Saying sorry will never kill you but it will make you a peaceful person in life and if you are the type that says sorry it doesn't make you a fool but a wise and mature mind.
Yesterday I was so exhausted because of the hair I went to make for my customer on getting home in the afternoon I couldn't do anything other than to relax while I was taking the nap my phone rang that I should come and take my order from the app(jumia app) I shop for items I will be needing for my shop though they didn't bring all the items because some are not ready yet but here the one I got yesterday's evening.
And that is why I was unable to post yesterday my head was totally blocked after all the stress I went through yesterday so am so sorry if I didn't visit your article yesterday I will try all my possible best to go around today thanks for understanding.
So back to the topic of today which is "sorry"
The word "Sorry" is just a five-letter word but it goes a very long way in this life and that is why anytime we are wrong we should always say sorry to the person we wronged being old or children it is very important to say the word "sorry" because you don't who is who in this life.
It is a very small word and even little self but as little as it is, it can scatter family, friendship, relationships, and even the whole world because if you are feeling too big to say sorry to people you wronged then you should be ready for the outcome of feeling too big and rude to people it might even have a bad effect on your coz people won't want to correct you when you are wrong for they already know you are feeling too big to say sorry when you wrong someone.
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There is a girl in my former church she's the pastor's daughter a very beautiful girl and she speaks good English as well so with this her fluent English she thinks she's above everyone, what use to surprise me then is the fact that her mom will back her up to feel too big over her mates in the church.
She works in a pharmacy as a pharmacist so one day she took a multivitamin tablet from the shop without her boss's permission then when her boss finds her she sent her home and when she got home her mom supported her actions saying: it is where you work now that shouldn't be a big deal.
But her dad doesn't support her he practically told her to go back and say sorry for taking something without permission but she refused to do that she told her dad that she wasn't wrong about anything and her mom supported her that she shouldn't go and say sorry to her boss but she didn't.
Because of that she stops going to work from there she started lying up and down the church that she's in school that's why she stops working though we all believed her because she's a pastor's daughter, she will go out from morning till night to God knows where and when she comes back home she will lie that she's coming from school until one day she fainted during the Sunday service and she was rush to the hospital only to find out that she's pregnant.
Her mom couldn't cover it up because everyone already has a clue of what is wrong with the girl so to avoid bad comments they did a very quick wedding for her and her God knows spouse with their own money they even rent a house for them with their money, well that's is where feeling too big pushed her too because at the end of everything she was sent back to her parent's house for been rude and she doesn't know how to handle anything called house chores and when her husband complains she doesn't know how to say sorry she will still be claiming that she's right about everything she does.
The fact that you are someone's daughter doesn't give you the right not to say sorry when you are wrong, the fact that you know too well doesn't give you the right to step on people's toes it's only God that knows what is affecting her life.
Some parents are the reason why their children's life is not balanced because as a parent you both are supposed to discipline your children with one voice not that when the father is saying no mother will be saying yes.
Assuming her mom wasn't supporting her, she might not find herself been a single mom at that tender age of hers.
Train your children how to apologize whenever they are wrong because it is what you teach them they will live with forever and when a child knows how to apologize for being wrong he or she won't miss the road in life.
Thanks for reading.
Welcome to the generation where they prefer to loose their job, their relationship of 10 years because of ego. Welcome to the generation where they are always right , a place where there's no room for correction. A Generation that will rather prefer to die in ignorance just because of the word I am sorry..., Isn't that stupidity?
Imagine where that girl has landed herself, had it been she admited her mistake, she would have go back to where she's working , instead of walking up and down till she becomes pregnant and at the end she would not even stay at her husband house because of the Same word too, I am sorry, it's her own cup of tea, let her drink it alone..lol Her parents is to be blamed too, especially her mother, always supporting her in every bad thing she does.....well she has finally Left her husband place to meet her, let them face the problem together.....