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@FashTioluwa 10 April 2022

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@FashTioluwa 10 April 2022

What killed her (A true life story) The news of the death of Osinachi Nwachukwu a gospel singer was a big shock to the world and the gospel music industry, she is popularly known for the song she sang title "Ekwuema" this song was a prestigious song that got the whole country (Nigeria) blessed, the lyrics and sound was spectacular, so her death shock everyone when it was announced. It was announced that she died of cancer, but after several days, her family spoke up that it wasn't cancer that killed her, her elder sister "Ms Favor Made" said her sister (The dead singer) had been suffering from domestic violence from her husband. Her husband have been beating her all this while they are married but she refuse to leave the marriage because she believe God is against it in her religion, also churches and open shoe might not invite her to sing at programs when they find out she's divorce, I guess she was scared of what people will say and how they would see her. It was later reveal that the cause of her death was there were clusters of blood on her chest which she suffered from the kick her husband gave her, after she fainting, he took her to the hospital without informing her family, it was after some days he the family knew, after she spent 5days in the hospital, she finally have up the ghost. "He will beat her and collect money from her and leave her with nothing, he also threaten to divorce her if she provoke him, also he said he won't let her visit her twin sister and her family members in Abia state" claim her elder sister to the vanguard news paper. For more news on her death, you can click **here** https://dailypost.ng/2022/04/10/osinachi-family-reveals-cause-of-death-of-ekwueme-singer-husbands-whereabouts/ Her death will make a great impact in the gospel music industry, as many musician are coming up with different theory of what she should have done in that kind if situation, as many support the decision she made, many opposed it too. Even with all this argument, her song will forever remain in people heart. The Issue on ground. I have been having this thought, who can we really blame, can we blame her for making that kind of decision, many said her decision was influenced by the kind of world she lives in, because if she had divorce, its this same self righteous people that will still condemn her, but now that she's dead, many are saying she should have divorce her husband. Can we blame the family for not stepping in on time, me as a person don't like to mingle with people personal relationship problem because I don't know I live their life, but when I find out a guy is beating my sister, married or not, I will step in and he would never do that in his life again. Or should all the blame be on this husband, growing up, I never saw my dad rise his hand on my Mom to beat her, so if I grow up and beat my wife, it shows I have never learn all those time I was growing, it would be a slap on my dad and my family, probably the husband had a bad childhood and needed a therapist to help him. Anyways we lost her and it pains me to say we would never get any special and life inspiring song from her again. Please speak up again domestic violence before you die in it. Spread the news and save a life.

@FashTioluwa 9 April 2022

Some Basic First Aid you should know for home accident As many of you will know, there are times accidents happen in our home, it is not a must it be a big accident that can take life but we mostly forget that even a little accident can take a life if not properly handled with care. Today I will be telling you some Basic first aid everyone should know. **Lead image source** https://unsplash.com/photos/17oHCCMnPqo Living in a well comfortable home, everyone should have a first aid kit at home and some things should be present in this first aid kit, these include **Bandages**: these are used for holding, dressing, and immobilizing fractures or injuries **Disinfectant**: use for cleaning and disinfecting the wound **Antiseptic wipe**: used for cleaning wound Cotton Wool: use to clean tools **Gauze Bandage**: for dressing wounds and for cleaning Pins and Clips: for holding dressing **Deep Heat and Oilment:** To rub on swollen wound **Bottle water**: storage of water, but you can always have that at home **Disposable gloves**: to keep your hands from tampering with the injury **Face mask**: now compulsory, but is to protect you from inhaling any harmful substance **Scissors**: for cutting I'm going to make this explanation simply because you all need it, I will sight examples and ways to counter it based on an accident that happens at home. Bleeding **Image source** https://unsplash.com/photos/7zAMkdSrZM0 When a child or a person is using a knife or any sharp object and gets a cut from that sharp object, the first thing to do is take the person's injury to a comfortable place, then you start the treatment, if blood is too much, wash with clean water to know the where the cut is, then stop the bleeding. If it is a small cut, you can ask the injured person to put pressure on the cut that is allowing the outflow of blood, the tip of the finger can be placed on the cut and after some minutes, the bleeding will stop, you can then disinfect, then dress it. If the cut is bigger than the tip of a finger can stop, there are two ways, if you don't have the first aid kit, if the bleeding is from the elbow down to the fingers, you can ask the person to elevate the injured part above the heart level, that is, above the head, then get help, or take the injured to the hospital. If the first aid kit is with you, you fold a pad with your bandage, a square shape pad, then add a direct pressure on the injured part, tie the pad to the hand then take the person to the nearest hospital. For Nose bleeding, Place the person in a comfortable position, like a chair, leaning forward by allowing them to face down and get a small bowl of sand so that the blood drops into the bowl, the reason is that if the injured person sees his or her blood on the floor, it can cause them to go into shock, Pinch the nostrils at intervals Apply a cold compress to the face, in case of severe nose bleeds, insert a clean pad on the nostrils and apply pressure by pinching the nostrils. Seek medical assistance. **Note**: •• Never bend the injured person's head backward Fainting **Image source** https://www.istockphoto.com/photo/accident-and-assistance-gm491309410-75681237?utm_source=unsplash&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_campaign=srp_photos_bottom&utm_content=https%3A%2F%2Funsplash.com%2Fs%2Fphotos%2Ffainting&utm_term=fainting%3A%3Asearch-explore-top-affiliate-outside-feed%3Adisabled There are mainly two kinds of things that cause fainting. Lack of flow of enough blood to the brain Too much flow of blood to the brain. How will you know the cause of fainting when your friend faints beside you or a family or relative. You will know from the face, that it is either the face is pale or flush, how do you know the difference? for the pale face, this is caused by the lack of blood in the brain, you use your hand to tilt open the fainted person's eyes, if its completely white, then it is a pale face fainting, give the causality enough space for ventilation, then rise the upper part of the causality body and seat behind them, after some times, they will come back. This kind of fainting is mostly caused when a person has been standing in a place for too long For flush fainting, tilt open the fainted person's eyes, if it is very red, then there is too much flow of blood to the brain, give space for ventilation then rise the lower part of the causality body( the legs) up, after some time, the person will be conscious again. This kind of fainting is caused when a person is positioned upside down. **Note**: There is a big difference between fainting and unconsciousness. And we are dealing mostly with frequent home accident Hot liquid on the skin **Image source** https://unsplash.com/photos/A4Gy_rEdsdA This kind of injury is caused by hot water or hot oil in our home, when such happen, how do you apply first aid, firstly, when something hot pours on the surface of your skin, remember this, do not scrub or use a cloth to clean the surface when it happens. Put the injured part under running water, clean water Cover with a clean nylon Take the injured person to the hospital The reason why it is advisable to take the person to the hospital is that as a layman, you don't know the degree of burn the causality has sustained, but with a proper examination by the doctors, proper treatment can be applied and scars can be avoided. That will be all for today, I will come back with more simple first aid tips you should know so you can save a life that matters to you. ***Thanks to my sponsors, to my new subscribers, I may not know you all, but I appreciate you all, to my tippers and commenter, people that like my article, much love from my side to you. Stay healthy and let's live in a peaceful world together.*** Article type: First Aid (health) Date: 09:04:2022 Author: FashTioluwa•••••

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@FashTioluwa 9 April 2022

Feels like its raining all over the country except for my city, Ilorin, I wonder why, in my city, water has been so scars, all he well have dried up, I have to go several mile before I can get water to fetch, recently I see people uploading on their WhatsApp status talking about rain, also on read.cash, I don't want the rain for the cosy weather, I want it for water😭😭😭, I need water. Rain rain fall today, please don't come another day, big fash need some rain water.. I can't even go that distance again to get water.. All my hands are in pains

