YOUR DECISION, YOUR LIFE

Every situation you meet yourself is a result of the decision you make for in the past. Yes I said that!!

What you are now, who you are now and what you do now are product of how you make your decision in the past time.

If you plan to move forward you either decide to take a step or remain where you are. The choice is yours!

Everybody know how to live a good life and be a better person but while some choose to be good others choose to be bad and wicked. You have the control , no one can change the You that you're unless you decide to change it.

Every bad guy out there found themselves in that state by simply accepting to be the way they are. No one can transform an arrogant fellow even if you advise him on a daily basis, but one day he will have a rethink and make a decision .

There's a reason for making every wrong decisions likewise the right ones. Some of it are

1. When you think it's the best decision:

If a lady is being asked out or woo by a guy she doesn't like ,initially she would decline but if this become persistent by the same young guy, she would think the best decision for her is to give in especially when there's no one else. However, if the relationship fails, she would regret her decision. All things that looks good are not the best and the best is not the overall best, Thinking that the step you take is the best without the knowledge of what is ahead determine whether you get it right or wrong, always be ready to think twice.

2. When you don't have any alternative:

Taking drugs for instance because you feel depress will give you more pain instead. The end result of a problem is getting the right solution. Help yourself not to maximize your own challenges by addressing it wrongly. After finding one way, search other ways too and choose the one that won't harm you in the future. Always be ready to face a challenge, do it the right away, use natural solution for natural challenges.

3. When someone else is making the decision and is working for them:

It is usually said that who you follow determine what follows you. You can't decide to sleep because others are sleeping while your last paper is an hour away. Your friends might have cover almost every topics and you want to imitate them when you don't even understand a single definition?. Only a mediocre will do that. It's ridiculous to do what others are doing at your own risk. Don't be like others, BE LIKE YOU. BE YOURSELF

Since you don't bear their names and they don't bear yours, why must you do what they do at all cost. Be yourself.

4. Frustrations:

This is one of the most dangerous factors for making wrong decisions. Frustrations always produce wrong desires and that gives one negative mindset about life. Don't allow frustrations to get in too deep. When you see the glimpse, deal with it immediately so that you go the right path. You're allowed to take a break and reset yourself, be a new you for a new battle.

5. When you think you can do anything you like with your life:

Yes, you are in control of your life, yet an ultimate powers is in control of you and every others person. So, if you refuse to follow your maker you will eventually go with the drainer. No one can fulfill destiny alone. You need people and you need God.

How to make right decisions

1. Find out if what you want worth your time if not, don't do it because time is life

2. Evaluate the reason you want to make such decision. There must be a good reason or bad one for deciding to do something.

3. Don't be in haste to say yes to it. Do not say YES when it seems to say NO

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Article type: Lifestyle
Date: 28/01/2022
Time: 9pm
Author: FashTioluwa