A Heart Forgives

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Happy Blessed Sunday Everyone!

In this fifth Sunday of Lenten season of the Catholic Tradition, God reminds us the importance of showing love and mercy to other people through giving of forgiveness. But how can we give our forgiveness to others if our hearts are full of anger, hatred, vengeance, disgust, and dislike? How can we show our love and mercy if our hearts and minds are even preoccupied with lot of deadly sins like pride, envy, greed, lust gluttony, wrath and sloth? What we need is to confess our sins to God. Through sin, we are disconnected with God's grace and love. Through reconciliation, our hearts will be cleansed. If we have a clean heart, it is easy to forgive.

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The way God forgives us is different the way we forgive our brethren. For today's gospel, it talks about a woman caught in adultery. According to the law of Jews, Moses commanded to stone that woman until she dies. My question is, is that really the will of God to take away one's life? Like an issue of divorce, Jesus said that the reason why Moses allows a man to separate his wife just because the people are hard headed or stubborn. My point is, divorce is not the will of God. But if the relationship of the couple did not work anymore because it is getting worst when they live together, better to separate but never to love and marry again with another man or woman.

Going back to the main topic, everyone of us is deserved for second chance. God gave us hope despite how many times we failed and committed mistakes. He forgave us when we are begging and asking His mercy and forgiveness. He remains faithful even if we are unfaithful to Him. We rejected His call. We ignored His commandments. We failed to love Him back. But God is slow to anger and He is full of mercy and forgiveness. But we should not of course abuse His goodness.

Love the sinner and hate the sin. That was what Jesus did to a woman who caught adultery. He gives hope to a woman for a change. He did not even condemn the sinner but He forgives the sinner. Instead of giving punishment to adulterer, He commanded the woman to go and sin no more. If Jesus did not condemn nor punish nor judge the woman, who are we to give penalty to someone who committed sins? Who are we to kill the sinners who are also deserved for second chance?

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One time, we have a good conversation with my officemate. We talked about politics and he said because I am loyal to the church my presidential candidate is Lugaw. I never react. Within our long conversation together with my wife, he mentioned the death penalty to be imposed again in our country. I explained to him the stand of the church with regards to that issue and quoted some Bible verses. I told him death penalty is not a work and will of God. He cited a crime like rape. He insisted that rapist should be penalized to death. Then I told him, what if it happens to your brother who will commit rape and he was scheduled for electric chair? Could you not feel pity for your brother? He was silent.

Death penalty is not really the solution. We are not God to take away one's life. If Jesus gave hope to a woman who caught in adultery, why we christians especially in the government allow to kill some drug addicts, users and pushers? They were just victims of lack of proper guidance from the parents or in other cases maybe, they were the victims of corrupt and greedy people. Why not to punish the drug Lords? If there is no drug lord, there's no drug. If there's no drug, no more addict. If there's no addict in our society then we live peacefully and less crime will happen. Love the drug addicts and hate the drugs.

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Writer's note

I wrote this article based on the real situation of our society or country. Let there be God who will reign in our hearts to have peaceful mind. If we have received God's mercy, who are we not to give mercy to other people? If we are loved by God, who are we not to love others even to our enemies? If we have given chance to change and renew our lives, who are we not to give also our brethren an opportunity to be hopeful despite of being sinfulness.

Forgiving is the best expression of self-love. If you forgive, you free yourself from hatred, pain, agony, anger, hatred, vengeance and stress, thus making you free yourself from sickness and malady.

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Don't interpret my article but reflect and meditate. Don't judge me, because who am I to judge you too?

What is your insight to this article? Feel free to make some comments below.

Thank you for reading.

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It's really hard to forgive sir. But I am also against in imposing death penalty as punishment of a crime. As you have said, we are not in the position to take lives. Also, in our justice system here in our country nga daghang napreso bisan walay sala, lisud gyud ibalik ang death penalty. Atu ra bang sistema diri kay mapalit ra/mahayluan ug kwarta.