@FashTioluwa 8 April 2022

Loving me was her greatest sin (part2) This is the continuation of the first part of **Loving me was her greatest sin.** You can click on it and catch it. The day went fast and it was closing time, everyone rushed out of the class, as I stepped out of the class, I saw her walking towards me, she got to my front and asked, what is your name, at first I thought she was joking, I was the talk of the class today, everyone gossiped about me, so how come she didn’t know my name I told her my name is Paul, she replied ok and turned around, I stretch out my hand and help hers, what’s your name too, she turn around and look at me in shock, she also looks at her hand that I held, immediately I left her alone, she turns and walks away, I saw still surprised by her act, I couldn’t move, I just stood there and watch her walk away, when she got to the end of the corridor, she turns back and look at me then scream, “My name is Abigail, and don’t ever hold my hand again” girls and their drama I thought After 2weeks I became used to everyone in the class, I and Abigail became close which surprised everyone, they believe she doesn’t have a tongue cause she only talks when asked a question by the teacher in class, she doesn’t smile or chitchat with other classmates, but to their surprise, I was the only one she talks with. One day, during our last term in senior high school, I asked Abigail about her family, and she was glad I asked, she said, I thought you would never ask. I'm from a very rich home, I have 4 siblings, and I'm the last child, also the only female child, most of my brothers are overseas studying to take over my dad's business, but I don’t want to be like them, I was surprised, so what do you want to do, I asked, she said she wants to dance, she wants to be a dancer, immediately she invited me to her house, her brothers are coming back to the country for a holiday and her parent have planned a small welcome party for them this weekend, she wanted me to be there with her, I wasn’t too sure, but I ended up promising to come since it would be weekend. The days went so fast and it was Saturday already, I went to the address given to me and I found myself standing in the front of a very big gate, could this be her house, this place is just too big to be her house, probably a government house, I didn’t have a phone to call, so I knocked, I was shaking where I stood, a very huge man came outside and asked what do I want, I said I'm asking of Abigail, he looked at me, from where, he said, I replied from her school. He placed a call through to the main building, after a few minutes, I saw Abigail rushing to the gate, she jumped on me and hugged me. I was surprised because that was our first hug. I went in, immediately I had regret of coming, I stood out because of the cloth I was putting on, I wore a jean and a polo top, while everyone was on suits and blazers, I kept getting the question of, who are you looking for? When Abigail noticed I wasn’t comfortable, she took me to her room, we were there, talking and laughing, I have never seen her so happy before, I could count the amount of them I have seen a smile on her face, but this time around, it was different, she was more beautiful. Since it was her room, I was scared, and I requested to leave, but she said no, the party wasn’t over, I walk over to where her bed was because it was so different from mine, even better than the one my parent slept on, I sat on it, and she asked, do you like it, I said yes, I have never seen such big bed before, and I never knew she was this rich, at that moment her countenance changed, She walked towards me, my heart began to beat so fast and loud I could hear it, she stood in front of me as I sat on the bed, she said, Paul, I never knew I would fall in love with anyone, I never knew love exist until I found you, I have always wanted to tell you, I gave you hint but it was like you never saw them, Paul, I love you, and would want two of us to be a thing.  The truth is that I also love Abigail, but I knew the difference in class, I have lived on the hash side of the world, I know the world doesn’t approve of the love between the poor and the rich, I stood up and put my hands on her shoulder, looked at her speechless, as I was about to tell her the bitter truth, she kissed me, at the same time, her door open and her dad walked in, he saw us, he then rushed towards me and gave me a hard slap on my face, he started beating me up, Abigail was shouting and this attract more people to the room. Her dad told the people around that I was trying to rape their daughter and more clap kept coming in, she tried to defend me but her brothers pull her away. I was thrown outside, I ran like a thief and cross to the other side of the road not minding the moving vehicles, to my surprise, I saw Abigail running towards me as her brothers ran after her, at that moment, everything happened so fast, I saw Abigail on the road bleeding as a truck had hit her, I was just there standing, I wanted to move but I couldn’t, my body wouldn't obey the command my brain gave them, her brothers were there trying to carry her lifeless body, I still was looking at her, I didn’t know when I was mob, someone hit me from behind and I fainted. Tears rolled down my eyes as I explained it all to my cellmate, my parent couldn’t do anything to help me, they don’t have the power or money, all I could say was **Loving me was her greatest sin** The END Thanks for reading once again, I really appreciate all the love you show me in part one of this story, if you haven't read it, you should. Also, I would like to thank @Mictorrani for the renewal of my sponsorship. I remain grateful to you and the rest of my sponsors. Article type: Love story Date: 08:04:2022 Author: FashTioluwa

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@FashTioluwa 7 April 2022

Do Not Close Your Eyes (A murder case) Chills went down Jacob's spine as he read the news headline that says; **Another body found in Ikeja city**, he wondered who could be the psychopath that went around killing people, this was the 7th body that have been found in Ikeja city, the police have delayed it to be a serial killer, the last corpse was found very close to Jacob street and since then he has been on high alert anytime he comes back home at night. On this faithful day, Jacob had been working on a project at his office and this contract was a once in a lifetime contract that can change his life forever, the only thing that was remaining was the signature of his boss, it was 6 pm already and his boss hasn't arrived yet at the office, he placed another call to him Jacob: sir, I'm still at the office waiting for you so I can get the document sign, I have to take it to the insurance company tomorrow morning, very early sir Boss: Give me some minute, I will be done soon, I'm in a meeting with the next coming governor of the state. Jacob: how long should I wait sir, you know... Before he could finish, his boss cut him short Boss: Jacob, I just told you I won't be long, just give me some minutes, ok. (And he hangs up) Jacob's concern wasn't about getting the contract sign, he guts just told him to leave his work early, he thought to himself again, **probably all this bad news I have been reading that's making me unsettled.** After waiting for 2 more hours, he was scared to call his boss because he doesn't want to get on his bad side, he checked the time and it was already past 8 pm, he went ahead to continue his candy crush, after 10 more minutes, his boss called back and said Boss: Make sure to be at work as early as possible so I can get the contract sign, I'm just leaving the meeting and I can't make it back to the office because of the traffic, I'm sorry good night. (And he hang up) Jacob became angry and frustrated at the same time, he took his bad and head out of the office, how could he do such to me, keeping me till this hour and didn't bother to show up, that's just pure wickedness, he mutter as he walks down the stairs. He walked straight to the bus stop and to his surprise, the street was scanty with people, and it's very rare when this happens, even during the lockdown people were out in the street making a living. How would I get home now, he thought to himself. He began to walk towards the second bus stop hoping to get a cab that would take him home, before he walk half the journey, a cab pull over and ask if he was going his way, he said yes and hop in. He got to his bus stop and made the necessary payment, it was normal for people to be in their house by this time in his street cause of the serial killer, as soon as he remembered, fear came back rushing at him, he started walking fast towards his home, he was the only on the street, thank God for the street light still works, he kept walking so fast that you wouldn't know if he was walking or running, as soon he made the next turn, he bumps into a man and his bag fell to the ground, sorry the man said and helped him pick up his bag, he was putting on a face cap, weird people in Ikeja Jacob said, why would he put on face cap at night, he thought to himself, as the man stretch Jacob bag to him, he put Jacob head closer to his making it look like he was going to kiss him And he said, **DONT CLOSE YOUR EYES WHEN YOU WALK IN THE DARK,** he then let go and went on his way, those words gave Jacob the chills of his life, Jacob's heart had almost bust out of his chest, he turned toward the way to his home, he started running non-stop until he kicks a big bag like material and he fell to his face, who would put a waste bag on the road, his the street light wasn't working there, he put on his cell phone touch to see want had made him fall, and behold, it was the corpse of a man covered in blood At that moment, he freezes, he couldn't think, should I run, should I scream, should I be calm and call the police, as all these thoughts ran through his mind, he saw the same man with the face cap walking towards him with a knife in his hand, Jacob survive instinct kicked in, he jumped on his feet using his hands like a Chinese get-up style, he became to run and scream for help, he shouted like he was left behind during rapture, as he ran and scream, the man stopped following him and scream at him, Do Not Close Your Eyes. Till date, Jacob hasn't closed his eyes, he is on high alert in case the killer comes back. The End. What's up peeps, this is a fictional story I just wrote up now, what brought the inspiration for this write-up, I had the topic written down 2weeks ago, and it was from a dream I had, I wasn't the Jacob, it was more like I was watching a movie in my dream so I put it into writing. Thanks for reading, I hope you enjoyed it... My recent article **Loving me was her greatest sin****,** part 2 will be out tomorrow, you can catch up on it and stay tuned. https://read.cash/@FashTioluwa/loving-me-was-her-greatest-sin-9646640a *****Love you all, don't forget to sub and comment.***** All images used are gotten from unsplash.com. Article title: Do not close your eyes Date: 07:04:2022 Author: FashTioluwa

