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It is a beautiful brand new day here today a blissful Friday morning at that with warm and wonderful weather not too cold and not too hot such beautiful weather we've got here this morning, I was away from readcash for the past 3days now because I was so busy with my shop you know I need to buy some stuff in the new shop I will share the picture very soon so don't be angry with me if I haven't been visiting your post or reply your comments lately the shopping and setting up the shop is really taking much of my time and that is why I couldn't write my article for the past 3days as well.
So let's continue our discussion this was discussed in our church (The Redeem Christian Church of God) on our family Thanksgiving service so I note it down because I wanted to write something on it but unfortunately I wasn't chance since all this while to write article but am less busy today so let's talk about it now.
is it right for a woman to earn more than her man? Well to me I don't think there is anything wrong with it after all she will help the family as well. Don't get me wrong I am not married and I don't know how marriage is been run but am just sharing what I feel about the discussion.
Because I believe every woman loves helping their family and their man too let me use myself as an example though am not a married woman but I have a fiance so as for me I don't like seeing my man struggling, I don't like seeing complaining about money even though am not working and I believe every woman will do the same for their man because women have a soft mind and a kind heart too.
In the church that day(Sunday) a man shares how he and his wife runs their marriage since his wife is earning a huge amount of money he even said it is ×3 of his salary then so he said whenever there is huge responsibility at home like house rent school fees of their children he let his wife do it all and he takes care of feeding and some other stuff in the family and they both lived happily he even said his wife do save out of her money for the family upkeep after paying all the bills and she never complained.
And another guy said his wife earn more too but she's not that kind with her money to the family she feels like the husband because she now pay the bills more than him and he asked her to resign because he loves her and he's not ready to lose the marriage because the wife is not helping the matter at all so he said he told her to resign before things get worse for the marriage and she did so they started living on the man's earning since then.
To me, I think the first woman is a kind one because some women nowadays can't do such they will feel like God for helping their husbands with bills and to me, there is nothing wrong will helping you man to pay bills even though some men will take it for granted.
The second woman I don't know why she's like that, I think she can't handle a higher post that's why, but I believe her husband made the right decision by telling her to quit because he doesn't want to lose his wife and the marriage as well.
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The question now is
How do we handle a case where a wife is earning than the husband?
As a husband, if your wife is earning more money at work than you how do you feel about it?
Will ever get jealous of your wife's earning?
Did you think it right for her to earn more than you?
As the man of the house did you feel less of a man in the house because of your wife earning higher than you?
Is it wrong for the wife to earn more than her husband and take care of bills?
If you are the husband would you allow your wife to pay the bills because she earns more than you?
How would you feel if your wife pays bigger bills in the family while you pay little?
Let's discuss this in the comment section good morning fam and thanks for reading.
There's nothing wrong when the wife earns more than the husband, they are in Union to help each other, they should be there to lift each other and to fill any loop holes.
As husband when your wife is helping you with some bills at home, you should feel happy about it because you've found a good wife who is willing to stand with you. It's not a crime.
But a wife is not kind to the family because she earns more should thought how things are being done, she might be ignorance about it, quiting her Job should not be the next option, it takes patience to live with that kind of a woman. They should be able to work things out...hope you're getting my point?