Hello everyone it's me again, how was your day so far? Suppose today I'll be going to write about my one year of existency from this community it's been six day's since I turned one year and I haven't write anything about it. My mind today is being preoccupied with a lot of thoughts. Thoughts that somehow keeps on bothering me the whole day. Honestly I really hate myself for being a pro on overthinking. I don't know why I can't get rid of this negative traits of mine. This is affecting me so much.
Honestly, I was just worried about my partner. He haven't been online for one day and I don't know what's happening. Well I am not worried about his safety, because I know he was fine. He already worked to that country for two years before, and so I know he was safe. My worries is about his food. Yesterday, he told me that they still haven't received their food allowance, and no one is giving them any food and yet they are already working. Their work is heavy and if they don't have food they can't work properly, and that's what makes me worry.
So this is our last conversation in messenger yesterday. He showed me that his food is only bread which is they called kubos and a coffee for his breakfast, as his money was just 3 Riyal. He can't afford to buy more food for him as he don't have any more money on his pocket. I got worried as their boss didn't even care to give them food and yet it allows them to work.
I can't afford to think that he was working with an empty stomach. I am worried that he might get sick, and yet I can't do anything to help him because I am a million miles away. This is one of the biggest disadvantages of being in a long distance relationship. Whenever he/she needs your help you can't do anything but to overthink.
Then if they get sick, you also can't be at their side to take care of them because your too far.
That is why for those who are also in a Long Distance Relationship please be considerate, and don't stress your partner/husband/wife too much about your nonsense drama. I have seen some couples who fought because of some nonsensical misunderstanding and it's really annoying actually. Well anyway it's none of my business, so let's not talk about it🤣.
So as I am saying, let's not be selfish. They are all alone there, and no one is helping and taking care of them but their self only. If you think your struggling because your wife/husband is away from you, think about his/her situation as well. Their situation is not easy as what you think your situation was, because they are literally alone. So before you make your drama think twice if you really care.
Third, you cannot be updated to their daily happenings as sometimes they would choose to hide those bad day's from you, as they don't want to make you worry. That is why sometimes when the situation is already worsts you will just get confused and surprised as you don't know anything. This is hard, because sometimes it is already late to give help, and there is nothing you can do anymore but cry.
That is why always be gentle to them and be considerate. Stop complaining about your struggles, as they are also struggling abroad. I am not saying that you shouldn't let them know what is happening to you as it may also bring negative impact to them. What am I trying to say is before you complain try to solve the issue first before asking their help most specially if it's about money.
Anyway this is all for today, as I don't think that I am still making any sense here anymore. I'm sorry again.
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I feel you dear. May mga times talaga na nagiging nega na tayo sa mga nangyayari..Yung tipong hindi na tayo mapakali, tas humanhantong sa hindi pagkakaintindihan. It sound ridiculous pa kung ang pagsisimulan ng away is nonsense lang. Hehe. Hirap yung gusto niyo pag-usapan in person pero yung distansiya yung humahadlang sa inyu. But of course, isa din yan sa magpapatatag sa relasyon.
Tas isa pang problema kapag yung partner mo is may pinagdadaanan din ba personally, lalo pa pag financial pag-uusapan or about it. Wala ka'ng ibang magawa kundi i.comfort lang siya. Struggle is real din talaga pag ganito.