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@FashTioluwa 6 April 2022

Loving me was her greatest sin Bartsan academy is the school every child wants to go to, they have the best teacher and teaching facilities, the school was made only for the rich, my name is Paul and I’m from a poor background, my dad is a mechanic and I do help him in his shop. The news of the scholarship exam I took in Bartosan reached I and my dad at his shop in the afternoon while we were repairing a man’s car, when the letter was brought to us, I was the first to open it, I saw the admission and approval of scholarship letter and tears rolled down my cheek, I told my dad everything the letter said and he was very happy too, we close down for the day, went hope to celebrate with my mom, oh, I forgot to mention, I’m the only child of my parent. I had to transfer from my previous school to the new school where I have no friends, before my resumption date, I was given my uniform and all the other things I would need, I got off the bus and headed towards the gate of the school, the gate was so big, I saw different cars coming to drop different boys and girls, everything there looks new and amazing. After the morning assembly, I went to the principal office, he was glad to see me and he took me to my class, immediately we enter, all eyes were on me, I was a bit shy and scared at the same time cause I know everyone in that class are kids of some prominent people, he principal introduce me, said I was a transfer student and I would be joining their class today, he gave me a seat and I went straight to have my sit. After he left, 3boys and 2girls walked towards me and were like. 1boy: what’s your name? Me: Paul 2nd girl: not a bad name 2nd boy: what school did you get a transfer from 3rd boy: his dad must be pretty rich 1st girl: you don’t need to answer them, ok? So tell me, what profession does your father do. Me: he is a mechanic 1st girl: whaoo, you mean your father builds car, you must be very lucky, what car brought you to school today? Overwhelm with all these questions and talk, I remembered back in my previous school, my dad was one of the most respected and well-known man in the school, he was a mechanic and most student-parents take their taxi cab for repair at his shop, also he provided all I need, I was also among the first to pay their school fees, I eat well and also looking good, so I felt I could also brag about my dad to my new classmate. **Thanks to this wonderful people** Me: No, my dad doesn’t build car, he is a mechanic, he repair car at st Johnson junction, he own a shop there, he also have many customers, I do help him sometimes at his shop. Also…………… Before I could finish, they all busted into laughing, I wonder what I said wrong, have I said anything funny, as I was still confused about what just happened, another boy from the back shouted and said, he is one of the students that got in through scholarship, they shouted “oohhhh” and walk away. The day was almost over and no one has said a word to me when the literature teacher walked in and asked a question about one of my favorite books “purple hibiscus”, he said, the death of Kambili's father, was it the fault of her mother or the father's fault? I raised my hand to answer so did another girl, I looked towards her place and saw an unfamiliar face, has she been in this class all along, I did scan through the class but didn’t see her, she was the first to answer, and her voice was like date of lady sing, it was melody to my ears, as I listen to her, I was also against her opinion, I was asked to answer, I went against her opinion with my point and she was surprised I could tackle her, she look at me again and smile, I began to blush but kept a straight face. The day went fast and it was closing time, everyone rushed out of the class, as I stepped out of the class, I saw her walking towards me, she got to my front and asked, what is your name………….. To be continued. Lead image from unsplash.com, also I would like to thank @FarmGirl for the renewal of my sponsorship. I'm really grateful Article type: love Date: 06:04:2022` Author: FashTioluwa

@FashTioluwa 5 April 2022

April Fool gone wrong The first day in April is a special day where you get to prank a friend or someone you love, this kind of prank is done to get closer to friends and loved ones, I don't think is a worldwide celebration thing but most countries know about it. Recently over the years, April 1st which is celebrated by pranking people have been turned into deceit and some prank have gone too extreme with the prank they do and this has caused many to detest the celebration of the 1st of April. I'm a big fan of the April fool celebration and I don't do an expensive prank, I only prank my best friends, most of the time they already know I was gonna prank them so they don't fall for the prank and the same goes for me, I know them too well for fall for their prank. I don't like the prank of "send me your account number, I want to send you some money" its a pretty cool prank to play on your close friend but not someone you're not really close with, I won't find this funny when someone plays such a prank on me. A story of how April fool went wrong. A friend of mine (Noah) and his girlfriend (Dorcas) have been dating for a year plus, Dorcas is known to be a prankster, she believes it would add spice to the relationship, she played a lot of pranks on Noah believing he would get her one day, Noah had already warned her about the prank she plays that he doesn't like it, so she stops and waited for April first to play the ultimate prank she had planned. It was April 1st, I and Noah were at my place when Noah received a disturbing call from his girlfriend, she was crying on the phone and saying she was sorry, I had already forgotten it was April 1st and how good she is at pranking, she told Noah she just found out that she was pregnant and the guy that did it had forced her to have sex with him. Noah didn't tell me what was up immediately, he left my place, according to him, he started consoling her on the phone that she shouldn't cry again, why didn't she tell him? What will happen now? Have her parent heard about it? These are all the questions running through his mind. He later called her to tell her big sis so they would know what to do next, and if it was an abortion, he would try to find the money. She said she would never abort that she was scared, so he got more worried, he told her to just relax and not to cry again. That night, I notice Noah didn't show up at my place like usual, I went to his place and I notice he wasn't himself, all the gist I had for him, he didn't partake in any of it, the following day he told me all that happened, she later called that night and scream **April fool** on the phone, he hangs up and switches his phone off... After he explained all this to me. I didn't know what to say or advise him, it later turn into a big fight, he claim it might be true, she begged and explained everything to him, ever since that day, things weren't the same again and as I type this story, they aren't together anymore... It ended in a breakup. In conclusion Before you prank anyone, know the kind of person they are and their mental state, you can't keep pranking someone that hypertensive, you would just cause more trouble to their health. April fool day isn't all bad, but it can be bad when you go too extreme with your prank. Thanks for reading my write-up as always, I hope you all had a good day. Wishing you the best in this month of April, it's a good month with a lot of opportunities, make sure you grab them. Article title: April fool gone wrong Date: 05:04:2022 Author: FashTioluwa

@FashTioluwa 4 April 2022

Questions you should consider asking to have a fun conversation with a person While I was surfing read.cash today, I came across a pretty interesting article by @Jeaneth on how to have a conversation that would last, also how to have a fun lasting conversation with a person, when you are having a conversation with a person and you're out of things to talk about, have you thought of asking some important question that would even get you to know more about the person you are having a conversation with, in her article, there was a site where you can get some good question to ask in a conversation, if you need it, you can get it from her article. 😋 I will be answering some of the questions so you can get to know me and let me know your point of view too. If you could, what strange thing would you acceptable in society? If I could make one strange thing acceptable in the society, it would be licensing guns in my society, I'm not talking of your side, but mine, you see, in my place everything out there is trying to kill you, the police, kidnapper, bandit, territories, traveling now is scary, it would be very stranger to see people walking around in the society with a gun, that's for sure, but before a person would think of making a bad bold move, they will think twice, everyone needs to protect themselves, this idea is strange, I'm sure but I don't mind making it accepted in the society. If everyone were incapable of lying, how would the world be different? To me, I believe only kids lie, why would an adult be lying, if everyone were incapable of lying, the world would be a better place, because when you do a bad thing and you're asked, you would have no choice but, to tell the truth, with that in mind, everyone will think twice before doing anything. There would be less fighting and war, and more harmony between states. The world would be a better place. If you could start a secret society, be its mission and who would be its members? If I could start a secret society, it would be that of the Robin hood ideology, but this time around, we aren't taking from the Rich, we are taking from the Thieves that call themselves politicians, I'm sure @Olasquarea can relate. The members would be highly intelligent people that know a lot about computers and hacking like Cisco in The Flash, other members would be people with the same ideology and mindset, people that would be trained to carry out their duty with zeal. The society will be hidden so when the done is done, even the politician can't come out to make any claims. Would you want to live in a world where the thoughts of everyone appear as a text above their head? I don't know if you have watched this movie by Tom Holland titled Walking Chaos, in this movie every man had their thought displayed over their head like a TV, and these men are considered to be walking chaos, the Bible says, "The heart of men is desperately evil" so imaging seeing all those evil thoughts someone have about you on their head, 😂😂, I defiantly wouldn't want to live in such a world, I don't want @Balikis knowing all the weird thoughts I have about her. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tom_Holland What argument would you choose to win if you could go back and win it? Since I'm an anime freak, the argument would be Superman Vs Naruto😬😬, back then, I and my cousin would argue after we finish eating from 7 pm till 11 pm or 12 am, he always win because he has watched both superman and naruto, he always supports naruto, he said naruto would beat the living hell out of superman and he would start mentioning some weird Justu that would trash superman. I watch Naruto after he left our house, and now I want to have that argument afresh with him, superman beats Naruto anytime, any day. I would like to thank these Wonder people, for the support, special thanks to @Talon for the new sponsorship, and also @FarmGirl for the renewal of the sponsorship. I'm truly grateful, currently, there are tears of joy in my eyes right now... Only if you could see it😅😥. Thank you once more. Also, I would like to tag some people to participate in this write-up, I would like to read from their point of view, you can use the questions I answered. @Theblackdoll @KisvenAaron @Excellent @Mofif @Big-E and others that are interested All images used are from unsplash.com Article type: Conversation Date: 4:04:2022 Author: FashTioluwa

