What other people value but you don't.

AUTHOR: OMOJUWA FREEDOM
DATE: 3 January 2022

We all have something that other people regard highly or value, but we show little or no concern for it since it doesn't really matter whether we have it or not, and it doesn't really define who we are.

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For things people value, For me I just think they are much but I would love to share just 3, which are

1. BEING UNDERSTOOD

I was recently chatting with a friend, and she thought I completely misunderstood a point she was making, but I didn't; in the meantime, I was just trying to keep the conversation going and not get bored, and she might have gotten irritated during that time, though she did not inform me, but I clearly knew through the conversation.

I won't dispute that it's delightful to have someone who understands you when you're trying to make a statement, but I'm fine with being misunderstood since I believe it's inevitable for someone not to grasp what you're saying, and we can never be comprehended by everyone.

While I was writing this article, the same buddy sent me a voice note of her singing. Her voice was really good, but I tried to joke with her that I was expecting something better, and she took it way too far. I attempted to explain that it was a joke, but she didn't believe it. It's natural to be misconstrued from time to time, and you simply have to tolerate it.

2. BEING LOVED

Even if you put on your right mentality or personality, not everyone will love you; there are just some individuals who don't care, even if you've supported them in the past by showing them love; they are who they are, and you can't really change them.

Even if you strive to emulate someone else in order for them to like you, some people will still reject you. So the best you can do is just be yourself and love others, and those that care about you will undoubtedly love you back.

It's fine not to be adored by everyone; at the very least, you have some people who actually care about you, and even if it's just one person, I'm sure you're content because someone actually genuinely likes you for who you're.

3. BEING FAMOUS

A colleague recently asked me whether I would prefer: "being wealthy and famous" or "simply being wealthy without fame." Obviously, it didn't take me more than 5 seconds to respond, which is because I just prefer to be wealthy and enjoy a life where I can help others in need rather than brag about it.

I just want a simple life encircled by my loved ones, and I want to make them wealthy as well. Whether they want to show off or not is up to them, but I want to be wealthy without the fame.

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