Let’s disappoint those people who once said WE CAN'T; read why.

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Everyone has the stories to tell, those struggles and some experience in life. Some just stay hidden enduring the pain for once they had been scolded, punched and drag by someone's mouth. The inner self could feel the pain yet we smiled so they can't say we were weakened. Let's disappoint those people who once said we cannot for we are just who we are.

In the toxic Filipino culture that was within for years or decades now, people will always say something and eventually create something for you to lose focus.

Dreaming was becomes a privilege and getting out on the poor island could be talked to be a very impossible task. You can't do that because you are too young to know, you cannot ever like him for you are too poor, you can't beat them for you were not good as they are, you can't be successful because just because.

Sound familiar right? I know some or most of us heard those speeches and the most hurtful and painful. The one who said that was the one whom we trust the most. The person behind those statements was those people whom we trust. Those people are part of lives, living on the same roof of house, neighbours nor friends. They will tell you 'you can't'.

But why do those people tell you that?

Simple, they did not just hate you they are secretly jealous that you could.

I met several faces of people who had been this kind of thing in their lives, Belittled and even scolded. How was shameful that others could talk like that to their children, siblings and even friends?

This is also not a new thing in us, then we have shown we could but we still can't get their trust, there will follow back discrimination and eliminations to our dreams.

Let's give an exact example.

There was a boy who once said he can't finish schooling because they are poor, he was smart so he still did his best when he finished high school, yet someones say stopped dreaming you can't be in college for your mother and father haven’t any money, yet he worked while studying, then he graduated still people says, you can't get a nice job because of your personality, then he was employed. What do you think happened next?

The best revenge is that we could just make them disappointed for what they are talking about and shown. The most dangerous weapon is smiling.

I considered smiling like the most dangerous thing on earth. Who knows what was inside the glimpse of the lips of someone. I personally do that, I can just smile at them then I could feel something in return. They could feel the smile I gave.

People might say revenged is bad, stay silent. Who considered it as revenge?

It’s a silent killing machine that once a people who give you unforgettable remarks and predicted your future with just a narrow head thinking is a huge bullet that directly shot in inner than a piston.

I met someone and he spoked that imagining things kind of revenge makes his inner self something great. Thinking that someday they will say sorry for what they did, someday they will realize what just they caused, that days come they could say they are wrong.

We have been sleeping in a night over when he confessed me that, that’s how I learn the life of my friends. Imagine we were in the state of alcohol and can't sleep at the moment. We just talked about things in life, and more and more life experiences I never had.

In my life, I never heard people say I can't finish school, they knew my capability maybe. No one in my family talked something in my back, I am a silent killer thou. Gender and age wasn’t a barrier when I was still young. Don’t judge me, that’s my personality of which was gone a long time ago.

So if someone says the same way like this, cheer up and get ready for your revenge.

Take the bad words of others, keep them as inspiration and prove they are wrong, do something that will slay them, create a path where they will come and smile at you. They won't admit they are wrong, they never are. But when the time comes that they need help and you are the one that is only the available person who could be asked for, the teardrop on them just flowed.

An act of very interesting revenge right?

So never stop because your family tells you that you will never can, don’t abandon your dreams because they said it won't fit on you, never look down when they are dragging you and forcing you to kneel to the ground.

Stay positive and stay hidden let disappoint those people who once said we can't. Thanks for reading…

Author’s note; another random topic again my friends, no hidden agenda or anything just really random LOL.

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This is a relatable article. Well, there are people that if you said to them na hindi nila kaya yan, mas mapupush pa yung tao na yun lalo para kayanin nya. And I think I am one of those and for sure kahit ang ibang users din dito sa community.

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2 years ago

Ah, that's the feeling of success. It feels sassy when we get in front of the people who once laughed about our decision, right? Believing in ourselves and putting effort can uplift us in many ways.

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2 years ago

Relate, madaming mga tao dito sa bahay ang ganyan. 🙄 dami nilang kuda akala nila edukasyon lang ang sulusyon para maging successful porke ba lahat sila nakapag tapos lang ng pag aaral? Porket na mayaman na sila ngayon idodown na nila yung mga nagsisimula palang?

Never akong nagsalita kapag may mga nagsasabi ng ganyan dito sa bahay samin ng ate ko kasi alam kong balang araw malalampasan ko din to at maipapakita kong mali sila. Ang tanging sagot ko lang kapag nakakarinig akong ganyan, ngiti lang kahit paano naman may respeto padin ako sakanila. 🙂

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Legit to, for us to get successful part ng journey naten yung mga tao na magsasabi ng di magagandang salita na minsa idodown ka pa, and sometimes kagut sabihin naten na it doesn't matter, it always does, may effect pa din kahit papano, pero kung we are willing to be a successful person talaga we get ourselves together and we disregard all those people na nangdodown saten, and after that if we are in better life, hampas naten sa kanila yung success naten chozz haaha pero ayun nga the best talaga ba revenge is success.

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2 years ago

Hahaha relate ako dito pare, dami nag sasabi sakin na diko daw kaya mga bagay na sinasabi nila, eh syempre dahil tahimik ako at di ako makasat na tao kaya kala nila wala akong kakayahan, nong nakita na nila akong gumalaw ay yun lang haha hindi sa pag mamayabang madali akong matututo kung ang mag tuturl sakin mabuting tao. Ayaw ko kase inu una ang pang mamaliit kahit wala pang results. Hehe

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2 years ago

In life we always encounter obstacles and people with envy will always have something to envy. The most important thing is to believe in ourselves. In that with effort and dedication everything is possible.

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2 years ago

May kaibigan akooo, un ung binanggit ko noon sa last kast last article ko. Sya ung sumalo ng responsibilidad kase sya panganay, sya nagaalaga sa dalawang batang kapatid nyabthen nagwowork rin sya. Nakakahanga tingnan kahit madaming nagsasabi na di sya makakapagtapos pero super hanga ako sakaniya kase ginagawa nya best nya, tas ang swerte ny kase ambait rin nung nagpapaaral sakaniya at tinanggap pati mga japatid nya saka tinuring silang anak

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Seriously, the best revenge to these set of people is to disappoint them by putting more effort in what they think we can't do. They will feel bad but we should not worry again.

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2 years ago

It hits home. LOL. I know a lot of people like that, especially when you are living in the province, almost of the people that are living there have that way of thinking. A crab mentality. They will never be happy for you or just act like as if they were but the truth is, they are stabbing you behind your back.

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2 years ago

It's so sad that people will do that. They try to limit you where you have chosen not to limit yourself. Whether it's to make them feel better about their miserable lives, I don't know

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2 years ago

It reminds me of my mother, who would tell me, there is no such word as "can't" in the dictionary, you can do anything!

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2 years ago

Crab Mentality that's how insecure people's thinking. But let's not be affected by what they do to us, instead use them as an inspiration to strive more in life.

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2 years ago

Isang malaking sampal talaga sa taong inggitero at inggitera ang makita nilang umaangat yung hinihila pababa nila noon. Performance talaga ang best revenge.

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2 years ago

No one in the world make us looser till yet when ourselves loose the hope and just fed up our lives, others didn't have the right point of view about. If someone say you can't do this that's was just their imagination, with our hardwork and positive thoughts we achieved each and everything, and surely the negative souls around us faced the disappointment,😾

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Exactly, oww helo there seems like you been busy this past few days and month huh, welcome back to track haha

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Yeah too much busy and also wasting my time in useless things😤, but now try my best to write article here on daily basis

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