5 people died due to excessive laughter
We Filipinos are known all over the world for being naturally cheerful no matter how serious the problem we are carrying we get to smile and laugh.
Even in small things we Filipinos become happy and in fun things or events we definitely laugh. Some even fall into the chair with too much laughter and others even drop their dentures.
But did you know that pure laughter is not always fun?
Because sometimes the cause of loud and relentless laughter is death for others. Just like the people we will feature in this article who died due to excessive laughter.
ZEUXIS
A well-known painter from Ancient Greece in the 5th Century B.C.E. According to history, Zeuxis was hired or commissioned by an old woman to paint a **Greek Goddess Aphrodite**.
According to the story, this old woman instructed him to paint the Greek goddess according to her liking and painting style and she even allegedly presented to model for the painting to be made.
And when Zeuxis finished his work, he started laughing at his painting because of the outcome of a goddess of Beauty with an old look and his relentless laughter at his painting also caused his death.
OLE BENTZEN
An audiologist from Denmark. **Ole died while watching a 1988 comedy movie titled A FISH CALLED WANDA.** According to the story, a Joke from the movie sold him too much which caused my 250 to 500 Beats per minute to reach his heart rate so that he had a cardiac arrest which caused him to be killed by breath.
WESLEY PARSONS
He is an old farmer from Laurel in Indiana, USA. It is said that while Wesley was chatting and joking with his friends he laughed non-stop for an hour until he started kicking. And after two hours he also died of exhaustion from laughter and hiccups. Some of the suspected causes of his death caused by relentless laughter are **Cardia Rapture, Collapse Lung, Asthma Attack and Raptured Aneurysm.**
ALEX MITCHELL
In 1975, Alex Mitchell died of relentless laughter for twenty-five minutes. This is while watching his favorite TV show. Alex is a **British bricklayer from Kingslin Norfolk in the U.K**. One of his favorite shows on their television is the comedy show **THE GOODIES.**
According to his wife Nessie while Alex was watching an episode titled Kung Fu Capers Alex started laughing non-stop for 25 minutes until he died. This death of Alex became popular and talked about. That is why her husband wrote in the program The Goodies to express his gratitude because they made Alex happy until his last moments.
MANGESH BOGAL
One of the latest records of the incident of death due to laughter occurred just this year 2013 in Mumbai City in India and this person is Mangesh Bogal. It is said that while Mangesh was watching the screening of a movie titled **Grandmasti** with his girlfriend he suddenly laughed out loud because of a joke in the movie and did not stop until he had a stroke. Mangesh was rushed to the nearest hospital but according to doctors, he died at the age of 22 before he was finally admitted.
And here is our list of five people who died of relentless laughter. So always remember that we always laugh slowly so that the saying of our Filipinos does not become literal to us **"There seems to be no tomorrow to laugh."**
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Writing Process
Most teachers find that a text is just one point in a series of steps students must follow to arrive at a draft that is given to the teacher. But students, regardless of their language training, vary greatly in their ability to take the steps necessary to produce a successful article. Fortunately, teachers don't have to resign themselves to relying solely on students' previous writing experiences.
Teachers who take a more active role in guiding their students through the writing process of gathering ideas, organizing, writing, and revising can help students produce thoughtful, coherent, and refined writing.
To define the "process" applied to writing, we must take into account the writing activities associated with formal writing:
Intention to collect ideas and define audiences
Recording ideas
Reviewing and organizing ideas
Pilot testing and getting feedback in audiences
Revision
Editing and proofreading sometimes begins as new information becomes available
There are special considerations when working with writing from non-native speakers. It is easy to assume that poor writing of a student whose first language is not English is due to poor knowledge of the English language;
Sometimes, the real problem with poor writing is not linguistic mistakes, but rather that it does not meet the expectations of the English-speaking academic reader in terms of student audience, syntax, speech patterns, sentences. , Structure and idioms.
It is easy to tolerate "foreign accents" (grammatical errors) in a research article by an international student if the article has a clear thesis, well-developed ideas, and an effective organizational structure.
Inexperienced non-native writers, however, require the ability to receive feedback in the early stages of writing and in later versions of their articles. This feedback gives them the opportunity to correct gaps in content, language and style.
Conversely, the traditional approach to assigning writing assignments assumes that students arrive in a classroom who already know effective writing strategies and are able to incorporate strategies on domain-specific assignments in a way that is Independent. But this approach makes no provision for international students and others who have not learned such strategies or who have not been exposed to writing fluently in a particular field.
**Traditional Teaching Model**
The traditional approach to assigning and evaluating writing at the undergraduate level focuses on the final product, a copy of the writing assignment, which is turned in to the teacher.
