You might wonder what's inside this article with a weird title “It hurts first before you get the pleasure” yes it hurts a lot at first before you get the pleasure. I don't know why it is designed like that, why we can't get pleasure without pain? Without hurting first.

You might be thinking I am talking about something absurd here but I bet you are wrong because you know that it hurts a lot before we get the pleasure, the happiness, the feeling of reaching cloud 9 or heaven.

What I am talking about?

If you are thinking different, then it's great, you are green-minded haha!

Well in life before we get the highest satisfaction and pleasure we need to undergo series of pain first. It's like beautiful things are made from the endurance we obtained.

Success

Before we reach success we will undergo a lot of failures, rejections, frustration, and more. Like the saying said “If you can't handle stress, you can't handle success” because only those who can handle their stress and frustration are worthy of success.

You will endure getting hurt from being frustrated, from the failures you get, from the rejections, and anything you experienced that will cause you pain.

Giving Birth

Before a new life will come out into this world, a woman has to endure a lot of pain and struggles while she was pregnant.

She endures the morning sickness, endures having sensitive smells, and endure being emotional. When her belly grows bigger she'll endure sleeping in an uncomfortable position, cannot tie her shoelace, or wear it properly.

The crucial part is when she's about to give birth to a child she'll endure labor pain and worst her life is at 50/50 to the grave or to survive.

Imagine the series of pain we woman has to go through but it will all be worth it once we see our beautiful child, that we brought new life into this world. It hurts a lot but it's worth it.

Toning or shaping our body

I remember when I had my first workout at the gym I suffered a lot of body pain, my legs, my arms, my abdomen, and my whole body. It feels like I was battered. I even have a hard time climbing up the stairs because my legs are in pain.

But after you'll get used to exercising, the pain will be gone and you'll enjoy the good feeling after sweating.

Before your body will tone up, lose weight, or had a good shape you will undergo pain. It hurts a lot before you get good results.

Shaping our character

We come to the world with nothing, we were born naked and that nakedness means innocence, which means we don't know anything yet. As we grew up we will acquire knowledge and wisdom, but before that, we will go through a lot.

In shaping our character we will experience a lot of mistakes, confusion, and anything that can cause us pain before we get mature.

Some cannot even handle in shaping their character as they already drown from the pain they experienced.

Making out for the first time

Uh, for minor readers please skip this part haha! I must include this because without this, humanity will never exist lol.

If a woman is a virgin when they made out for the first with her partner she has to feel so much pain in her sexual organ and it will hurt the male organ as well because the portal is so tight, you know. Going back and forth it will have some scratches lol. Even those not V girls anymore as long as they are not being used by their partners regularly, it will still hurt a lot like it was the first time.

See? Before you get the climax both have to feel the pain. It hurts a lot like you got burns, for the female part. But why do we still do it? 😂

Don't laugh, it's one of our basic needs🤦

It hurts a lot before you get the pleasure.

Closing Thoughts

There's no such thing as a beautiful outcome without pain. Pain is part of growing up, it's part of our daily routines in life. Beautiful things are the fruit of our struggles and pain, that is why don't be afraid to get hurt it's normal.

Always remember the more it hurts the greater things await you in the later. When you don't undergo any pain in life then your life must not be that meaningful.

This article was inspired by what I did, out of the blue when I am about to put back the ring on my finger I tried to make a circle ⭕ in my skin. To get the shape perfectly, I need to press it harder and it hurts a bit. My daughter wanted it too, so I did. She complained that it hurts, I told her to stay still and endure the pain a little bit and it will be fine then after that, we get the circle mark on our skin.

Weird right? HAHAHA! Then I relate it with our life situations, for us to have a better outcome we must endure getting hurt and in pain a little bit before we get the pleasure of achievements.

Tolerable pain is for good cause, but if it is too much that can destroy us already then it's not for good. Always weigh things out.

That's all, I hope you understand what I am trying to say out from this weird thing I did.

Thank you for reading!

Date Published: August 27, 2021