If you are going to be a good husband first at home. There are some expectations from your wife and children.
🖍️ Give her gift.
It is very funny that some husbands and pastors don't know how to give their wife gift. They are good in collecting offering in church but they are stingy to their family.
Some men doesn't know the size of their wife's *under wears,foot wears,and clothing*. You need to surprise your wife. Women are created to be a receiver while men are created to be a giver. If you are not a giver it means you sent your make up. God is a giver and you must be as well.
How we you travel as a husband and wife without buying a gift for your wife?
🖍️ Respect your wife.
Respect they say is reciprocal. If you want respect from your wife respect her too. In the public don't shun her off, Respect her opinion in matters in decision taken,don't see her as weaker vessel carry her along in the journey of life.
If you are a minister of God that rubbish your wife in the church by giving her systematic insult you are not a man of God sorry to say.
You wife is a helpmeet in all ramification ministry inclusive. I have not seen a sane man that will rubbish, insult or molest his helper.
🖍️ Try to solve her problems and needs.
The needs of your wife is your responsibility. Either she is working or not. The day you say yes I do you are saying you are now able to add more bill to the bills you've been paying before.
She need :
Caring and petting and cuddling
Good clothes and shoes.
Good food and cream.
She need adventure.
She need good surprise package....
🖍️ Don't be too far from her.
Keeping distance from wife kills them gradually. You may be sleeping on the same bed and with her and you are far from her. How?
Taking decisions without her.
Giving he one syllabic answer whenever she ask question.
Nothing eating her food.
Going out to outing alone against your practices.
and many more.
She also want you to be
🖍️ Be very neat always. Don't be a dirty husband, throwing your cloth anywhere at home.
She want good smell from your body as you make love with her.
She want faithfulness
Your wife hate infidelity. She need your 💯% attention and faithfulness solely to her. Keeping too much girl or ladies as friend is suspicious to her. If she question you on that don't be angry. She is only keeping what belong to her.
Don't be too inquisitive
There are some men that want to know details of everything that transpire when he was not home. Trust your work wife. Don't lock her at home and given her unnecessary boundary.....
CONCLUSION.
One of good things that may ever happen to a man of God is to have a good giving wife.
You incomplete without her. If you are so useful in the church caring to church members, applauding them for what they are and doing in the church without doing the same to your wife you are as good as useless.
Your ministerial achievement will not be reckon with if your wife and children are neglected.
Be wise!
Wives also needs to satisfy their husbands accordingly.