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It Hurts First Before You Get The Pleasure

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Written by   972
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You might wonder what's inside this article with a weird title “It hurts first before you get the pleasure” yes it hurts a lot at first before you get the pleasure. I don't know why it is designed like that, why we can't get pleasure without pain? Without hurting first.

You might be thinking I am talking about something absurd here but I bet you are wrong because you know that it hurts a lot before we get the pleasure, the happiness, the feeling of reaching cloud 9 or heaven.

What I am talking about?

If you are thinking different, then it's great, you are green-minded haha!

Well in life before we get the highest satisfaction and pleasure we need to undergo series of pain first. It's like beautiful things are made from the endurance we obtained.

Success

Before we reach success we will undergo a lot of failures, rejections, frustration, and more. Like the saying said “If you can't handle stress, you can't handle success” because only those who can handle their stress and frustration are worthy of success.

You will endure getting hurt from being frustrated, from the failures you get, from the rejections, and anything you experienced that will cause you pain.

Giving Birth

Before a new life will come out into this world, a woman has to endure a lot of pain and struggles while she was pregnant.

She endures the morning sickness, endures having sensitive smells, and endure being emotional. When her belly grows bigger she'll endure sleeping in an uncomfortable position, cannot tie her shoelace, or wear it properly.

The crucial part is when she's about to give birth to a child she'll endure labor pain and worst her life is at 50/50 to the grave or to survive.

Imagine the series of pain we woman has to go through but it will all be worth it once we see our beautiful child, that we brought new life into this world. It hurts a lot but it's worth it.

Toning or shaping our body

I remember when I had my first workout at the gym I suffered a lot of body pain, my legs, my arms, my abdomen, and my whole body. It feels like I was battered. I even have a hard time climbing up the stairs because my legs are in pain.

But after you'll get used to exercising, the pain will be gone and you'll enjoy the good feeling after sweating.

Before your body will tone up, lose weight, or had a good shape you will undergo pain. It hurts a lot before you get good results.

Shaping our character

We come to the world with nothing, we were born naked and that nakedness means innocence, which means we don't know anything yet. As we grew up we will acquire knowledge and wisdom, but before that, we will go through a lot.

In shaping our character we will experience a lot of mistakes, confusion, and anything that can cause us pain before we get mature.

Some cannot even handle in shaping their character as they already drown from the pain they experienced.

Making out for the first time

Uh, for minor readers please skip this part haha! I must include this because without this, humanity will never exist lol.

If a woman is a virgin when they made out for the first with her partner she has to feel so much pain in her sexual organ and it will hurt the male organ as well because the portal is so tight, you know. Going back and forth it will have some scratches lol. Even those not V girls anymore as long as they are not being used by their partners regularly, it will still hurt a lot like it was the first time.

See? Before you get the climax both have to feel the pain. It hurts a lot like you got burns, for the female part. But why do we still do it? 😂

Don't laugh, it's one of our basic needs🤦

It hurts a lot before you get the pleasure.

Closing Thoughts

There's no such thing as a beautiful outcome without pain. Pain is part of growing up, it's part of our daily routines in life. Beautiful things are the fruit of our struggles and pain, that is why don't be afraid to get hurt it's normal.

Always remember the more it hurts the greater things await you in the later. When you don't undergo any pain in life then your life must not be that meaningful.

This article was inspired by what I did, out of the blue when I am about to put back the ring on my finger I tried to make a circle ⭕ in my skin. To get the shape perfectly, I need to press it harder and it hurts a bit. My daughter wanted it too, so I did. She complained that it hurts, I told her to stay still and endure the pain a little bit and it will be fine then after that, we get the circle mark on our skin.

Weird right? HAHAHA! Then I relate it with our life situations, for us to have a better outcome we must endure getting hurt and in pain a little bit before we get the pleasure of achievements.

Tolerable pain is for good cause, but if it is too much that can destroy us already then it's not for good. Always weigh things out.

That's all, I hope you understand what I am trying to say out from this weird thing I did.

Thank you for reading!

Date Published: August 27, 2021

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Experiencing a lot of pain is a continous process and yeah I tought of something from the title haha. It' means I had a matured mind.😅.. It can be a great pain but it's all worth it at the end of the process.

