Tips to know about relationship that won't work out

Tips about a relationship that won't work out

In the world today, one must always find oneself in one relationship or the other. Yes, you can not do without being engaged with one person or the other each day because you will talk ,laugh, gist, play and lots more with people around you and those who are far away.

Relationships is what we need to keep going in the journey of love. You won't relate with whom you don't love but rather avoid them.

Likewise, love has a lot to do with how we approach different people we come in contact with each day, I naturally love someone here @Daria ,online girlfriend. Hehee 😂😂

An intimate relationship will not succeed when facts are celebrated than truths.

Relationship is a thing of the mind, not just the heart. If your heart is open to receive someone then your mind should do the same. Love is not blind. Anyone who walks blindly into a relationship are the blind ones.

I heard a story of a young lady who dated a young man for six years and all through, the man has never bought anything for her before, not even a birthday gift card. He has never spend a penny on her including a recharge cards. while the lady bought gifts, cloths, shoes, and many other valuable things for the man for good six years, can you imagine, well, sure is life, love can make you do craze things without thinking, then her eyes were opened the day she revealed her predicaments to her friends and they mock her. It's not compulsory though but once in a while a man should be able to provide for her woman no matter how little he can offer. How can a man who can not buy a pen in courtship give you money to cook meals when you get married to him. Think about it.

This lady was forced to challenge the Man and he said the lady is his destiny helper, he took her like his mother. She ended the relationship right there but with a heart break.

If you refuse to open your eyes, people will do. Talk with people who can open your eyes.

Things that determine a relationship that won't succeed are :

1. Lack of commitment:

A relationship that lacks commitment is a failed relationship. It happens when only one party is dedicated to the love while the other is not, more like one sided love. Just like the story above. When two lovers met, their love will be very strong and mutual but as time pass, things will change. If he calls every hours before, it will reduce to twice a day , then once in 24hours ,then once in two weeks and till he calls no more. The other partner will be affected especially if he/she notice the un-seriousness. Until none of them is interested but one will suffers emotional pain most because when the signs are apparent they didn't take any step. Don't go into a relationship with your heart alone go with Your Senses.

2. Lack of peace.

For everyman that ever get married what they are after is there peace of mind. Any woman that gives them stress is like the devil and they will run from her by all means. Women also would not choose a violent man over a peace keeping man. If you notice that you argue for over three to four times daily and the issue is not resolved for many days, it's a signal. Your marriage or relationship will have problem if you hold on without any improvement. I think you can read more of @Olasquare article to know more.

3. lack of Joy:

My simple advise is that any relationship you find yourself that is not giving you joy ,real joy is not yours yet. Get out of it before it turns against you. A God fearing man will always give you joy, you get it, if you don't get it, ask @Princessbusayo

4. Lack of Support:

There are thousands way you can help yourself out in your relationship apart from finances, both of you need to support one another spiritually, emotionally, physically, psychologically and financially. If your partner has nothing to offer than discouraging you from achieving your purpose then both of you are not compatible. Let go!.

In conclusion,

Don't close your eyes to every wrong and negative signal you find out at the early stage of any relationship. Let your partner know how you feel about it and if there's no turnaround then you make a move forward.

Thanks for reading, all image used are from unsplash.com , this write up is from a personal point of view, you can do well to state your own observation in the comment. Love you all.

A relationship that will work out and lead to marriage will stay strong to the end. Good morning.

Article type: Relationship
Date: 4th February 2022
Time: 8.30am
Author: FashTioluwa