The trainer usually acts as editor and judge, and seldom offers college students an possibility to rethink, rework, or enlarge the report primarily based totally at the remarks. Final remarks supply global college students, in particular, handiest a sketchy concept of what they did incorrect on a specific assignment.
Students who receive poor grades are not clear on how to improve their writing next time, and consequently move on to the next writing task with a slight change in their comprehension.
**Process Model**
The writing process, regardless of course content, requires students to provide an encouraging and collaborative environment where they can work through their composition processes. The role of teachers in this approach is to help students collect ideas on the topic, formulate ideas, write, revise, and develop useful strategies for editing and polishing.
A critical step in this approach is to provide students with the opportunity to obtain feedback on the content and organization of their work before grading the final version. A teacher-led process approach to writing assignments will ultimately lead to a more satisfying educational experience for students and teachers.
Students are more successful in producing good writing, and teachers are more than happy to observe students' progress in reading and grading good essays.
Advantages of Process Aproach
While the process approach benefits all students, non-native speakers receive additional benefits. In particular, a process approach accomplishes the following:
**Provides feedback during the planning phase before the student invests hours on writing a long draft without any attention**. Students are very discouraged when they have spent a lot of time just writing a draft to find that they are not focusing on enough ideas or following the expectations of the task. Getting feedback on the initial outline for an article can point the student in the right direction for an assignment.
**Encourages peers about content, organization and audience.** International students sometimes bury their intelligent and unique ideas in indirect language or in a difficult style to understand. This may be in part due to differences between cultures in the relationship between writers and audiences. As a rule, English-speaking audiences appreciate an author who makes reading as easy as possible.
**Allows international students to share their ideas orally in a small group setting.** International students who lack confidence in their English skills or who come from a culture in which classroom discussion is not encouraged, often feel uncomfortable speaking in a large American school. Until students can be found in small groups, other students are left out of the perspective that these students bring to class and discuss in question papers.
Getting feedback during the writing process is particularly helpful but is often not encouraged in a college setting.
Helping the student develop a good writing strategy and facilitating feedback during the writing process will obviously improve the final product.
As a result of focusing on the process, students learn more material and are able to present their ideas with greater clarity of critical thinking.
To be continued ..
Blessing in Disguise
How can you go beyond your former self that you love so much and that you still remember? And most of all, is the pain you have been given serious?
If that's your question, I'll tell you, "**YOU'RE NOT ALONE"**
Many singles ask how they can forget their past, they want to move on but they can't start and where to start.
And my answer is: **You have to start believing that having your heart broken is the greatest blessing in disguise. You need to believe that what breaks your heart is really God's protection for you.** Therefore, you will be safe from suffering with the wrong person for the rest of your life.
This is a problem for many people, especially when they are in their grief, they only live on themselves and they live in the past. They think of happy memories like "`it's a loss of time together, a loss of investment, a loss of dreams we have built`."
Yes you have a good relationship but I want you to think for a long time. I want you to go out and say, **"Is this really the guy / girl you want to be with?"** A person who has cheated you repeatedly, physically, or perhaps. Is this really what kind of person you want to be?
*I think you deserve someone better. This is why your grief or perhaps your greatest blessing if you believe it.*
I have a friend and she has had 3 painful breaks. She got engaged first, then the man ran away. The second was the same, she got engaged again and then separated again a few months before the wedding. And the third, on their wedding day, the man suddenly called and said, **"I can't, I can't marry you."**
Oh! If you are in a lot of pain, now you can't compare the pain my friend felt, but if you ask her today, she will tell you that these 3 painful tears, especially the last one, are actually the greatest blessings I have ever had in her life .
Why? **Because it got her to the right person, the right man. And now they're married, and in a few months she's having a baby.**
Why am I telling you this? Because you have to believe that **"THAT PAIN IS TEMPORARY"** and that pain can make you feel better and when you think about it for many years you want to laugh **about it and you will see that this painful experience becomes the greatest lesson. You are and that can only happen when you let go and are ready to move on.**
Remember, if you are still clinging to the wrong, the right cannot come. Let go and learn to move on. Yes, I hope that helped you but here’s the thing, you need to understand this **“MOVING ON IS BOTH A DECISION AND PROCESS.”**
Again, how to move on? `You need to begin with believing that that heartbreak is actually your biggest blessing in disguise because the right one won’t come if you won’t let go of the wrong one`.
