December 1, 2021

This is my first post this month. I failed to be active, I'm really sorry. I failed my promise and my goal. I am just a human you know?

Instead of feeling bad, I rather be okay with being human sometimes. I'm lazy and don't have the thoughts to share, but today, I have it. I want to share a message. I think you need to know this.

Earlier me and my close friend at work went to Uptown Bonifacio Taguig. It was our first time to get there and this is for the reason I saw a post on Uptown BGC that they are giving for free the The Fact Photo book of BTS if you shop and accumulated amount of 3k in your shopping.

I bought toys and educational tools for my nephew. It is my gift for him too and to help him with his study. After I shop for 3k, I gave the receipt to the concierge to get my free The Fact Photobook.

After I received my The Fact Photobook, we went to Fila store and I posed there in front of BTS standees.

We had a snack before we left and it was quite a satisfaction because the stock of the The Fact Photobook special edition are only a few. When I got mine, there are 4 Photobook left. There are people wishing to have it. I am glad my impulse and instinct is right, that the stock is on limited edition and you need to be there to get yours, ASAP!

While travelling heading home, I begin to think about the different reason why people are born. There are people born to hurt you, to teach you, to guide you, to support you, to make you happy, to make you sad, to make you insane, to make you successful, and to make you a better person.

Perfect example, BTS is my Crystal Snow. BTS has a song called Crystal Snow and the message of the song is, the one that gives you courage to live. They are not the solo reason though, but they are one of the reasons why despite the challenges in life, I am still looking forward to the next day, because the next day gives hope. I am looking forward of seeing them in person very soon! They give me courage and hope.

My family is one of my motivations. My family's story is what I look back when things are under control. It always reminds me that problems is part of our lives, that I have been to same situations and emotions before but I managed to survive with their help. I look back to it and face the day. I won't last a day without my family.

Same case with some people in my life. They become part of my growth and development as a person. I was hurt and beaten, but I stand from the scratches and wounds and choose to fight for my life. Not all of them are good, but not all them are bad either. I treasure both because they completes me, and I welcome other people that I will meet in the future too. I know that meeting them is the perfect ingredients of my existence.

Get deeper in connecting to people

Get deeper in connecting to other people becomes it will means a lot to them. Be the reason why someone will smile today. Share a joke that will make them giggle. Maybe they are having a bad time, maybe they are just hiding it, but when they started to laugh they gives out the toxicity in their life and the feeling will lighten for sure.

Be the reason why someone will fight for their life. Maybe someone might not ask you to share your own story, your own struggles, but sometimes, by sharing a little bit of it, will make them realize they are not alone in the battle. They will realize someone like you have been through it and you survived it, they might do the same.

Be the reason why someone will start taking care of themselves because they are seeing you taking of yourself too. Share what you do, why you are doing it or maybe you just show them and they will realize something out of it.

Be the reason why someone will stand up for what they know is right. Your life story is your wisdom that you will share to them. For sure there are times in your life that you have been judge and criticised hard by the people around you, but you choose to fight for what you believe in yourself because you alone are the one who knows yourself more. Be that person that make other people stronger.

My message and thoughts might be simple but the impact of changing the lives of others means a lot.

Like these people, I felt out of place here in Read but one of my friend @Bloghound invited me here, thinking I was not a member still but I was a member but not active that is why she haven't seen me. She introduced me to her friends here that I felt I belong instantly. She become the reason why I get back to this platform. She knows I live sharing my thoughts and encourage me more. The rest is history, I am enjoying the site!! Thanks also to my sponsors, they are the reason why I continue to write here.

I am the Reason why she stayed

I have a closefriend at work. We were not that close before though, but we become closer more during pandemic because we are part of Skeletal Workforce. Then after a year, I think the bond get closer and closer because we finally get to know each other. I noticed she starts to share about her personal problems to me and I am open to giving him advises and wisdom.

She was in the middle of depression last year. She always cry at work. Even if she haven't started working she is stress already. She cannot manage it anymore that is why she always talks to me. I am always available for her because I don't want to see her suffering like that. I become her older sister. I feel I am oblige to look for her because I understand her situation. I have been there and it was really depressing. I am always there to help her.

Just recently I found out that she decided to quit working last year because of depression. She changed her decision because she knows that she will not find someone like me somewhere else. She stayed because the people she is working with are the people she needs. I became the reason why she stayed. It makes me happy that without awareness I helped souls and saved souls too. Isn't it great that you become the reason why someone survived living?

Again, be the Reason why other people will have a courage to live. Be the reason why they become stronger. Be the reason why someone continue to live.

Images are mine.