In our life it was really necessary to appreciate and to accept each ones uniqueness. We must also pay attention to everything that we have, everything that we receive and everything that people can give just to support us.

Everywhere within this wide universe, we always need love, respect, acceptance, and appreciation in everything all at once. Don't be naive and hold a stone heart, and don't be the reason of someone's demotivation.

Hello there lovelies, its me again. How was your weekend so far? I wish your doing good and having a great day with your love ones and friends. However wherever you are and whatever you were doing please stay safe.

So basically today I am still using my partners laptop on writing this article, as I am not yet done transferring the important files that my phone has. Its so many, and since I cannot spend my whole day in front of my phone and to the laptop as I still have a toddler, I think I can restore my phone by Tuesday or Wednesday, hopefully. Honestly what happen to my phone is a total trouble to me.

Anyway I don't wanna talk about that, as I don't wanna waste your time for nothing, hehehehe.

Furthermore today what I want is to share with you a lesson again that I somehow learned from the movie that we watch last night. Actually I can tell that the lessons is a perfect reminder to all parents, well basically I can also says that its for generally, as sometimes we fails to appreciate everything, even appreciating ourselves we oftentimes neglect as we are busy. So this time the movie was called EVERYTHING, EVERYWHERE ALL AT ONCE.

This movie was found in Bili-bili app by my partner. He saw the trailer so interesting somewhere in facebook, and so when he arrive home last night he recommend this movie to me. He says the movie looks good and the genre was about powers and assassin's so he was expecting that I'm gonna enjoy watching this movie, hahaha . He knew that I love powers and magic's when it comes to a movie. It was just one of my favourite genre. However this movie isn't actually about magic, that is why I become even more interested to watch it. The movie last for more than two hours to watch.

Anyway, I don't wanna spoil this movie, but for your curiousity, I would say that this movie is quite good and funny at some points, so this is for all ages.

This is also a bit confusing, and a bit dramatic, something like that. Does it already sounds confusing? Lol. Well the movie is really confusing and if you won't pay attention for sure you wouldn't understand the message of the movie, as the movie contains two different universe. Hehehehe.

So basically from the movie, they really demonstrate how important this Five big words, ACCEPTANCE, RESPECT, HAPPINESS, LOVE AND SUPPORT in our lives, specially inside our home. In our own family, and how humans toxic mindset can took away someone's freedom and life.

Nowadays, with the kind of society we have, acceptance becomes even more harder to accept as toxicity becomes trend.

Hopefully, despite how toxic the society we have this day, we should still remember that acceptance start from within us, not from the society. It must also start from our own family, and from inside our home.

To our own self, it was also really important that we accept and embrace our weak spot, our imperfections as none of us was perfect. We have flaws, and we have differences. We shouldn't recreate a new self, because of what other people want us to be. We shouldn't live our lives according to what the society want us to live. Our life, our rules.

However inside our home, we must also limit our expectations to each family members. As parents we must learn how to balance everything, specially to our children's . Allow them to have their right to decide, to choose what they want to be for their own happiness. Not because we are their Parents/guardian we must forced them to live the kind of life that we want for them to have. Our children's must learn how to live independently, and not dependent to us. Our children's are not our puppet's.

We should also remember that respect starts from us. We also needs to show respect to others, before we demand some respect. However, nowadays we usually encounter people who demands a big respect for them, but they act so disrespectful.

In reality we really can't force people to respect us, but we can always respect ourselves. Respect is a priceless and we can give it to everyone for free, so don't be greedy. Respect each ones choices, respect each ones uniqueness and be respectful.

Love and Support

Perhaps love allow us to support each other. Love allow us to be the best version of ourselves. Love allow as to follow our happiness. Love give us freedom.

However, sometimes in reality we also fails to give the support and the love, that our love ones once needs. We ignore and invalidate their feelings, and we sometimes becomes selfish. We oftentimes forgot that we all have different perspective, choices and we all have different stages in our lives. We become unaware that what we are doing is opposite to what our love ones want's. We become naive , because of our expectations and perfection. We eventually become cold and living with a stone heart.

In conclusion;

Everything within this wide universe, are all different. Generation to generation things do change. Everywhere we go, we shouldn't expect that things will remain the same, as facts nothing remains the same. We can't change some ones fate by the help of our expectations, and by our own perfectionism. We can't decide for someone's future, as each one of us has the different fate.

Everywhere within this world we needs acceptance, needs love, we need to see each other's little efforts and gives appreciation and support as we all deserves to get appreciated.

No body was born perfect, but everybody was born with a high expectations to one another. Sometimes with the humans toxic mindset, it lead's the person to lose her/his freedom. Because of a humans toxic mentality we lose humanity.

We are fighting against each other, as we wanna show that we are stronger than to anyone.. We are fighting because we wanna control everything.

Lead image was my own screenshot from google.