We Arranged Our Child Marriage And Let The Destiny Decide.

I suddenly remember that I had someone whom I promised to get married to when I was in the second year of college. Believe it or not, I was serious at that time. I saw a girl whom I would feel comfortable being with my entire life if I were getting married to this girl. I said she was shy, timid, and gentle—the type of woman I will always keep. We met in school as she was too scared to ask people and then came to me to ask.

Like what? What was the vibe between us as she was afraid to ask people and not in me? Is this something like the movies or the series I watched? I suddenly tell myself. The main attraction is that she was pretty and gentle. One time I asked her for lunch, and she agreed. I was surprised that half a cup of rice, she said it makes her tummy full; she even cut her rice in half and gave me the rest. Seriously, we just met for the first day, and that was during a school event.

Then friendship was built. I admit I have a crush on her. She was the girl that was shy with others, not even bothered to ask people, and when we were just two of us, she was talkative and comfortable.

I told her that I had a crush on her, but she just laughed at me. Maybe she thought I was joking at that time. I said I was serious. Then we come up with an agreement. That's the age of 27, and we are still single. We will get married.

She laughed at me and said 'deal' by offering her hands to me.

But the next semester, she said goodbye. She will stop college because she can't insert things into her head. She said she admired me for being brainy in the class. That's when she wanted to be with me, as she isn't afraid to talk about things, for she was comfortable as she thought I knew everything.

Guess that was nostalgic. I was always a friend keeper. But the agreement had been broken, she married a long time ago, and I was in my 3rd year then. She also invited me, but that happened to be our exams, so I am afraid I just joined, but if there were time, I would surely go by.

Many people will have this thought of disagreement when we talk about arranged marriage. This cant, marriage is a union of both people who are in love. That's the presence of marriage, not the people who just agreed or not the child who had destined to marry someone.

But does this happen in real life, I alone? I will choose to get married to someone whom I know that my family or future child will never get hungry or gets anything. I am more practical that even if I am left on earth, my family won't suffer, for I am the only one they look upon.

Marriage is not a joke to talk things as they said, but the reality is that living alone is not a joke. As I do my life and the journey, I want the best for my future generation, which will happen as I marry someone I could say could secure my child's future even though I am not here on earth.

That's life, and we also call it insurance.

We have this joke in discord channel with @Lhes about her future born, he said that she wants her child soon to marry me, this was sweet but the that was a rough age gap. Then I said, why not just place that both children will soon unite, and we will be a two family? She agreed, I know that was a joke, but I will leave it to destiny.

No one knows soon what could happen if the agreement comes in real life, or destiny alone will play it for another love story. Who knows that we have fun planning out soon to be born, yet the stars have more planned for them?

If I am my child's father, I won't close my child's wants and don't in terms of marriage, but I will protect them no matter the cost.

Arranging our child marriage is just a hang out where we spend time to marites or gossip about our personal life. There was nothing serious about it, but as I always said, let destiny decides. Thanks for reading...