I don't want to be partial or one-sided after writing to the ladies out there, so I have come to tell the guys too what I have for them. Guys nowadays now take s*x in the exchange rate for any help done for a lady. I have pondered so much about this and all other things been done by guys to ladies and I am like why?

There is a saying that " not all snakes are edible" and that's to tell the guys that not all ladies you can sleep with. What's even the point of sleeping with someone you are not legally bonded with or what's the point of premarital s*x before marriage. Wait readers, am I even talking about marriage that guys no longer pay attention to or courtship that will lead to marriage.

I can remember my dad telling me how he was able to woo my mom to marry him, the stress he went through and all in those days. But it's no longer like that, guys and ladies of nowadays just see themselves anywhere in the street or club and before you know it, they are already sleeping with each other and pregnancy comes in, is that the proper way to do things? Let the question keeps ringing in your mind.

A lady or guy being a virgin nowadays looks like a sin cos they now take it as a norm. If you are still a virgin, it means you don't know what you are doing, that's how the world sees it now. I have always heard the jokes that it's good to test what you are about to buy before you buy it, which means you have to sleep with the lady you said you want to marry or date to know the type of woman she is and all, hmmm, what a bad mentality.

Guys now sleep around with anyhow ladies, what they have in between their legs is what is deceiving them and not allowing them to think straight. It's not every lady you sleep with, guys, know this and know peace. Don't take s*x in exchange for any kind of help you want to render to ladies, no wonder the ladies we have now no longer want a guy to help them cos of what the guy will say to them.

So many guys out there are just empty vessels roaming around the street because the lady they slept with has taken something from them. If I should start going spiritual about it, many will hiss and be like it's a lie and I expect that from people because the truth is bitter to the ear. For every lady you sleep with, she takes something from you, know this and know peace.

S*x is what you will do when you get married to the person you said you love, so why in haste to do it when you will probably enjoy it for the rest of your life? No wonder, people are in a hurry to make a lot of money when they can be patient enough to work hard and eventually get it for the rest of their life.

The funny thing about this is that most of the guys aren't ready for a family and if mistakenly the lady got pregnant for them, abortion will be their perfect solution and if there is no way for that and the lady gives birth, there won't be money to take care of the child and when there's no money, there won't be proper attention given to the child. The child will grow up to continue in his dad and mom's foolish steps and that's what has brought doom to this country that we are.

My cry and warning

Desist from unwanted sex or premarital sex, it's life-damaging if care is not taken, it can also destroy one totally. We never might know what the so-called lady has on their body and that's how so many encounters bad luck in their lifetime. There is this slang now that says "chase the bag to secure your future", which means we should have work and have money for our future to be bright, don't go after what is not adding anything to you at the moment. Look for what will be an advantage to you and venture into it. It's painful seeing children hawking and suffering due to the incompetency of their fathers and mother, don't go around sleeping with ladies when you can't be responsible to be a father.

I think with this little cry of mine, many will take a bold step to make corrections after realising their mistakes. Thank you so much for your time, thanks for reading, I really appreciate it.

Bye for now 🥰🥰🥰.