Friends

Some people find it easy to make friends, however I find it tough to handle when it comes to establishing new friends. I'm not sure why, but it is. I've recently started deliberating more on having conversations with people of both genders, which is more daunting. Even though I have a lot of female friends, we aren't close; we merely converse. Every now and then

sincerely, I really have some awesome friends that match every Vibes you throw at them, some friends we rarely meet because of school activities and work but we still check up on each other through social media as the day passes, while some other friends we rarely talk, see or have conversations through social media but once we meet somewhere or at a location we do talk and vibe till we have to go on our separate ways.

while some friends we only talk through social media because of the location distance and we may never see again, while there are some friends we do see each other everyday and we talk every day, and every type of friends I have mentioned and didn't mention, they all affects our life in one way or the other.

There are friends with whom we share a lot of personal information; they know a lot about us, especially those with whom we grew up, and even those with whom we did not grow up know a lot about us, since we share a lot with ourselves and the more we do, the closer we become.

some people have this issues of Having problem with friends that are very close to them and for that reason they don't talk anymore and the vibes will just disappear. for me it's really weird because I haven't experienced this personally and I can't even imagine myself fighting with my best friend that I'm very close to and knows everything about me.

Why do some people have problems with their best friends? They simply don't have friends who tend to be their friend for a long time; they always have friends at first and then discover that their friends don't just show interest in their friendship, and they begin to wonder whether the problem is their fault or not; the truth is that they know the reason but aren't open to that possibility.

Some people enjoy this solo ride, a life without friends as long as they have enough anonymity; they don't need friends to talk to until they fall asleep at night, and they don't want to open up to people because it makes them anxious; they do have several lonely nights but they are happy about it; I'm not trying to say it's bad, but I don't want this kind of life; that's why we need friends.

Final thoughts

If you don't think you need friends, that's fine; I'm not against it. However, when it comes time to celebrate your winnings, you'll have to do so on your own, and if something bad happens, you'll have to cheer yourself up on your own.

Developing intimate friendships has a variety of effects on our life, including our emotional and spiritual wellbeing. They assist us in overcoming feelings of loneliness or isolation.

Aren't you all blessed with wonderful friends?

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