40kg of my sweat is gone.

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3 years ago
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I am sorry I have to post this here tonight, I just felt like pouring out my mind so that I can feel a bit better because no one would feel happy to have worked all day and have nothing to show for it.

Early this morning I did some sorting at the farm.

While I was doing it I got a call from one of the bars I do supply when I have fishes that are ready for sale. She begged me that she needed 40kg of table-size catfish and I made it clear to her that my fishes weren't ready for sale.

She pleaded and I agreed to pick 40kg for her, I gave her my price, each would cost $2 for each and she said it was too much. The fish feed is very expensive and it has affected the price, she wasn't listening to me so I ended the call.


I continued with the sorting, the sun came and I had to stop because the fishes might be affected by the heat. I sat patiently at the farm waiting for electricity but it didn't come so I went home to make my meal. I was not feeling comfortable with the ponds not having enough water so I went back to the farm, this woman called again and started pleading for me to beat the price down for her. After much talk, I eventually beat the price down for her and she was grateful.

I waited till 3 pm, finally, power was restored and I started with washing the ponds before pumping the water.

I took out her 40kg and left it in an empty pond so when she comes, we will do the measurement and that would be all.

I filled all the ponds but she didn't show up so I called and she said she would be coming soon, that was around 6 pm. No one showed up, I called if I should go deliver it because I was very tired and wanted to go home but she said no.

I couldn't even use my phone, I was just sharing the things I was doing at the farm on noise.cash.

She said I should help her pack the fish in a sack that she would pick it up when passing by. I did as she instructed and when she came around, I just carried it and gave it to her.

I was feeding the other fishes when she called me again because I didn't take cash from her immediately due to the rush. I thought she called to ask for my account number but I guessed wrongly, she said "what kind of fish did I sell to her?".

I was surprised, I ask what happened and she said that I gave her dead fishes. My surprise became a shock, I left the farm at once and rushed to the bar.

I was first embarrassed by the security because I was looking unkempt due to the dirt on my clothes, I found my way through to her spot.

I saw two plastics filled with fishes, one filled with lifeless fish, and the others were very okay. I was speechless, I told her immediately that the dead fishes weren't mine but she started raising her voice.

I became speechless, I called my witnesses (neighbors who saw me when I was packing the fish). I even called some kids on phone and they testified but this woman kept claiming that I sold to her dead fishes. Immediately the bar security came saying I was constituting a nuisance, I felt sad because I always avoid trouble as much as I can.

The woman then came to my side to ask me quietly that what should we do about the fish and it became clear that she had a bad intention I didn't know about.

I told her to dispose it and I left it there in anger because I could do something silly that would get me arrested, I was really mad. I went home with tears in my eyes because I am going through a lot with the fishes and I didn't deserve to be treated that way.

All I did was help and trust her with my stuff and she made a fool out of me, 40kg of my sweat was wasted. Today's stress was just too much for that to have happened to me again, everything made me really sad.

My younger brother was ready to go make it a big issue but I didn't want to be famous with such, people who didn't hear my story would go about spreading shit about my fishes. I feel really hurt but life moves on, today I learned a new lesson about life and the business.

There should be a limit to the trust we have for people when dealing with money, people can go to any length just to own what belongs to someone else.

I wouldn't be able to go around everyone's articles now but I will do that when I sleep and wake up. I am not in the right state of mind, having anger and sadness mixed in one feeling is something I usually don't experience so handling it seems difficult for me.

Trust you all had a better day than mine? Wishing you all a great weekend.

Thanks for reading.

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I feel sorry for what happened to you. You dont deserve to be treated that way. Good thing you manage to control yourself in order to not create a commotion. I admire your patience and self-control. What goes around comes around for her.

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3 years ago

There will always be a reward for whatever we are good at doing, be it good or bad.

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3 years ago

You did the right thing by walking away instead of doing something you regret, I am so sorry for what you have been through. Despite everything you are still a huge inspiration to me, not just because of the fish farming you do, but also because of the person you are. You are set such an amazing example for so many of us and people like this person - they will get what is coming to them. Lies, dishonesty, karma always comes back. Sending you all my positive vibes, this week coming will be a better week for sure...

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3 years ago

I say a big amen to your prayers and thank you for the support. How are you doing today?

Things like this teaches me lessons never to trust people with my goods, what if she came to buy a tonne or more? It would have been a debt I might not recover from.

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3 years ago

Omo, I don't know why most people are like this, have faced similar issues back then, mine was a design though, the thing go tire you to rate, you just have to let it go and learn your lesson.

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3 years ago

That's true, fighting would bring more problems. As long as I have learned my lessons, I am good to go.

