Before we throw a word to someone, think twice as we might judging them wrong. And not because they look poor, they deserve your judgement. It's not like that, we are human so don't act like a wild animal.

Do not judge the book by its cover.

I really felt sad and devastated, after watching the YouTube video that was been uploaded one day ago, in sir Raffy Tulfo's YouTube channel or RTIA( Raffy Tulfo In Action). (RTIA is a Filipino broadcast journalist YouTube channel. )

If you haven't watched the video, you can check the vedio from this link https://youtu.be/FmVZIMW2Uo0.

It is about the couple Tiktoker's who created a content, in their TikTok account for the sake of fame. The video was stating that the grab delivery rider who sent their order, stole one of their order. According to the couple, after they check their order it was incomplete. In the vedio, the management of the food chain where they ordered their food , admitted that it is possibly their fault, not the delivery rider mistakes. But for the sake of likes and views, this couple still uploaded the vedio without considering the fact that the delivery rider was innocent.

I really feel sad that the delivery rider can't afford to go back to his work, because of their inconsiderate actions. I feel pity for him, while he was talking teary eyed. The embarrassment that he gets from the people who judge him, because of that video, brings some trauma to him . He even ask the couple, if why they still uploaded that vedio even after they found out that the food chain make the mistake. Just for the views and likes, you will make a scene to embarrass others?

According to the couple they tried to contact the delivery rider after their video went viral. Because I think they also get negative reactions from their viewer's and that made them realize their mistake. They wanted to make some settlements with the delivery rider, but the delivery rider refused their offer, as he have been already stressed with what they did. It bothered him a lot, specially that he only learned about that video from the people he knew. Because they are teasing him and asking him if he truly stole the food of his clients. It broke his heart that his being judge behind his back. And yet the couple don't even look so sincere with their apology. The boy even insisted that they are not expecting that it will cause some problem to them, while the girl says that she didn't mean what she says. Because for her, she was hungry that time, and she can't control her words anymore.

But the point was, the damage has been said and done. They made the mistake because of their inconsiderate actions, they judge the person who only wants to earn for its living. Why they didn't even make a pause and make a second thought about their Vedio?

Does public apology enough for them to be forgiven or does they really deserve some punishment for them to learn some lessons? Nowadays arrogant people are rising. They don't think about the feelings of others, because all they want is fame.

It is also hard to be a delivery rider. They faced a lot of problems too, from traffic, to unpredictable weather, from shine to rain, to inconsiderate client's and to a judgemental client. I feel sad for those delivery rider who only wants to earn, but get judge. Don't they know that clients/ business owner sometimes also make the mistake?

I just can't help myself not to react with what I have seen from that vedio, because my partner is a grab delivery rider too. He also experience being judge and threatened.

Let me share my partner's scenario.

One day a stranger called to my partner's mobile phone, he address his self as an online seller of beauty products and he had once made a transaction with my partner. According to the caller he booked a delivery and the rider who get his booking was my partner, one month ago. He says that his client complain that the item that she received was incomplete. Some item was missing and according to that seller, he pack the orders accordingly and its completely sealed. My partner can't remember which item and who's the recipient because its been a month. Then after their conversation another stranger called to my partner's mobile number. Addressing her self as the recipient. So now she give the details, everything including the address and the item's that she received. So my partner went to his transaction history and found the recipient details, but not the items details.

The question is, why it took them a month before they complain? So we conclude that it's maybe a trap or something scam. And besides as far as my partner remembered, the item was sealed, so how come that the online seller and the recipient pointing the mistake to him? So my partner says that he didn't take anything from her package and besides she received it completely sealed. Now the seller and the client say's that they will asked a refund to my partner because the item that was missing was amounting 1000 pesos. My partner refuse, because it's been a month and why they blaming him though both of them know that the package was sealed. He don't know what's inside, he just do his job. Now the recipient threatened my partner, that she will make a police report against my partner. And she even says that will make sure that my partner will lose his job and she will spread my partner's profile for awareness. And since my partner knows that he was innocent, he dare the client. He told her that he will wait for it and he will surely leaves a heart react to her post if ever he saw it in any social platforms. But until now there's no police report and no spreading of his profile lol.

This is all for now my dearest readers and writers, you can watch the video from the link above so you can also give your own opinion.

Thank you ❤️😊

Authors message:

Let's not be an attention seekers just for fame. I know there are some delivery rider who are naturally rude, but there are also some delivery rider's who are naturally good.

Please extend our patience if they arrive late, as they also face some struggle in finding your address and besides from that, consider the heavy traffic that also makes them late. Don't just rate them negative, specially if they are a grab driver's, as rates service for them matters a lot. Negative rates bring's low delivery bookings for a grab driver's. And not because you are the client you have the right to order them to wait for you, for over an hour, because times is gold for them. Every tiktak is counted as they need to get another delivery to earn more for their living and for their family.

Let's all be considerate each others feelings, as we all know, it's not only them who needs a client. Clients/ business owner also needs them it's a vice versa.

Disclaimer:

My message is just base of what I observed, and little knowledge about how hard the job of a delivery rider. You still have the right to say your own opinion and views.

Don't hate, just love.

Don't be rude, just be good.

October 29,2021 17:40

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