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@FashTioluwa 3 April 2022

Vanity Upon Vanity Vanity upon vanity, all is vanity. I have always heard these words while growing up but I don’t have a full understanding of what they meant then. According to the Merriam-Webster dictionary, vanity was defined as something vain, empty, or valueless. It also says it’s an often unjustified feeling of being pleased with oneself or with one’s situation or achievement. The old world We have heard of many people that chase world power and domination, if they ever sat down and think **“if I gain the whole world, what next”** many of them never sat to even have the thought, example is Adolf Hitler, if he knew the goal he was chasing would end him having a bad name down the history line, he would have you his resources to build the world to a better place. People who live their life for others are never compared to people who had live a life of vanity because the current world still benefits from their productive lives and sacrifice. Let’s take another example, Michael faraday, he was an English inventor and scientist who contributed to the world around him, he was known to be the father of electricity. Most of us now won’t be comfortable in a place without electricity, and many of us won’t even survive in such an environment. There is a popular saying that says, history repeats itself because humans refuse to learn from history. The current world It saddens me to see that many people in the world now are only after vain things like wealth, status, clothing, cars, and all material things you can think about, I’m not saying all these things aren’t good they are the things that have made life more good and comfortable to live, but now, people have prioritized these things over the life of their fellow human. 2020 was the best year to show that most of the things that people are running after will not matter one day, the only thing that would matter will be the relationship you have built between the people around you, your riches will not matter, there won’t be different between the poor and the rich because all material things won’t be there to help, that is when you will know you have only been chasing after vanity. Instead of people stretching a helping hand, they castigate themselves, the rich do it to themselves by trying to show who is richer and the poor by holding the one they have so it won’t finish, they never have the thought of *****“what if I sleep this night and never wake up, will they bury me with my worldly possessions”.***** We humans have to be better because most people live a life of vanity, let’s be ready to help one another, let’s be ready to stretch a helping hand, be ready to say a reassuring word to a helpless person, be ready to share the one you have and spread love to others, the reason why you are rich is to bless others, sure you can’t help everyone, but your knowledge on how to make wealth can help dozens of people come out of poverty, share that knowledge. The life we live is not our own This life we are living now is not our own, you might be hearing live your life the way it pleases you, but immediately we understand that the life in which we are living is borrowed, our sense of reasoning will drastically change. I don’t know the God in which you believe, but when that god demands your life and says, this is the end for you, there are no amount of things you have acquired that will help you, not your car, your expensive clothing’s, your building or company, nothing will be able to buy your life back, the only thing that will be left is the legacy you left behind. So let’s have a rethink of how we want to live our life, will you chase after the things of this world with all you have or be ready to help mankind and help earth a beautiful place for others to live in, seek to be a help to people and the world and all these material things that people are after will come to you easily. Be blessed and be a blessing to others. Love you all. Article title: Vanity upon vanity Date: 03/02/2022` Author> FashTioluwa©

@FashTioluwa 3 April 2022

Happy Sunday to you all, wishing you the best of this new week.

@FashTioluwa 2 April 2022

Nostalgia prompt: My growth Nostalgia :  a wistful or excessively sentimental yearning for return to or of some past period or irrecoverable condition. This is according to Merriam Webster dictionary. I first came across this prompt writing on @Theblackdolldoll page, it was a detailed stage of her memory lane, then @Daria beat me to writing mine, here was also interesting, it was how her childhood, primary and secondary school went and many more, you know how great a writer they are, you sure would want to read it. I will be doing mine with plenty of pictures. Here we go. This picture was my first edited picture, I did it on a Nokia phone, X2 to be precise, it was the best picture on my phone back then, I had no beards then and my only goal back then was to have beard, it was like the ultimate mission isn't I don't have much to think or struggle about, I'm look tall in the image, but I was very young, that was 2014, back in primary school, junior school, I was the shortest in my class, but after a short but sincere prayer to God I started growing like a tree planted by the rivers of water, you can catch up with the story here. **Do you believe in prayer ?** https://read.cash/@FashTioluwa/the-kind-of-prayer-every-human-should-pray-irrespective-of-the-religion-e24aed72 This second picture was when I had my first beards, it might be had to see but its there, just a little microscope would do the job😀😂, I was feeling like the biggest boy in the town, little did I know the pain that comes with having so much beards, this was 2016 already 2017 was one of the best year of my life, I had so many memories, you know how people say there was a year that everything went their way, yeah, that year was 2017 for me, my big bro just came back from his studies in Ukraine, I'm glad he was back before the war, but my heart is with the people there cause I still have a friend there studying medicine. This was I and my siblings with friends at the beach, it was my first time at the beach. It was so much fun. That same year, my brother colleague got married and he was invited, he took me along and I was treat like a special guess, he gave me his iPad to operate, I was always feeling on top of the world when I'm with him. He is married now so there is a bit distance between us now, beside I have to be a man of my own. Took this picture after a Sunday service, my friend mom came over to our school, drive 280km to check on her daughter, she introduced me to her mom and I was like, let's take a selfie, we did, 2018 and in 2021, we started dating and she's now my girlfriend.😊😊, it was a very funny story how everything happened. 2019, I took all this picture during my industrial training at a financial organization, a pension organization, it was also a great experience for me, I learnt a lot from then, I was also in the investment department, my orientation changed, I got the chance to work with different banks and people from different country. 2020, covid-19 happened and I'm not sure I took any pictures then, but the journey continued till date, those are pictures I really cherish. Sorry if I only spoke about myself, I hope you enjoyed the read. Do have a great day. Article title: Nostalgia prompt Date: 31/03/2022 Author: FashTioluwa

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@FashTioluwa 2 April 2022

Back To School: A new journey Even after in the inevitable strike that is going on in my country by the academic body known as ASUU, I’m glad my institution wasn’t affected by the strike and that is because I’m in a polytechnic, the polytechnic academic board is different from that of the university. You can know more about ASUU in one of my previous article. **FEDERAL GOVERNMENT VS ASUU** https://read.cash/@FashTioluwa/federal-government-versus-asuu-what-you-should-know-815126b1 Currently I was on a semester break, I was home enjoy the holiday to the best I can but now the holiday is over and I have to resume back to continue my education, if left to me to decide, I won’t be going back this early cause it’s only a week to resumption. Other university that are on semester break too cant resume even when the resumption date has pass and this is because of the strike that is currently on. One of the main reason for my early resumption is because I’m the class representative, the job of the class representative is very tedious, especially now that I’m in my final year, many of my course mate keep calling me to ask if I have resume back to school and I keep telling them no, after some days I got a call from my Head of department (HOD) he said I must resume back to school this week, he said most student refuse to resume because of my absent, which I know is true, the time table has been sent to the class group and I expected them to resume cause the time table is out, but reverse is the case. I have missed the first class representative forum meeting, but I sure won’t miss the second, the director of the institute also had a meeting with the class representative which I also miss, so this is a more reason I have to resume early, I also learnt that my Personal Assistant (PA) hasn’t resume also after I made it mandatory for her to resume before me, I’m not acting like a boss, I want her there to be my eyes and ears but now I have to go and things clear. I’m at the final stage of my studies, I have seen many article my prominent people here talking about how their final year in school was, this last semester, there is bound to be many activities like the departmental party, project writing, FYB week, debate, and many more, this will cost me a lot of money because I have to participate in most of them as the class representative, though no one will miss project writing, currently some are in their final chapter while I’m here without a topic for my project yet, but I will do better when I resume. The job of a class representative. You might wonder what the job of the class representative is, you must have since some movies, especially Kdrama where there is always a class representative in a class, or other movies, or even in your school, you must have come across a class representative. The job of a class representative is very tedious as I represent 650 student of my department, where should I start from, it is my job to inform the lecturer of the class we have next before the class or immediately after we are done with one, firstly I have to call from my personal call credit, sometimes there might be an impromptu test and I have to pass the information to the class, some student gets angry at me like I’m the one that invoke the test, some would say why can’t I tell the lecturer to cancel the test and set it another time when they are ready, some would be in the hostel and start rushing to class blaming me for not trying to slow down the lecturer. The fact is, any error made by the lecturer or the student is blamed on the class representative, but that hasn’t stop me from performing my duties well. My course mate calls me the awesome class rep and I like it. I’m going back to school to finish the journey I started 7years ago, I wish myself the best of luck. Thanks for reading, thanks for always being here, if I should mention names of people that have always been here with me, this would be a 50min read article. Thanks to my sponsors too. I really appreciate all you do Lead image from unsplash.com Article title: Back to school Date: 02/04/2022 Author: FashTioluwa