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3 years ago

Oh my, I am sorry that this had happened to you. A good business woman would never do that. I hope she will be bothered by her conscience and do the right thing...

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3 years ago

I blocked her contact already, I really don't want to have anything to do with her again

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3 years ago

That's perhaps the best thing to do.

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3 years ago

That's perhaps the best thing to do.

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3 years ago

It is really good to be simple and trust others, but sometimes our's this habit can make us fool and it can do a lot harm to us,. She is indeed a wicked lady and she will definitely pay for this cheating. O can't believe how a human being cheated intentionally to other one. You need to be extra careful.

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3 years ago

Yeah I have stepped up my relationship on how I interact with people when it has to do with business.

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3 years ago

Geez! She scammed you!, I'm sad on what happened to you. I pray that God will payback all of your sacrifices, pay you back doubled.

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3 years ago

Amen buddy, thanks for your prayers. It means a lot to me.

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3 years ago

Always Welcome Buddy, You are included in my Prayers.

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3 years ago

Such people are scum on the earth who try to betray others and took advantage of their honesty and sincerety. Don't worry, She would be punished by Almighty.

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3 years ago

I will let God handle the rest, I really don't want to get into trouble with anyone.

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3 years ago

Is she your regular customer? She intentionally did that so he couldn't pay you back..she's so bad. Let karma handle it.

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3 years ago

She is a regular, I guess she has been waiting for the perfect moment to take her shot at me.

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3 years ago

I am so sorry to hear about this George. How could she do that to you? Oh God, I am so sad to know that there are a lot of people like her around who always take advantage of others for their own satisfaction.

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3 years ago

She just proved to me that she is human without a bit of conscience but I will let things be and pray that God bless my remaining fishes.

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3 years ago

Tuviste un día agetreado y de mucha tensión pero al final valió la pena ya que vendiste productos que te dieron dinero así podrás alimentar a tu familia y darte gustos. Linda noche adoro lo que escribes ya que te entregas cada ves que lo haces. Mi saludo desde Cuba

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3 years ago

Chai, I was just wondering that I don't see your posts again for some days and I decided to check on your blog and i got to realize that I mistakenly click unsubscribe, my hand will not stay one place....

What I came across about your fish tonight sadden me , but why will she do like that, that's why we must not put much trust on people, they will always behave like human that they are.

You are trying to help her but she is planning evil against you, it's indeed a great lost for you , apart from the stress you passed through while sorting the fishes... That's very bad😔, God will replenish everything everything you lost back to you...

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3 years ago

Amen, seriously I felt really bad because I looked like a fool. A leaf won't fall from a tree without God's consent.

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3 years ago

Yeah, she has thought you how to deal with people when it comes to business...so Sorry about that.

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3 years ago

This is disheartening and I am so sorry, brother. I believe she knew what she was doing and obviously they were not your fishes which is why I believe she was stalling. You knew the sizes you supplied to her so you would have known the sizes you saw. This is sad. I hate seeing and hearing stuffs like this because this is someone's hard earned sweat. She is another person that would make up your success story. That story would not be sweet without wicked people as this.

She will do it for someone that would get her arrested, don't worry.

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3 years ago

Thanks man, I really appreciate the support and love. The money hurt but not as bad as the stress and how I felt with the way she was acting.

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3 years ago

She is a perfect schemer... She is horrible and I know God will compensate you.

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3 years ago

So sorry for this kind of experience, the woman must be a wicked person to act that way. From the narrative you gave it seems she plotted everything before hand.

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3 years ago

I thought as much after putting the pictures together, it looked like everything was staged.

I leave the rest to God though.

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3 years ago

I am so sorry George. You didn't deserve to be fooled like that. Being a fish farmer myself, i can imagine your pain, considering all the effort, pain, money, and sweat put to rearing those fishes to table size

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3 years ago

It is really annoying but God knows the best.

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3 years ago

She took advantage of you. What a spiteful woman! There really are people in this world that doesn't look at the efforts made by the other person. They just always consider what satisfies them. What goes around comes back around!

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3 years ago

It is really annoying, some things happen to teach us lessons that would be valuable in the future.

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3 years ago

What! This is saddening. I can remember seeing your post on noisecash. Karma will catch up with her. Some people are just so heartless🤦‍♂️

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3 years ago

It was really a stressful day, I believe that what is hidden to man is visible to God.

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3 years ago

Damn 😰 40kg is no joke, so sorry about the loss sir. That woman is definitely evil and you should stop dealing with her. I guess the fishes got stressed while in the bag, and she was the cause of it. We should all be careful with the way we deal with some people, some of them are really heartless

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3 years ago

She taught me a lesson, such won't happen again.

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3 years ago