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Sakto gyod ma'am Yzza. Mao nay nakadaot sa atong system. Luoy gyod Ang pobre ani. Mapatay gyod og walay Oras Kay buhaton manang tanan sa mga Datu aron lang malikay sa punishment. Dili gyod Ang death penalty nga maoy kasulbaran sa mga crimen. Ang root cause maoy solusyonan.

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2 years ago

Forgiving is easier said than done. However, if we really want to have a peaceful and harmonious life, we gotta learn how ti forgive other people and ourselves as well.

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2 years ago

Yes that's true. Sometimes we forgive not by heart. It's up to the tip of the tongue. It's really easy to make some advises to other people but for ourselves, it's difficult to say sorry. But after we forgave or have forgiven, there's a peace within our hearts.

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2 years ago

We tend to forgive other's mistakes cause we want also them to ease their sentiment. But sometimes there are people making mistakes many times and that we can't call to have another forgiveness to them.

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2 years ago

To be empty of grudges in our hearts, let's forgive even how it hurts our emotions. Forgiveness is next to peaceful living.

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2 years ago

I always affrim of that but not everyone are willing to empty their mind willy-nilly it's hard to erase great hatred that we have.

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2 years ago

True christian forgives. If others don't forgive, who am I to judge them? I understand if they're like that.

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2 years ago

Yes, sir we can't judge immediately maybe that the way they are. I agree with that true christians forgive. Cause God's word always prevails on their heart.

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2 years ago

You have the point my friend. Thanks for your additional insights. I appreciate it much.

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2 years ago

We have to grow our humanity towards people.... sometimes we get angry and don't forgive them even though it is not right

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2 years ago

It happened for a reason my friend. We get hurt that's why we don't forgive. But a life which is full of anger and hatred is a disgrace. So let's forgive one another.

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2 years ago

madali lang po ang magpatawad,,pero hindi po tayo nakakalimut sa kung anung ginawa sa atin na hindi maganda lalo na at hindi naman talaga bukal sa puso niya ang paghingi ng tawad..

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2 years ago

May mga taong ganun talaga kaibigan. Hindi galing sa puso Ang paghingi ng tawad. Pero at least nagpatawad Tayo. Wala na tayong pananagutan sa Panginoon at sa kapwa.

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2 years ago

Hello, karon pako kabantay ikaw diay tong bag o sa gc. Hehe

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2 years ago

Oo ako to ma'am. Si ma'am Zhyne man Ang magtudlo namo sa akong misis niini. Officemate man namo.iya partner. Salamat sa pagtagad.

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2 years ago

We should have more faith in humanity. Because we lack this, the govt. officials tend to address the problems using the harsh ways.

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2 years ago

There is no more human rights. Sometimes, others were killed but they were only the victims of greediness of among government officials.

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2 years ago

Its hard to forgive specially you have done your part as an individual. Once is enough twice os too much its okay to forgive bit sometimes you need to set limitations to yourself becuase it may cause other people depends on you all the time

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2 years ago

I got your point my friend. There's a limitation when we forgive. Sometimes we give also condition so that they will not do it again.

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2 years ago

I agree that God forgives no matter how you sinned but not to fact that you are already forgiven but repeat to sin. With regards to the law of death penalty I am in between or I am not that sure where to stand especially when we examined both sides of the cases, when it is done brutally what could be our feeling to the doer of the crime. Don't get me wrong, its just my thought though.

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2 years ago

Total conversation is the turning point to God. Once forgiven, we should not do our mistakes or sins again. But as human as we are, we will be tempted in many ways and sometimes we failed.

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2 years ago

Forgiveness is limited. We tend to forgive those minor mistakes and often we are accepting apologies for at a time, not twice cause we know if we will forgive twice or more we are being abused. Thanks for you Wonderful advice sir I've learned alot. God knows what's our motives.

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2 years ago

Maybe God will understand us if we put limitations in giving forgiveness to others. It's hard to forgive when such fault is done repeatedly. Better to avoid them so that their faults will never happen again. But, we still forgive them.

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