"Sorry"

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Saying sorry will never kill you but it will make you a peaceful person in life and if you are the type that says sorry it doesn't make you a fool but a wise and mature mind.

Yesterday I was so exhausted because of the hair I went to make for my customer on getting home in the afternoon I couldn't do anything other than to relax while I was taking the nap my phone rang that I should come and take my order from the app(jumia app) I shop for items I will be needing for my shop though they didn't bring all the items because some are not ready yet but here the one I got yesterday's evening.

My items from the jumia shopping app
Nail lamp for drying nail paint on your fingers

And that is why I was unable to post yesterday my head was totally blocked after all the stress I went through yesterday so am so sorry if I didn't visit your article yesterday I will try all my possible best to go around today thanks for understanding.


So back to the topic of today which is "sorry"

The word "Sorry" is just a five-letter word but it goes a very long way in this life and that is why anytime we are wrong we should always say sorry to the person we wronged being old or children it is very important to say the word "sorry" because you don't who is who in this life.

It is a very small word and even little self but as little as it is, it can scatter family, friendship, relationships, and even the whole world because if you are feeling too big to say sorry to people you wronged then you should be ready for the outcome of feeling too big and rude to people it might even have a bad effect on your coz people won't want to correct you when you are wrong for they already know you are feeling too big to say sorry when you wrong someone.

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There is a girl in my former church she's the pastor's daughter a very beautiful girl and she speaks good English as well so with this her fluent English she thinks she's above everyone, what use to surprise me then is the fact that her mom will back her up to feel too big over her mates in the church.

She works in a pharmacy as a pharmacist so one day she took a multivitamin tablet from the shop without her boss's permission then when her boss finds her she sent her home and when she got home her mom supported her actions saying: it is where you work now that shouldn't be a big deal.

But her dad doesn't support her he practically told her to go back and say sorry for taking something without permission but she refused to do that she told her dad that she wasn't wrong about anything and her mom supported her that she shouldn't go and say sorry to her boss but she didn't.

Because of that she stops going to work from there she started lying up and down the church that she's in school that's why she stops working though we all believed her because she's a pastor's daughter, she will go out from morning till night to God knows where and when she comes back home she will lie that she's coming from school until one day she fainted during the Sunday service and she was rush to the hospital only to find out that she's pregnant.

Her mom couldn't cover it up because everyone already has a clue of what is wrong with the girl so to avoid bad comments they did a very quick wedding for her and her God knows spouse with their own money they even rent a house for them with their money, well that's is where feeling too big pushed her too because at the end of everything she was sent back to her parent's house for been rude and she doesn't know how to handle anything called house chores and when her husband complains she doesn't know how to say sorry she will still be claiming that she's right about everything she does.

The fact that you are someone's daughter doesn't give you the right not to say sorry when you are wrong, the fact that you know too well doesn't give you the right to step on people's toes it's only God that knows what is affecting her life.

Some parents are the reason why their children's life is not balanced because as a parent you both are supposed to discipline your children with one voice not that when the father is saying no mother will be saying yes.


Assuming her mom wasn't supporting her, she might not find herself been a single mom at that tender age of hers.

Train your children how to apologize whenever they are wrong because it is what you teach them they will live with forever and when a child knows how to apologize for being wrong he or she won't miss the road in life.

Thanks for reading.

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2 years ago

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Welcome to the generation where they prefer to loose their job, their relationship of 10 years because of ego. Welcome to the generation where they are always right , a place where there's no room for correction. A Generation that will rather prefer to die in ignorance just because of the word I am sorry..., Isn't that stupidity?

Imagine where that girl has landed herself, had it been she admited her mistake, she would have go back to where she's working , instead of walking up and down till she becomes pregnant and at the end she would not even stay at her husband house because of the Same word too, I am sorry, it's her own cup of tea, let her drink it alone..lol Her parents is to be blamed too, especially her mother, always supporting her in every bad thing she does.....well she has finally Left her husband place to meet her, let them face the problem together.....

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2 years ago

We do look at them as a pastor and they are the ones full of so bad behavior I wonder what the girl will be feeling right now being a single mother

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2 years ago

She has learned her lesson, that's if she will change ooo, because some people will never change...

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2 years ago

I wish to know how to shop on Jumia too but I am afraid. Lol

I will try out with a little money to see how it runs though.

See where her attitude landed her and I will blame the mother. Is she not a pastor's wife? Doesn't she knows the importance of sorry even in the Bible? Well, she would have to carry her cross being a single mother. It is necessary we apologise.

Someone said saying sorry doesn't mean you are a fool but you want peace to reign and everything becomes settled.

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2 years ago

It is not hard to shop on jumia

Since she has her mom's backup then she believes everything is good

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2 years ago

One thing that hinders a person from saying sorry is the pride we have in ourselves. We think overly of ourselves that we are not behind someone. Saying sorry is easy but difficult to understand meaning. The girl surely has learned her lesson, the mother of course wouldn't be less disappointed in her child for what she did. It carries a beautiful lesson, my dear friend.

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2 years ago

Am telling you I don't know how hard it is to say I am sorry and move on with your pretty life

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2 years ago

It's exceptionally hard for us individuals to concede our slip-ons, yet we want to acknowledge liability. Saying sorry won't take a single thing from us rather it will show how caring we are to the individual we may have insulted or hurt

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2 years ago

I don't know maybe the word sorry is hard to pull out from our mouths

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2 years ago

Most times feel people feel very big to say sorry because they think it will lower their standard which is a lie. Saying sorry will not take anything from us instead it will show how caring we are ti the person we might have offended. I am glad the mother is seeing the end result of her teachings to her daughter, she is have learned her lesson

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2 years ago

Am telling you some mother are their children's biggest problem

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2 years ago

Her mom caused her lots of problems because if she has been scolding her for doing wrong, it might not get to that extent. Sorry is a small word but very powerful but it doesn't have to just be a word and it must be backed by our actions.

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2 years ago

I wonder what her mother tend to gain from destroying her life like that

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2 years ago

It's very hard for us people to admit our mistakes, but we need to accept responsibility, that is, we need to say that it was you who made the mistake. And it is not enough to ask for forgiveness only in words. You don't even have to say "I'm sorry" !!!!!. I do not know why you did not mention it in your article, but you MUST offer to personally correct everything!!!!!!that is the most important thing!!!!!

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2 years ago

Some people are just like that in nature they don't accept that they are wrong

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