Let Everything Happen Naturally

There is no need to rush things and no need to control the situation. Let the universe deal with it. If things are supposed to happen, they will happen. And if they aren’t meant to happen, they won’t. You are doing exactly what you need to be doing, and you are exactly where you need to be.

Talk about your feelings calmly and kindly with those around you. Chances are that they are feeling the same way and are just as anxious as you are. And even if they seem like they aren’t, their feelings may still change when faced with constructive criticism or new information. You won’t know until you talk things out calmly and kindly. But remember not to force anything. Don’t force relationships, don’t force friendship. You don’t have to feel guilty for how you feel or how you treat others. You can treat others with kindness and respect, even if your own emotions continue to fluctuate wildly.

One of the biggest mistakes we make in life is that we try too hard to control situations and people. We worry about things like “When will he finally ask me out?” or “What am I going to say when she tells me she’s leaving the company?” We try to picture how a situation should go, or how someone should react, and then we set out to make those things happen.Life doesn’t work that way. Things don’t go according to our plan and they never will.In fact, trying to control situations and people is a recipe for disaster. We often upset others and wind up getting hurt by our own actions. And in the end, we have no one to blame but ourselves.

The truth is that we have no way of knowing how a situation will unfold, or how others will respond — so all we can do is trust ourselves and trust life.

Don't push yourself too hard, don't wish for things too much. If you keep doing this, your life will only be a series of disappointments.

Don't wish for what you don't have — it will only make you unhappy now. Work on the present instead. Your future is an uncertain thing — there's no point in worrying about it.

Don't blame anyone else for your failures — it's not their fault. If anything, blame yourself. You were the one who didn't give it your best shot, and that's all there is to it.

Don't take things too seriously, especially when you know it's not that big of a deal. But do take it seriously when it actually is a big deal — then you'll be taken seriously, too!

The people around you will do what they do, and you can't change that. The only thing you can change is whatever part of their behavior is affecting you — and maybe not even that.

Don't wish for things too much, don't want something too badly. If you keep wishing and want it, you get tired of it. If you don't want anything, you'll be relaxed and happy with whatever comes your way.

Don't push yourself so hard, don't be so desperate. If you keep pushing yourself hard, you'll end up frustrated and exhausted. If you have some leisure time, take it easy. You should be relaxed and at ease with your life, relaxed to the point that is as if there are no problems whatsoever.

Be gentle to the people around you, most importantly be kind to yourself. No matter what you face, the time will come where you can get over it. Don't wish for things too much. If something you have always wanted comes, savour it and then move on. There are many other things awaiting you in life and you need to meet them with your grateful heart.

I admit I fall short of my internal standards but I am still proud of myself. Never stop trying your best and trusting in yourself. Sometimes things don't go the way we planned, but have faith as things will fall into place in the end. You are not alone on this journey, I see the smile on your face, I hear your voice of determination, and I know soon enough I will see you succeed.

Be happy with what you have, be satisfied with what you are now. Don't wish for it, don't long for it. Wish is a longing, and longing is a desire, and desire is the worst curse that can happen to a person. You know how a camera works; I hope you do. When you move the shutter to take a snapshot, the lens automatically adjusts itself to the focal length of the shot. Sometimes the picture is out of focus and sometimes it is perfectly focused. So what does the photographer do when she doesn't like the photograph? She doesn't blame the lens or the shutter; she doesn't blame herself for not pressing the button firmly enough. She simply presses it again.

Just a little bit of advice for the coming year 2022

Don’t push yourself too hard, don't wish for things too much.

Don't set a goal that seems to be in reach but as unbelievable as it may seem.

Don't take advice from people who have no clue what you're going through.

Don't forget where you come from, where your roots are.

Don't stop dreaming or wishing.

Don't be afraid to do what others tell you is impossible.

Don't give up on something you wish for or want to do or become.

Don't leave anyone or anything behind, you'll need them.

Don't think you're the best, because you're not.

Don't let the little things get to you, they're just little things after all.

Don't give up at the first failure, keep trying as much as you can.

Don't care what others think of you, if they're thinking something then they obviously have