Why I Am Enjoying 'Friends With Benefits' At The Moment?
A friends with benefit, that is what I have been looking for, to find friends that not just become a friend but somehow will favor some usefulness. Well, I am more of a connection guy. I try to be friend people whom I know will give me a connection later on, that is what life was designed for. I could be a connection to them too soon. I never thought in my entire life that I would meet a friend who is honest and helps me to grow. This is what I liked: friends I could help and who returned the favor.
Let's get on what happened this Saturday; 15th day of October 2022, which meant just a few days to come. We will again say goodbye to October and say hi to the coming new months. Like days was so close to going through.
I am in review and in the mood to read and take notes in some fields. I started my study at 8 AM, and the weather was fine and cloudy. Another typhoon is coming after the typhoon May-may is typical this day. At 1 PM, my mother noticed that I was still on the monitor and writing. She suggested that I might want to rest a little bit and also take my lunch.
I said I didn't feel tired and hungry yet, but she said I must rest for a while. I told her that using anti-radiation eyeglasses would help me stay longer on the screen, I also sent this rant to my friends, and Jiji said it's just a scheme about eyeglasses. I don't know if that was a controversial theory or hypothesis.
Speaking of friends, I have this virtual friend that I cannot believe has become one of the members of ReadHive Troops. We are bloggers and rant writers; at the same time, we share insight and rant about life. After the conversation with me and the professor who will help me with my 18-unit course of education, she was the first one to come to a head. Maybe CGuro will help me as she was a former student in the field of expertise in education. I approached her and asked if there was a module of hers in the subjects that would cover the units. It also prepared me for the following study and the preparation of re-examing in PRC or Professional Board Exams.
She was friendly and gave modules like she was this teacher who gave a scoop for me to learn something as I browse and researches the terminology that I was not familiar with. I was surprised because I thought it was a virtual content text that had been given to them, but no. she was scanning the module and sending it to me in the private message of discord.
I felt so much as I felt wow, she did that just for me. Do I deserve this?
That is the start of my thinking about those people who offer knowledge and educational upgrade within their fields. Well, I am collecting friends I know soon enough to have some experience to lean on. Jiji was, in some numbers, dennmarc in data and programming, with Ayane, who is now inspiring to be one of the developer programmers and Hanzel (bananzel) as a chemist. They are just a few people who offer some meaningful knowledge environment to me.
One thing about chatting with these people is that there will be this serious moment when we talk about something like investment, finance and career. Not everyone has the same circle; not all of us are gifted enough with this kind of creator in the virtual world.
I can attest right now that they are the best version of modern friends with benefits or a good example of peer pressure. We met the end point of having the same goal, to achieve something in their blogging, so maybe we all have this excellent combination to be part of each time.
This is one of the reasons I am enjoying my stay in blogging, to meet new friends where we just read their work at first, their thoughts and reasoning, not yet what kind of people they are. Then comes the time to listen to their life stories in private chats. Then here comes the bonds.
I am not particular about the circle of friends I want to have, but sometimes I come to enjoy people who come in and out after knowing the person they have virtualy.
I just found it interesting to share that virtual people also offer genuine smiles and friendships even though we have to meet differently from the side of the world. I want more to meet people, some I know will have some issues, and others will be nothing but support.
But having a friend with benefits is something that expands your cycle of thoughts and lights in ranting life.
Start your journey by spotting good and real virtual friends, and indeed you will also find what I am saying "pals with benefits of the new good side of peer pressure". For that, thanks for reading…
Quality vs quantity! Ibang friends with benefits naisip ko. Wahahaha! Sorry po