@FashTioluwa 31 March 2022

Have I ever done this or that (prompt writing) Holla my people on read.cash, how are you doing, I’m delighted to participate in this prompt writing, I have been seeing different people entries, the likes of @FarmGirl @Theblackdoll @Princessbusayo I also got to know it was probably initiated by @Kushyzee respect to everyone that participate, while reading their article, I can tell all this set of people I mention have been a good student while growing up, I hope I can be counted as a good student after you finish reading mine. Skipped a class While I was in primary and secondary school, my school was pretty much far from my home, I have to spend less than a dollar back then when going to school but now, the transport is more than a dollar, I skip class most time, probably because I’m one of the student that didn’t live in that city but school there, I do skip class to play with friends and roam about in the street, I’m glad I didn’t get kidnap at that young again. Cheat on Exam Well, according to my school rules and regulation, I must have cheated by helping others remember what the read or telling them the answer to a question, but me carrying extra paper into the exam hall, I have never done that, I’m also guilty of asking friends for hints to a question, it not like I don’t know the answer but sometimes I just need someone to knock the answer back into my brain. Another thing is that I read before the exam so when its exam times it just revision I would do. Forged my parents signature I have done this several times especially when I’m asked to bring a guarantor to a place or get my parent to sign a document for me and I forget, but when it comes to very important document I dare not forge the signature because I have to have my parent concert. So I’m also guilty of this. Make fake excuses for being late Smiles, this is one of the thing I do the most back in school, like I said, I didn’t live in the same city I school, I use this as an excuse for coming late every day and I don’t get punish, sometimes I will go to school late just to miss the morning assembly, I would branch a food seller store not too far from my school, I would stay till the assembly is almost over then make an excuse of being caught up in the traffic or the bus didn’t come on time. Bullied anyone at school I was a victim of bully for almost a year, that was when I was still schooling in same city my home was, it got so much I couldn’t focus anymore on my education, so I had to change my school and the city my school was, in my new school, I made a lot of friends in my new school and I didn’t bully anyone because I know the trauma that comes from been bullied. I really hate bullies, I still haven’t forgiven my bullies, I still hate them and I’m not sorry, I remember all their names. I will add one to the list Chased out of school Nah, I have never been chased out of school, but I followed people that was chased out of school, they weren’t chased because they did something bad, but because they didn’t pay their school fees on time, my dad was a good mad, he do pay my school fee on time so I don’t usually get chased out of the school but when my friends are you going, I would follow them. So that’s my entry, I don’t think I have been a good student, but im glad I turn out to be a good son my parent are proud of. Thanks for taking your time to read. Lead image from Unsplash.com Follow me up on **Noisecash** https://noise.cash/Asta19 Article title: This Or That Date: 31/03/2022 Author: FashTioluwa

@FashTioluwa 30 March 2022

I wrote a pretty interesting article today, and I would like your opinion I the matter, its a relationship something https://read.cash/@FashTioluwa/whats-your-opinion-on-this-matter-i-need-it-0ce4b503 Enjoy the read

@FashTioluwa 30 March 2022

What's your opinion on this matter!!.. I need it!! Recently, I was going through the internet and I saw a post that was written out like this ***95% of ladies are guilty of this. Most ladies in relationships and marriages collect gifts and money from other guys without taking permission from their Bfs/ Husbands.*** ***It’s very disrespectful and will eventually lead to cheating. Some ladies will say, why should I take permission from an “ordinary boyfriend?” But if he is ordinary, why are you with him? Most ladies won’t even allow their bfs/ husband eats another lady's food, not to talk of accepting a gift.*** Some ladies immediately came to my DM to explain their take or opinion on the matter, the first lady said, there is nothing bad in it, that is it normal for girls to collect gifts from their guy friends, and I asked her, how will she feel if another girl is giving her boyfriend money or buying a gift for him? And she answered with a question, do I take permission from my girlfriend before I collect gifts from my lady's friend? And the conversation continue, she said it is not cheating and she see nothing wrong in a lady accepting gifts from her friends, though she wouldn’t accept gifts in front of her boyfriend cause it might be disrespecting to him but she would when it comes randomly. She also said she would get jealous if she find out another lady is cooking for her guy, or cooks and bring it over for him to it, and I was like, oh, so you would, but you see nothing bad in you collecting gift from other guys, wahoo. She asked this last question which I avoid, **is there anything bad in a lady asking for money from her male friends?** I will leave this to the audience. The second lady's opinion was the one that still got me thinking, I wonder how she reasoned, she said the write up is partial He *is my boyfriend, not my husband, have you ever thought if she is being maltreated or abused by her partner, have you ever thought if the guy is not taking care of her, and what if the guy is stingy and doesn’t see anything bad in being stingy.* There was so much I wanted to point out in what she said, if she’s being maltreated she should leave the guy and go for a better relationship, but in the case of married people, I wouldn’t advise divorce, I would leave that aspect for the likes of @Olasquare and @Oluwa_damilarea to do justice to them, I have read their articles and I believe they have a good sense of judgment on matters like this, she further went ahead to explain herself in a 3.27minute voice note. She said *There are some guys that don’t count it, we are talking about boyfriend now, if I’m with my finance or husband, I won’t collect gift from anyone but boyfriend?, the way relationship is in this current age, guys don’t take girls serious anymore, guys don’t date one girl, but tends to blame girls more, a girl going to the extent of cooking you, when you have a girlfriend, and you collect it, would you be happy if you find out your girlfriend is cooking for another guy, yes, the guy can accept gift but not to the extent of allowing a girl to be cooking for you, there are two different things, the guy can accept gift from his female friends but not food, because you won’t like it if your girlfriend is cooking for another person, so that write up is partial, if my boyfriend isn’t treating me right and there is another guy out there who is ready to treat me like a queen, then I would accept gift from him, a relationship that hasn’t reach a certain stage of seriousness shouldn’t be done with all the heart if not they will lose at the end.* And it went on like that, I don’t even know how to reply to her, but in my own opinion, there is nothing worse when a girl receives a gift from a guy friend that is not after her when she knows he is after her, she shouldn’t collect gifts or money from him, she should stay with her boyfriend no matter who or how she is, and if she can’t, she should break up and go after the other guy, same goes for the guys too. My opinion might be wrong or might have some fault in it, I’m not saying it is the best, you can drop a comment and let's learn from each other. I will drop my pen here All images used are from unsplash.com, you can also follow me up on noise cash Here https://noise.cash/Asta19

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@FashTioluwa 29 March 2022

I don't think I will be doing much readcashing tonight, had a very stressful day, I will be online tomorrow to catch up and publish my draft article also, read, reply all comment and tip as usual. Sweet dreams everyone

@FashTioluwa 28 March 2022

I have 4hours to spend on Earth: Story version When the news of me having 4hours left to live on earth was told to me, I felt so bad cause I have so many things I have promised, my mom, I wanted to get her, but now my left has been cut short and I just 4hours left, I tried to run out of the shine but the barrier placed around the shine by the priest kept me in. I was born a special child, my mom never told me of my birth or how I got my powers, my powers aren’t that of the superheroes you see on tv, I have the power to see a little into the future via my dreams. She never wanted to tell me I would die at the age of 20, but I kept having the dream of seeing myself dead, she took me to the priest and ask him to explain what was wrong with her son, he's already 20, I wasn’t sick, so why does her son keep having the dream of seeing himself dead. He told her since she especially got the child and that was the condition given to her, currently, he only has 4hours to live. Immediately I heard that I was broken, I’m so young, why bring me into this world just to shorten my life, I have so much I want to do for you mom, after all, was said, all on my mind was how to spend the remaining hours left. I went straight to my best friend's home, he was glad to have me around, all he wanted to talk about was his new ps5 and how I promise to beat him in the football game, as he was talking I was just smiling, he was surprise cause he knew I would have talk back but I didn’t, he asked me what was wrong, I told him nothing, I had a game with him, I won 7 to 4 goals, he wanted another game but I told him I had somewhere else to because I already spend 1hour at his side, I left and started walking. I spend 30minute on the walkway, all that was running through my mind was the thought of Abigail, my first love, I have been in love with her since I was little, I couldn’t tell her because of the fear that she wouldn’t feel the same way, but this time around, I know I have nothing to lose by telling her my feelings, I went straight to her house, luckily for me, she was outside like she was waiting for me, she wore a yellow gown, as the breeze blew, it moved her long hair backward and I could see the smile on her face again, I walked up to her and said, Abigail, I have something I have been meaning to tell you, I saw she was shocked but I went on. I’m in love with you, no I have been in love with you for a very long time and I didn’t dare to tell you, but I will today, I love you, Abigail, you make everything beautiful, your smile, your……. Before I could finish my statement, she hugged me and planted a kiss on my lips, and said, what took you so long, after much discussion, I realized I had 1hour left, I told her goodbye and said my final words to her, if I would come back again to this world, I would fall in love with you again, she smiles without understanding what I meant, and I ran home. I got home to see my mom on the floor crying bitterly, I ran towards her, help her up and she sat down on her favorite blue chair, I made a cup of coffee for her and assured her I won't die, I called my cousins and other family members but made it a short call, I sat beside her legs, and rested my head on her laps, she used the palm of her hands to rub my hair as she told me the story behind my birth, at a point, I was feeling sleepy, I couldn’t see anymore but I could hear her voice, I couldn’t tell what she was saying, I was drifting away in my slumber, I could hear her calling my name, but I couldn't respond, I tried all my possible best but could, the next thing that happy was that I saw my mom crying over my body as I ascend from the earth. The End. First, come across this article on @Princessbusayo it was so interesting and many a sense of humor in it and things you could learn from, you can check it **here**, I always love reading her article, then I saw @FarmGirl article too, it was shocking, the way she wrote it, it was so real, when you read it, you would understand, so interesting and touching, **click** to read https://read.cash/@Princessbusayo/you-have-250-minutes-on-earth-who-are-those-you-would-call-1aef799c https://read.cash/@FarmGirl/how-my-last-410-hours-would-go-ce528307 Well left to me, if I had 4hours left, I would just watch anime. To All my readers, upvoters, commenter, tippers, sponsorers, which one haven't I mention, I say a very big bang thank you to you all, you have been wonderful and such a lovely people. Images used from unsplash.com **Noisecash** https://noisecash.com/asta19