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1 month ago

All of the above, effort tlga mga yan.. No pain no gain sabi nga hehhe... Hindi nmn kc yan basta na lang malalaglag ng kusa with out us doing anything.. Its me Jaytee

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1 month ago

Hello, there bakit new account? Anyare?

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1 month ago

Nalog out, taz ala aq log in detail d q sinave😔

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1 month ago

I guess all things hurt during the first time. Let's endure pain beautifully. ❤️

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1 month ago

Yeah that's what I realized too, everything hurts in the beginning.

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1 month ago

At the end of pain is SUCCESS. ❤️

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1 month ago

Childbirth is never been easy especially in a difficult state of your pregnancy. It will ease the pain when sees your child healthy when he comes out.

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1 month ago

Exactly, pain will temporary be gone after seeing the child was delivered healthy 😊

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1 month ago

That is why these children of ours must obey us as they grow :)

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1 month ago

Yung last part tlga yung iniisip ko nung mabasa yung title 🤣🤣🤣 Pro yung manganak tlga ang pinakatatakutan ko.. Masarap daw sa pag gawa,🙈🙈🙈 pro ang hirap sa pagdeliver ng bata 🤣🤣

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1 month ago

HAHAHA oo tama yan masarap lang gumawa pag nanganak na juskopo matawag mo lahat nang santo 🤣

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1 month ago

Kya iwithdraw nlng pra hndi manganak 🙈🤣🤣 kalokang usapan

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1 month ago

HAHAHA sayang nmn ang lahi 🤣😂

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1 month ago

Haha... Malalahian dn balang araw 🤣

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1 month ago

Napaclick agad ako sa title eh,hahahahha! Pasensya na, green-minded lng.heheheh.. Tama ka anamn jan, bago maging successful or maachieve qg gusto eh dapat my hirap at sakit muna. That's what makes success sweeter..

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1 month ago

Hahaha sabi na eh may mga green minded readers talaga hahaha. Kaya nga eh noh pag walang hirap at sakit di rin ma appreciate ang success.

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1 month ago

Trot! Mas mafeel mo eh..

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1 month ago

Hahaha... Indeed it gets hurt before we get pleasure 😂😜

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1 month ago

Haha yes, do you agree right? 🤣

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1 month ago

No pain no gain written in a most beautiful way hahaha

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1 month ago

Hahaha yes that's the simplest version if this.

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1 month ago

Can we draw a conclusion from here? Life itself is masochistic. It imposes pain on us first and then pleasure.

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1 month ago

You have a nice conclusion, indeed life itself is a masochist.

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1 month ago

There is a Chinese saying, "When life wants to give you a challenge, it will torture you physically, grinding you to the bone, and mentally stress you to the point of mental breakdown. When you survive both, you are ready for the task ahead."

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1 month ago

Yes, I agree with that sayings. It seems that life is toning us up for bigger things, if we able to survive everything will be worth it.

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1 month ago

Mas masarap ireap ang reward ng kung ano mang goal if you've been through pain and hard work. May sense of fulfillment.

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1 month ago

Exactly, you will feel the highest satisfaction kasi you feel the pain first.

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1 month ago

I thought i have a dirty mind with the way i was thinking when i saw the title, but the first few paragraphs wasn't aligning with my thoughts. Only for me to see it. 😂 On a serious note. This is write speaks nothing but the truth. The path to success is painful and full of thorns.

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1 month ago

Lahat ng bagay pinaghihirapan muna, khit nga ung manghingi ka need pa din ng effort at mapapahiya ka pa minsan. Pero kapag nakuha mo naman ung gusto mo tlgang mag-uumapaw naman ang kaligayahanmo

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1 month ago

Yes tama yan, no pain no gain ika nga nila.

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1 month ago

Nothing good comes so easy and when there is no pain there won't be gain Life is all about give and take, give pain and take pleasure

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1 month ago

Yes you are right, indeed no pain, no gain..

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1 month ago

Yeah sis

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1 month ago

it is true...there are always pain ... the same with rainbows after the rain!

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1 month ago

I agree 💯

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1 month ago

Yeah i am agreed with that, masakit talaga sa una pero hindi na kapag nakasanayan hehe, thats the life "NO Pain, NO gain". The more we taste the pain I think the more we gets more comfortable with that. hahaha I liked the tittle, iba din nasa isip ko charrr

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1 month ago

Hahahaha kaya ginawa ko ganyan talaga title eh 🤣 tama no pain no gain.

