would poison the relationship with other people close to him or her. It's never too late to hold back revenge and forgive instead. Be kinder than meaner and see how it works for you. There's no better feeling than seeing someone being kinder than yourself even if he or she did bad things.
Who doesn't want to get revenge? We've all been hurt by someone. At some point we all dream of the day when we get our revenge. But hate and revenge only hurt yourself. It eats you alive.
Once I got into a fight with a guy in school, he was constantly picking on me for weeks. We were interested in the same lady which added to our beef. He chose the wrong victim because I was cunny and witty back then. I answered every prank with a prank, every insult with an insult. I felt great, powerful like I had the upper hand... until it came back to me and hurt me worse than ever before
The more I tried to get back at him, the more it hurts me. I started missing classes and not doing my homework, I lost interest in my hobbies, my grades started slipping and my parents got really worried about me. All because of one guy
Revenge doesn't solve anything or even fix things. The poison that anger gives you is too strong and on top of that, it spreads. You can end up hurting people who don't deserve to be hit at all.
Revenge is a really sad thing to do, you'd be better off without it.
Revenge is always sweet and at times you are wondering if seeking revenge will be worth it. For example, you see somebody all happy because they have done you wrong. It will be sweet but there is a way to get your revenge and in the end, it will make you feel great, you will feel better than the person who did you wrong.
Revenge doesn't have to be serious. Why don't you try getting your revenge by being successful by working hard to get things done?. Instead of seeking ways to harm that person back just channel your energy towards something positive. When you succeed it will hurt them more.
Have you been betrayed at some point in life? Or has someone done something to jeopardize your growth or success? Prove to them that their betrayal and scheme aren’t enough to stop you. Let your success be your revenge.
Conclusion
Revenge doesn't solve anything or even fix things. The poison that anger gives you is too strong and on top of that, it spreads. You can end up hurting people who don't deserve to be hit at all.
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Revenge doesn't really resolves the problems. To forgive other and improving yourself is the best form of reform