@FashTioluwa 27 March 2022

The mothers who raised me: Its mother's day Just the same way family doesn't have to mean been related by blood, same is mothering, there are different from of mother and I will explain how. You might have a biological mother, but she might not act like a mother to you, some people call more than one person mother, you sure can relate to this. This article is dedicated to all the people I regard as mothers in my life. Relative mother These one are the big aunties, my dads sister and my mom elder sister, these ones are known as big mommy, many African can relate to this, this is because they are part of the people that raise me and make me the kind of man I am today. Even during the cause of studies, they call me, encouraged me, anytime they come visiting or I visit them, I regard to them as mummy cause they have played the role of a mother in my life. Friends mother We all have that friend that we regard their mother has everyone mother, this would be Johnson's mom, she's always looking out for us, though she doesn't call or check on us, but anytime we are home during the holiday and we visit Johnson house, she would cook and treat us to a feast, there was never any dull moment at her place, she would advised us on the way of life and how to act accordingly. My friend regard my mom as big mommy too cause she does the same thing. Street mother's These set are the one's that knew my bath and saw me group up, they are the best selecter of friends, Mommy Timi stands out among them, she own a shop in my street and I have known her since I was little, I also call her mommy cause she has played a mother role in my life, she would call me and say, I saw you with that guy, you should be friend with such a person, he is a bad boy and would give me reason not to move with such friend, boy male and female, she would say, she knows I have a good reputation and when people see me moving with them, they would think otherwise, she once advised me on a relationship decision one time. ***Thank you my sponsors, if there is a mother among you, happy mothers day*** My Biological Mother There is not enough word to praise her for all the things she has done for me, she's the combination of all the other mothers, she has everything, and has played the role of a mother so well, I was unable to write on women day cause I had nothing much to write but for mothers day, can I write a thousand words why my mom is the best. The fact is, everyone mom are the best in their own way, I'm sure if I spend some month with some people mom, I would love the environment I find myself. I remembered when I was young, naive and dumb, I would fight with my mom everyday, I was her only problem then, I really thought she hated me and would want to kill me at a point, **what a stupid thing to have thought..** Do you have various mom like I do? Wish all of them a happy mothers day. And to all the mom out there, happy mothers day to you too.

@FashTioluwa 25 March 2022

Religion has done more harm than good My thought is exactly how the topic implies, and i will tell you why. recently i had a discussion with my friend and they way they talk only show how they have been brainwash by their religious leader stopping them to see the truth and how fast the world is developing. This article isn't written to badmouth any religion, but its aim is to show you have religious people have cause more harm than good in the society we live in today. in the world we live in, you can attest that nation or country with less religious believe or who are not way too religious are more developed and also developing than country that are more religious, the aim of religion is to preach peace to the world but this folks that call themselves preacher have blinded people with different believe that the people cant think for themselves, they only belief what is told to them by this preacher. Most of the division in the world today is cause by religion, going to a country that is rich in culture and tradition, there are ways their religion allow them to dress, when you go to such country, you are to respect there culture, but many people will say, we don't do that way or act that way because they are told not to, and this will lead to conflict among them. it sadden me to see division among the Muslim and the Christian, I'm not saying the Christian and Muslim are divided, I'm saying, the Muslim are divided among themselves and so is the Christian. The two scenario that shock me about religion I was talking to a Muslim friend, after much discussion, another Muslim friend came around to greet me, and they reaction they gave each other was very obvious they aren't friends, I asked him why did they reacted to a friend that way, and he said, "I'm not friends with him and can never be friend with him" I asked why, and he said " he is not a true Muslim, that there are two kinds of Muslim, the true Mohammed follower and the others, that's why they have Koran and Torah if i am right. I was amazed because I was thinking Islam isn't that complication like Christianity, but the other guy was a Muslim like you, the pray same way, so why hate on another brother because your religious leader told you to do so. All I know is that he has been blinded by the religion, and no matter what I say, he wouldn't compile The second I was in a café, and i had this two girls with me that are my friends, I'm a Christian and I was having a program in my church, so I decided to invite this friends of mine and their reply shock me more than anything that day, the girls go to same church and one of them said, our priest told us that it is a sin to attend another church. i was like, what do you mean, she said she cant come to my church, because it is a sin, till now I don't understand. the bible said we are all one in Christ, immediately you become a Christian and you believe in Jesus as the savior of the world genuinely, then we are one body in Christ, no tribe, no nation, no language should discriminate us. we are all one body in Christ, till now i cant understand how this people get themselves brainwash, but this isn't a topic for today. I will explain more on that in another article another thing religious has done to this beautiful world is turning people against themselves and promoting, tribalism, nepotism, war, helplessness and more, people don't even want to work again, they believe if they go to church or mosque daily, that miracle will happen and God will just bring down a job for them. War cause by religion are the hardest war to end, you can take Boko Haram, Isis and many more for example, thousands of life where lost because this set of people believe they are more close to God and he gives them instruction to kill, like killing a fellow human means nothing to them In some very religious state, Christian and Muslim see themselves as enemy, cause of how they interpret the Bible and Koran, some religious leader even go far to telling their followers not to help other people that are not in line with their religion, this is very sad, how do we want the world to grow and the suffering we have suffer end. A man share his story of how the terrorist attack them, and they were running for shelter, he ran into a mosque, because of his dressing, he was asked if he was a Muslim or not, he said not, and he was thrown out to be killed, were is our humanity, but we still have good people out there that help both Muslim and Christian camp in their mosque till the shooting was over and Muslim staying in church, until we understand that more bind us together than religion, we can never move forward. **Till we meet again in the written books** Article title: Religious has done more harm than good Date: 25th March 2022 Author: FashTioluwa

@FashTioluwa 24 March 2022

Life can be frustrating: Take charge. We have different seasons in life and diversity of mankind. People can frustrate you, little things can do, like a business that is not growing despite all inputs, relationships might be nothing to write about no matter the commitment, family members can make make life miserable if to things are not coming in as expected. Careers might remain stagnant for many years and nothing to show. Many projects and business are abandoned due to high level of frustrations life keeps bringing on a daily basis. Some visions and great inventors had died with "big ideas that can change the world. No wonder they say" the morgue is the most richest places in the world. **A frustrated life is a disfigured one**. Nothing seems to be possible anymore so people drop their visions, dreams, career, and so forth because they think there's no way out. They give up!. ****Don't get yourself frustrated over what have no life.**** You have power in you to control any situations. Note this, anything that frustrate your efforts may not be what you are capable of, or probably you need an helper. Problems shared is half solved but if you keep it thinking alone, your level of courage will start dropping due to tension, especially on things that remain on a spot. HOW DO I OVER COME THIS? **OPEN UP.** To get out of that mess and to avoid been trapped by your emotions, please talk to someone. Get counsel from experienced people. **APPLY WISDOM** Also, be wise. You must get wisdom and apply it in every budging situations before it takes your life. **GIVE TIME FOR THOROUGH EVALUATION BEFORE COMING TO CONCLUSION.** Assumption birth frustrations. Don't think its over until you get a strong evidence for it. If it cannot be done, then get adequate information before you even start anything at all. If you try all this ways and nothing is still working then I will suggest that you let it go for a while. Sometimes big things takes longer time to grow. Take your time and use it well after then resume. By the time you get back to such that abandoned project with your new incentives ideas and wisdom and the same thing happened just forget it and go for an important one. In conclusion Have patience. Most people want it get everything done at once. There's one strong key that kills frustrations and that is Patience Don't be in haste!, if you do you may end up being frustrated. Therefore, while you search for information, pursuing your dreams, careers, etc, make sure you exercise patience so that you won't fuck up. Above all, don't forget your God. He's the master planner of everything. Pray and keep your faith alive and put an end to all forces of frustrations. Good luck. @TheRandomRewarder kinda feel like it broke up with me, it doesn't give attention like it use to, frustrating might kick in, and I hope not. This article is inspired and dedicated to **BABALOLA FAITH DEMILADE**

