The idea of myself being a loser

Had you blamed your self why are you too stupid and d*mb for some reason? Those loss opportunities and downfall success? Had you been in the state where you just wanted to go in the time, come back to the time where all just begin, and the reality is that what happened won't be changed anymore but you can shape the future and learn from what happened in the past.

There were two kinds of people in this world, the gainer and the loser. Some people will win and some will lose. Life has created a game and that game was called luck and destiny. We lose because of some reasons, we win because destiny was favoured with us, but for me, it's not every time.

I am a loser and winner sometimes, I am just human and got some questions that why destiny had favouritism, looked at the idea where some will always win and some even they do the full potential and effort still the luck wasn’t around for them, the loss opportunity will always be the reason of our sorrows and some heartbreaks. It's hurt but what could be done now but accept the reality.

In the childhood plays that gadgets weren’t yet that popular where we always wanted to play in the middle of the hot sun, we do our best to be the best player, even we argued for the child whom we think cheating or even fight for them, then suddenly one player cried because we lose the game of the Hide and seek, patentero and Chinese garter game. Hays I loved the memories that I got when It comes to child street play.

Some will get bullied because they always lose the game, ended she or they just cried and walked out home. That’s was the feeling of a loser, be become lame and we had been such a disappointment in the game.

That’s how it feels when we were young, as time goes we realized that it was just a play, it was just a sports competition and it was just the activities that makes us memories

Then comes to be an adult. This was a crucial game like we had been playing a squid game, a trending series we all knew, that when we lose we die.

We died because when we felt we had been lame and we had been in a time of discomfort, we just wanted to bang ourselves or to burn nor bury us alive. Sound pathetic right? But yeah we do such things, we just wanted to be out of space and goes beyond the other universe.

But in all the dramas being a loser is a blessing, being a loser was an opportunity to become who we are, and being a loser was a matter of learning, and being a loser is makes us strong that what when we lose again we just smiled because we knew that when we just let our selves absorb the idea of being a loser we much more become a real loser when we let the idea that even we lose we could come back again and rise we become not only a winner but a real definition of a champion.

Being a loser becomes who we are: Does you felt that you become the real self when you lose. Had you ever been in the way that telling yourself to calm down, it's just a game? Then the air becomes clean and the heavy heart has gone to the wind. We comforting our selves and we become who we are.

Being a loser we learn. We learn from our mistakes. Why do some people do mistakes twice or more? Aren’t they pathetic? We laughed at them when they do again the mistake without even realizing that they doing such a matter because they wanted to learn. Because learning is a process of doing again and again, the more we repeated the more learn about it.

Being a loser we become stronger. Imagine yourself a first-time field runner, then you slap in the field the wound cut was deep, then next matched you fall again but the difference you don’t feel the pain anymore because you become stronger than before.

Rise. When you fall to rise again when you lose play repeatedly. It's like an unending battle but who knew what will be the finished line, who knew who will be the best player if no one win and other will loss. But the real loser was the one who give up when lost twice or more because a champion was won a battle of a hundred matches and they knew how to become a loser first before becoming a great champion.

This article was actually a comforting paradigm to me for I lose a lot of opportunities in life, career and others due to covid 19. I felt that this was too much but no, being a loser now will guaranteed you a champion, later on, thanks for reading…