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1 month ago

Pagsa dumi naman talaga ng utak ko huehue. Yong excruciating pain daw ang mararanasan bago ka makarating sa langit huehue chorrr wahahaha.

Pero maeapply naman to sa lahat ng bagay diga. Sa pag abot palang ng mga goals mo sa buhay ee makakaranas kana ng maraming hirap. Yong bago ka makarating need mong umakyat ng hagdanan na hindi mo sigurado kung may dulo ba talaga aguyy

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1 month ago

Hahahahaha oo masakit talaga una grabi as in bago ka makarating sa rurok nang langit 😂😂

Kaya nga applicable naman talaga sya sa lahat, nasaktan muna tayo bago makamit ang minimithing tagumpay.

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1 month ago

Tama ka diyan ate. Life will give you too much pain bago niya iparanas sayo yung happiness and success. Pero I loved the last part ha, hahahahaha, talagang naisama mo pa yun ate 🤣🤣 dibale mag-21 na ako so hindi na ako minor, pwede nang basahin yun hehehehe

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1 month ago

Hahahaha kasama din yan sa buhay yung last part, kung wla yan wala tayo sa mundong ibabaw hahaha.

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1 month ago

Nakuha ako sa title HAHAHA 🤣 Jusko patawarin nawa ako at sana matatanggap pako sa langit 🤣🤧 ambata bata ko pa pero iba na nanasa isip ko lol mapapalo ako sa pwet neto ni ate ropa sana di ako makita 🤣 HAHAHA btw. Ate tama po kayo, sa buhay wala po talang madali lahat dumadaan muna sa hirap. Siguro yung mga tao na walang pake sa buhay nila or ayaw nila magseryoso sa buhay di pa siguro nila nararanasan yan yung magpakahirap. Hays, isipin ko palang po yung dun sa last part parang diko kaya Haha mahirap nga daw talaga yung isuko ang bataan pero pag mahal naman ninyo ang isat isa alams na 🤣 tsaka doon sa manganganak. Kaya ayoko mag asawa 😭 baka diko kakayanin

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1 month ago

HAHAHHAHA oo mahirap talaga isuko ang bataan, madugo at masakit 😂😂 pero kaya nmn yan hahaha makarating lang sa langit 🤣🤣

Hahaha mas mahirap manganak talaga pero kasama sa buhay yan. Life stages kung di mo maranasan, di complete ang stages of life mo.

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1 month ago

Sa true ate yon nababasa ko sa wattpad eh 🤣 sa una lang daw naman masakit HAHAHA grabe tawa ko dito susko po

Oo din ate. Gusto ko din magkaroon ng anak talaga. Kaso yun lang manganganak mahirap. 🤧💚 Sabi mo nga ate kasama yan sa stages ng buhay, so isasama ko yan siguro after ko pong makamit magpatayo ng bahay ni Mama hehe.

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1 month ago

Oh, I love how you think about your mother same kasi tayo kahit may pamilya na ako gusto ko rin tulungan si mama.

Haha oo bata ka pa nmn explore muna haha

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1 month ago

Wala papo kasi kaming sariling bahay kaya lahat ng iniipon ko na BCH para sa bahay talaga. 🤧 Kaya nagsusumikap po ako dito sa read. Pati sa noise. Tsaka gusto ko din matuto talaga sa binance at iba pang crypto.

Opo. Papakasingle muna ako 🤣 mauuna muna si ate ropa at ate jane HAHAH

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1 month ago

Hehe nice one🤗 What life taught us is you can never get what you want unless you will have an effort to work it out! As what our age today something like level of pain and happiness for tomorrow.

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1 month ago

Yes, exactly effort at kasama lahat nang hirap at sakit kaakibat nang effort na yan.

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1 month ago

Definitely, miss Eyb. It hurts during the first time but after non, wala na. Sanay na tayo. Just like in life, as we go over it, we get used to things we are first at hurt.

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1 month ago

Masakit din ba for boys? Hahahaha.

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1 month ago

Oo pag birhin ba, nagpapalot yun sa kanila HAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHA!

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