@FashTioluwa 23 March 2022

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@FashTioluwa 23 March 2022

What if our future happiness is the memories of our past? "***What if our future happiness is only the memories of our past***" This is a word everyone should sit down and think about, I was listening to a music by **Dax** **title**: **Book of revelation**. With the way the world is going currently, I don't think many people are heading to a happy future, I didn't mean the future will be bad, but it might lack the happiness we are looking for. As a kid we have all we wanted especially when we live in a comfortable place with good family that take care of us, when we become an adult and have to face the world, then reality hit us. Sometimes the life we plan to live, we won't be able to meet up with it, and we have no choice but to settle for less. Look around you, look at the children in the war zone, look at people in the land of famine, some people don't have water to drink. The war between Russia and Ukraine is an eye opener to the people of the world, you might be sleeping in your home one day and the next thing, bomb start raining on people, I'm sure the kids in Ukraine never excepted such to happen. They would have that trauma for a very long time, the only happy time they would have now will be before the war. Those who lost family or friends can only look back to memories of the past to find happiness. A old woman once told me, the only thing that makes her was how things was done in the olden day when people still care for themselves, when we had less demon walking in the street calming they are human, when people can receive gift from a friend and neighbor without thinking twice. It pains be that the only place she find true happiness was in the memories of her past. I read @Siddig5 article where he talk about parent selling their children just to meet ends means, parent selling their child because they have no food or medicine for the sickness they have, you can read it HERE, It not that they wish to sell the child, no parent would want to do that, but the situation they find themselves warrant them to do so. https://read.cash/@Siddig5/afghan-parents-sell-children-31e74548 The fact is people are suffering and the powerful nations of the world won't help unless they benefit from that country, we can see country like Afghanistan, where they turn their land to a place where they would fight war, other country interfering with other country policies, now that the Taliban are in power, many of the country asset has been freezes, but this is not a discussion for today. Let's try to make the world a better place, so our true happiness won't only come from our past memories, but the present time we are living, spread love to the world, help people irrespective of their color, tribe, background, or anything that differentiate them, it might be add, but you can do better. I love you all here, irrespective of the place you come from, I remember getting a comment in Filipino and I had to reply in Filipino, this actually made me happy, feels like I'm talking to someone I know. That's how, we should be, let's understand each other. Thank you. Article title: What if........... Date: 23/03/2022 Author: FashTioluwa

@FashTioluwa 22 March 2022

Is it the fault of the parent? I saw a tweet on twitter that says. When I was growing, I saw adult getting married, now that I'm an adult, I see kids get married, where did it go wrong I have actually have this thought before seeing this tweet, it's very sad how I see young kids especially the younger ladies pregnant at a very young age, we can call this teenage pregnancy. When I was leaving home to study in another state, I remember a lot of young girls in my community, some still in secondary school and some planning how to further their education. It pains me to say when I got back home for my semester break, I saw many of this girls pregnant, for some, the man or young boy accepted the pregnancy and they got married, and some the pregnancy was rejected saying he wasn't the only one sleeping with her. Is this how bad the society is? Is this the length children will go for pleasure? What is it they are looking for now that they can't get in their marriage?, I have all this thought running in my mind Can we blame the parent? This was one of the main thought in my mind, can it be the parent fault, aren't parent training their kids in the right way anymore. I'm very sure there is no parent in this world that wouldn't want their kids to have a bright future and getting pregnant at a young age or becoming a father when the child isn't ready can actually delay that bright future. Many parent have fail to teach their kids about sex education thinking it not necessary or it feels weird talking about sex to their kids, and that's where they get things wrong. Some parent can be blame and some can't be, some parent have done all they could and its left to the child to follow the right path, while some parent make all necessary plan and teaching to make sure their follow the right path, some just abandon their child to the world. As a mother, I'm sure you will know when your daughter or son is in love or start seeing an opposite sex mate, at this point, that's when a parent should take a step in tutoring the child on what sex is and what unwanted pregnancy can cause in a child life I don't even think a parent should wait before that before they start educating their kids on what sex is, and how to avoid it even in a relationship. How to have a protected sex for the adult and for the kids, absence!! A story that shock me: Base on true life This girl met me, she saw me as a big brother she can confined in, she's just 17years old, she told me about how her dad friend has been disturbing her for a relationship, the man has a failed marriage, he explained all that happened to the girl and said he wants to be in a relationship that would lead to marriage with her😱, I was really angry at this thought, she's just 17years old. He promise to send her to school and get a phone for her, but she have to say yes to the relationship first, she decline but still visits him because he do give her money sometimes, after several visit, he started taking about sex to her, and how hard he get when she's comes around, there was a day he try to have his way with her and she threaten to shout, so he had to let her go, she couldn't tell her dad because he was a close friend to her dad, and her dad keeps sending her to the man house to get things for him. She decided to tell her mom, and her mom said, "*Its up to you to decide that, he might mean well, and I won't say you should discard him because he will stop helping you the way he is doing now*" I was pissed at this advise, how could a mother tell her 17year old daughter to make the decision herself, it was at that point she got so confuse and ask me. I told her the man have no plan for her, he would only destroy her future, if he truly love her like he claims, he would do everything to make sure she has a good education, and he shouldn't even be going after a minor. I still do advise her till date and help her the best way I can So now can we say, if this girl gets pregnant, who would we blame. This topic is very broad cause we can't discuss all of it today, maybe another time, I would talk about how other things can cause teenage pregnancy like forceful partner, peer pressure and many more. Thanks to this wonderful people here

@FashTioluwa 21 March 2022

The Ghost and The Therapist Hello wonderful people of read.cash. I have been having a good day since the beginning of my day, its 8.28pm as I write, the rise of BCH is also one thing that give me joy, I hope it never fall cause it gonna be a dip hole in my heart. Writing a ghost story has been one of my plan, but the topic and the body of it never came to mind so I put it on a hold, today while reading @Theblackdoll **this or that article,**the new one, during our exchange of words in the comment section, a great idea pop up and I decided to write about it. Is won't take much reading time. Its a fictional story so enjoy. The story began. **The Ghost:** After my death, my body was buried in my compound, I had just one daughter, since she's married to a wealthy man in the city, she didn't have enough time to take care of her old man, but I'm really glad cause I got all the love I need while I was alive. Now that I'm dead, the house belongs to her, since there was no written will, I wonder what she would do with my house, I didn't want to go to the afterlife cause I want to watch my grandchildren grow up. I was enjoying my my stay in my house as a ghost, then everything changed when my daughter sold my house to some hoodlums **Therapists**: What do you mean **The Ghost**: I wasn't sad she sold my house, I was glad new people were about to live in the empty house, but this new family, I have never seen such human in my life. **Therapist**: Ok, explain better😶 **The Ghost**: They are always awake and talking even at 2am in the morning, I wonder if they have a sleepless disease. They have only spent 3month and they know all the neighbour secret, feels like there previous job was a CIA agent. That one was even the little one, the garden u suffered to grow, one of their kids cut down all the flowers😭😭, and they don't flush when they use the toilet **Therapist**: 😱, but you're a ghost, you shouldn't be able to smile their poo and also, I don't think you use the toilet anymore **Ghost**: (*got angry and stood up*) what do you mean, its my house, I know when it smells, the birds don't come around when it smells, and also ghost use toilet too, ask people with mirror in their toilet, they must have see a ghost once or twice😤😤 **Therapist**: (*whisper to himself*) this is why I had the mirror removed from my bathroom back then. So what do you plan to do **Ghost**: I plan to chase them out but I'm scared that if they discover me, they would chase me out of my house, that's how bad they are😫😫, Do you think you can help me chase them out🤔 **Therapist**: (Shocked) why are you asking me that. Its your property, it should be your business **The Ghost:** But your duty is to help me, you should be able to talk to them for me, I really need them to move out.😭😫😫 After a long silence, the ghost realised the therapist could actually see, hear and talk to him, so he decided to ask. **The Ghost:** How are you even able to see me and talk to me **Therapist**: (smirks) because I'm a ghost like you, we are just ghost buddy, I was chased out by the same people, in my previous house and what they are doing now is just a tip of the ice barge, so I advice ghost that come in contact with them to find their way to the afterlife for eternal rest😊 **The Ghost**: *(He thought about it and decided to watch his family from the afterlife)* The end. ***So here ends the story, I hope you enjoy it and it pass a message, don't disturb the Ghost living in your house😁😁, well, I'm sure no one would want to live in a house with ghost, imagine sleeping and your cover cloth was gradually dragged off your body, probably that ghost is a pervert, but I'm certain there are good ghost out there, there are people that will even give anything to see the ghost of their loved ones. Spread love to the world people.*** Article title: The ghost and the therapist Date: 21/03/2022 Author: FashTioluwa

