My Mother Smells Something Weird About Me—jezzzzzz

madaling makaramdam at maka sense ang mga nanay pag may mga iniinda ang anak..nanggaling tayo sa kanya kaya mahirap maglihim sa knila talaga

Eu.... everything will be okay.

Moms are just waiting for us to vent out our frustrations, hindi porket we can speak na and think for ourselves they stopped caring infact mas lalong lumalalim ang pag-aalala nila kasi we can try to hide our emotions na versus when we are kid na we can cry whenever we want to.

Take the opportunity to be vulnerable at times, di laging okay tayo and that is fine.

Kaya Pa syndrome, I think all of us have that, lalo yung mga malihim like me hahaha! Mom may not always be expressive about it, but I know she knows. She'd randomly message me things such as "nak, pag may problema ka, chat mo lang ako ha" and it helps, it really does. Di ko man nagagawang mag-share talaga, (di ko kaya ahaha), pero knowing someone out there cares, is such a big deal. 🥺

That's one of our Mom's powers. Matik na na may "lie detector" sa system nila whenever we attempt to lie to them. Grabe 'yung instincts nila~

And that "kaya pa" syndrome? Been always saying that to myself for almost everyday yata. Daming challenges everyday, parang di nababawasan but mas nadadagdagan pa. Like you, Kuya, mas feel ko din na sinasarili mga problema or what. Not just because I don't want Mama to worry more but for me kasi mas nakaka-isip ako ng solutions kapag ako pa lang nakaka-alam ng probs ko. Hehe ewan ko ba~ para kasing mas lalaki lang alalahanin kapag madaming nakaka-alam. 🙈

I want to believe that this is one of mom's superpowers. Nakikita nila kanit anong tago natin. I think she also understood na hindi ka pa ready mag share pero know that she's there to help you and even though I don't share probs with mom most of the time, I can say it gets easier for them when they know what are problems are. Just ensure her that you can find solutions for this and she don't have to worry much

Mothers knows best talag, kahit anong smile nakikita nila yung lungkot parati behind that smile. That kaya pa syndrome helps us to pursue what we wanted to achieved but it also the reason behind our anxiety and frustrations. Kung ano anpo ang pinagdadaanan mo sana malammpasan mo

Yang kaya pa syndrome nalang din tumutulak sa akin para magpatuloy at abutin ang mga pangarap ko sa buhay at pangarap ko para sa pamilya ko .. Sometimes hindi na rin napupuna ng kaya kopa yung mga butas na kalaki na ..pero still I remind myself not to give up.

Kaya pa nga ba? One thing I learned as I grow up is that my parents are always there for me, ayaw ko lang magreach out because I thought kaya ko mag isa. I was used to struggle on my own and solve them on my own too kaya akala ko bawal mag reach out and the fact that I'm not into sweet and dramarama things with my family, di talaga ako nagsasabi ng problema haha pero ayun nga, natutunan ko yun last year lang. Natouch ako sa parents ko dahil din dun mas lalo ko sila trinesure.

I can relate to you. There are moments na nahuhuli ko Mama ko na nakatitig sa akin whenever na exhausted na ako. Siguro naghihintay lang sya na magsabi ako, pero kaya pa naman. Masakit din sa kanila na pakiramdam nila hindi na natin sila kailangan kasi hindi na tayo nagsasabi sa kanila. :( Pero I hope maintindihan ni Mama na I have my own battles too, na ako lang din ang makaka-resolve.

And that's a power indeed of a mother, alam niya kung kailan tayo masaya, kung kailan tayo malungkot, because she's a mother. Minsan hindi man natin ene express through words yung nararamdaman naton, but she can see it in our eyes. So whatevet it is, or whatever that thing that burdens you, it will be okay, and you will be okay. Just pray hard.

Dala tayo ng nanay natin for nine months more or less kaya alam nila ang nararamdaman natin.

Akala ko Naman ano ng naamoy hehe pero totoo to. Nararamdaman nila Kasi kapag may kakaiba.

Mother have cordial relations with their kids. It's natural that we don't need to everything to Mothers in words. Some people really hide their pain behind the smile.

Mother's knows best. Mother's know everything. We came from their womb so the connection is different, it is kinda magical. My mother is like that to me too. She will look at me and ask me what happened, but I deny sometimes not because I don't want her to be part of it, but I know she will only worry, added to the pressure she is feeling everyday.

Yeah, that's what we call mothers instinct, kahit ako bilang mother, nararamdaman ko pag ang anak ko ay hindi maganda ang pakiramdam, or pag may dinadalang problema. Malakas Maki ramdam ang mga nanay, at saka kahit di mo sinasabi, nakikita kasi sa Mata Yan. Kung anuman Yan, hope youll be fine.