@FashTioluwa 20 March 2022

I'm sorry I couldn't view all the article 😔😫 It's Sunday again and start of a new week, though I intend the article to be a short one, but most time, when I start writing it hard for me for stop my pen, but I promise not to drag this too long Lead image source https://unsplash.com/photos/L7TkIKc0XnU I don't know maybe it because I'm new to this platform, well new in he sense of 5 month user, but sometimes I do feel this guilt, not that I do something wrong or anything, but I feel guilt for not being able to read every article that pop up in my notification. I'm sure many people can relate to this, especially people that subscribes to many good writer like myself. Now that my network is bad, I realize it is taking me more time to load an article and this really discouraged me from going further to read more, now I feel bad about it. Especially those that upvoted my previous article, or the constant commenter that I interact with often. It pains me, the truth is that I can't view all, I can't see them all, but I do appreciate everyone. How do I view people article, when I come online, I check my notification and make sure all the first notification I see, I view and tip them, some I comment, some I don't when I have nothing to say, I just learn and move on. Then I continue like that, I selected at random, people article I haven't view in a while, I open them and I do the usual. So today I'm here to say, I'm sorry, I'm sorry cause I feel guilty, I'm sorry to all my subscriber, those I haven't view their article. I'm sorry I can't view all the article that pops up in my notification, I will do better. I plan to write something else today but I couldn't just keep the guilt within me, so I decided to put it all out. Have a great week you all Also I would like to thank @Tomi-Ajax and @Michael.BCH for sponsoring me and also congratulations to me for reaching 2500view on read.cash, thank you all for your support. Article: I'm sorry I couldn't view it all Date: 20/03/2022 Author: FashTioluwa

@FashTioluwa 20 March 2022

Good morning wonderful people of readcash, I bring you good tidings, first of all, I'm over 100subcribers , also I have over 2500view on readcash💕💯😱, also I would like to thank my new sponsors @Micheal_BCH and @Tomi_Ajax, since I'm not sure I spell the name correctly since its impossible to tag people in short post, I will make sure I tag them in my new post so you all can meet then. I guess I will share testimony in church today 😂😂, in my article yesterday, my last words were, sorrow may last for the night but joy cometh in the morning.

@FashTioluwa 19 March 2022

EEverything Everything Hello wonderful readers, I come with good tidings, just like I have always done, though today article isn't what I plan to write on today, my master piece isn't ready yet, probably I will publish it tomorrow, also it been so hard for me to be active on read.cash today, not because I'm not with my phone or I'm busy, but the network is just so bad. Sorry for my ranting, this isn't what I plan to do today, I was about writing and I decided to talk about my little predicament today and my pen didn't stop. For read.cash, if you don't have a good network, operating on the site can be really frustrating, I check my notification can click on filter, just to select comment, it went back to all, I was like, ok, I would check my comment from the notification like that, it wasn't comfortable due to the numerous article I gave to go through, another annoying fact is that, when I click on an article, it select another one, if I want to click in the right article, I would have to wait for about 30sec before I can,there was a time 30second wasn't enough anymore, 1minute was the new waiting time. Sometimes when I click on the notification button, it switch to dark mode😫😫, this happened almost every time today, the most painful part was when I wanted to click on one of my favorite writer article, I clicked on it without reading the title, and because of the bad network in loading, it was mark all as read that actually took the lead to function😑😶. In the process of everything, my mom told me of one of the woman that leaves in our neighborhood that left her husband with two kids to marry another man, and she became the man second wife, she didn't divorce her husband at first before taking such steps, what is this world turning too, I know this woman to be a very beautiful woman, but this is a story for another time. I try opening my metamask to check some token and play some came on joystick but it took forever to load, so I had no choice but to quit it, I decide to write an article this afternoon and save as draft, but because of the bad mood, no idea came forth. I called a friend of mine, very smart girl, and a good write to it, I told her to give me a topic and some point so I can build on it, to my surprise, she has been crying,I asked her what's wrong, she said she didn't know, she just feel down, she was emotionally down for no reason and was crying, she hasn't been herself since the morning time, I guess many people are going through a lot, even the mighty ones can break down anytime. I wish I can post a screenshot of our chat, cause I can feel the pain from her message yet she don't know the cause, I hope someone can help me with that. Honestly, if I continue going on and on, there won't be a stop to all the surprise I had today, when while typing this article, the network disappointed me again😫😭😭😭 And my mobile data was on, so I would just stop here and would post a good piece tomorrow. Let me go to bad sad. Sorrow may last for the night but joy cometh in the morning.

@FashTioluwa 18 March 2022

This Or That. More about me This article might be a short one, since I will just be answering questions, I came across this prompt on @Theblackdoll and it help me know more about her, and also on @Olasquare page too, their write up where so wonderful and funny, you should check them if you want to know more about this wonderful writers, so this are the question I will be answering, I will pick them randomly and answer a few Taller or shorter I do have a preference and I prefer short, I'm a very tall guy, sometimes my friends would wonder, "Fash, why do you like short girls" I, myself can't answer that question, probably because I feel more in charge, probably I will upload a picture of I and girlfriend one day so you would know what I'm talking about😀😋, I'm not saying my girlfriend is short. Introvert or Extrovert In as much I like to stay indoor, I wouldn't want to live my life as in introverted person, I like going out to see the world, the changes that are going on, I like to meet new people even if I would keep to myself at first. The indoor like isn't for me. Talkative or Quiet I'm a very quiet person, I like to keep to myself, so if I would choose to be around people, it would be talkative person, at least, we wouldn't get bored and it would move me to talk and say my mind too, also I love a talkative partner, I love it when my girl do the talking and I just listen, smile and add my idea, she already knows I'm like that. Movies or Karaoke Even if I'm a good singer, I would choose movie over and over again, imagine me singing and I begin to go off key, or sing a wrong line or didn't follow the lyrics, all this wouldn't make me want to sing, so it's movie all the way. Western Or Asian I once saw a movie titled: crazy rich Asian, which made me believe that all Asian are rich, since that day I was like, I love Asian people, I'm not stereotyping, another thing is that, I love Japanese people, and this came from my love of anime, I don't know if they are related or siblings, but Japanese people kinda look like Asian Sport or Music The thought of running around, and gasping for air on the field is a turn off for me, so I would go with music, I'm a good song writer though, I once had a competition with a cousin of mine back then and I won him, now he is a musician and I dare not challenge him now, but I would still go with music, you just gat to hear me rap, I'll drop some bars. Text or Call Text for me, sometime, call is better so you can express yourself well, I do hate it when someone call me and was like, how are you, just calling to hear your voice!😤😤, you can just text me and I send my voice to you on WhatsApp, if its someone I like, its a different story tho😁😂. I do prefer texting than call, but when I'm back to school and you want a quick reply from me, please just call me even if I don't like it, call me.😫😫 Hot or Nerd Please get some hot ladies in the building, will I call myself a half nerd or a nerd cause I tend to know the answer to most thing I come across, imagine me talking to a girl and all we talk about is quantum physic, we just be friends for life. A friend once told me, for a relationship to last long, one partner have to be smart, while the other have to be dull. I don't know how the theory works. Wear glasses or Not Surprisedly, I do find girls that wear glass sexy, they kind of look like people that know what they are doing, back then when I see anyone putting on glass, automatically I believe the person is smart, but as I grow up, I know better. Both girls and boy. For girls, I do like girls on glasses, I will be like, come let me take of your second eyes so you won't see me kissing you😂😂. Short or Long Hair I really don't fancy long hair, just keep the hair low, dye it and look sexy and simple. For me, the stress in keeping a long hair is much. Look or personality As a fellow man, I'm sure many men out there would agree with me, especially people from my country, we don't go for the looks, but the personality, I once commented on a user article and said this adage in my language "Iwa lewa" which means character is the real beauty. So I wouldn't go for the looks, I don't a wife or girlfriend that will keep giving me hypertension, and won't give me peace of mind. Lastly Someone you Love or Love you Should I say I learnt this the hard way, I wouldn't advice you go for someone you love, go for someone who love you, why did I say so; a short story. I was in love with this lady from my childhood, I love her so much and everyone knew about it, even the both parent, I would do everything to make her happy, I even fetch water for her, I never knew it was a one sided love, I waited till I have achieve something before asking her out, I was in my first year in the polytechnic when I asked her out, thinking she love me and know how I feel, that evening, all I got from her was just insult, depression, sickness, she even insulted my generation, my unborn generation😫😫, what did they do to you, I was the one who asked you out.. So since that day, I would always advise, go for someone who love you and not someone you love. Thank you Thanks to this wonderful people. You're the best Thanks for Reading, liking, and all you do. Much love from me to you

@FashTioluwa 17 March 2022

I really have been so busy today, I'm sorry if I haven't replied to your comment or gone through the article, I will be free tomorrow, so you all should expect my comment... I would love to see what beautiful things you have written, Also I was able to complete and publish the second part of THE BLIND EAR TODAY, I hope you enjoy reading it. Good night. Love you all