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'Pamamasko' culture is a toxic Filipino culture
`"Namamasko po"` - Have you ever been bored, visited or irritated a little by those wishing you a Merry Christmas in the pass Christmases? If yes, then perfect because this is my topic for today. I'll be talking about ***"Why pamamasko culture is a toxic Filipino culture?"*** and my big message for you today is this: `If you want to be happy this Christmas, wag kang mamasko. I know it might be counter intuitive.`
I remember this story. I believe this is one of the problems of Filipinos. One time a child approached me and then he greeted me he said **"Merry Christmas** " my answer to him was also **Merry Christmas**. And then he repeated saying Merry Christmas again. And I realized that he wants me to give him a money. So I put out 20 pesos on my wallet and I gave it to him. And he said to me **"Thank you po sa pamasko, namamasko po talaga ako**."
`And this got me thinking, maybe the Filipinos are really vague. Where did this Christmas culture come from? Because I believe it's quite toxic. And let me tell you why.`
First and foremost, the problem sometimes here is that sometimes the word Merry Christmas when said continuously now Merry Christmas, **as if they was equated ask for money**, **ask for a gift. And I believe, that's quite problematic.**
**It promotes a culture of mendicancy**
Mendicancy comes from the word mendicant meaning begging, begging. We Filipinos because of the Christmas culture we learn to collect. `In fact, we use Christmas to collect money.`
**They still say a lot that because you are rich you have to watch me because I am poor**. There is nothing wrong with that but I Believe there's something wrong with that line of thinking. After all, we all have the right to receive and we all have the ability to give.
I have always believed that "**there is no rich man who can not receive and there is no poor man who cannot give."** We can all give, we all have the right to receive. And because of the Christmas culture, `it promotes this culture as if we are always hopeful in asking, instead of us Filipinos relying on my ability to work and stretch, we rely on asking.`
Sometimes parents say this at Christmas "***children, dress nicely, mapunta tayo sa mga ninong at ninang nyo, mamamasko tayo****."* That would have been okay, this is the problem, the children immediately think "Ah, when it's Christmas, this is the time to ask for a money.
It's sad that sometimes parents even say "Let's not go there with your godfather, let's not go there with your godmother because it's stingy, we'll be there on the other side." `So the children continue to have entitlement. It is only a matter of time before the boomers blame us that millennials today are somewhat self-entitled.`
My question there is sino ba nagturo na bata palang kailangan na mamasko? `So you see the problem? It pronotes a culture of self-entitlement and that's bad.`
**It pressures the giver**
This is the hardest of all so sad. Many Filipinos, **they are even more in debt when it comes to Christmas because they are under pressure, you should give in like this.** Instead of adjusting the budget of Filipinos, what happens every Christmas is still borrowing just to be able to give. **There is nothing wrong with giving but if that is bad for your finances, you are borrowing, edi in the long run especially when January comes we will both cry. Why? Because we gave more than our capacity.**
**It promotes materialism**
The problem is kapag namamasko ka, it seems **like you are always expecting a gift** and the problem with that is that Christmas is equated into a gift and that's the problem. `Happiness today is not measured by how much gift we receive.`
**The true spirit of Christmas, is measured by how much happiness, the peace we share with other people**. So fine, we have established **"This is a Filipino culture."**
What should we do? So does that mean that the children do not go to their godparents? Definitely not because this is really a type of socializing and spreading love this Christmas.
Now, let me give you three tips on how you're going to be different this Christmas.
Avoid using the term namamasko po. If you read this article, please do not mention it, change it. Just do Merry Christmas because Christmas should never be equal to Merry Christmas.
Since Christmas is a season of giving, you should give and when you give, give without expectation. Because true giving does not expect something in return. Because if you expect, when you give, you don't really give, as if you are already buying the favor or gift you want you get back. **Just give and don't expect anything in return.**
Now, I'm not saying that your children will not go to their godparents, I'm just saying that you need to do it differently. Instead of telling your kids `"We will go to your godparents kasi mamamasko tayo," tell your children "We will go to godparents because we will give them a gift because it's Christmas time." Because remember the primary role of godfather and godmother is not actually to become Santa Clause or to become a provide of gifts. The real role of godparents is to guide their children, their God-children to become great Christians and Christ followers.`
So when you go to your ninongs and ninangs, go there to give and do not expect anything in return. **If you want to be happy, for a long time, forever, give to someone in need because I believe the essence of Christmas is really giving**. After all, Jesus is the pinnacle, the hero, the superstar of Christmas.
And what did he do? He disrobed himself of his divinity to give himself to us as a little baby in the manger. So that later on, he can save us on the cross.
Thank you for reading!
Hellish Prisons in some country
Now, let's talk about the five hellish prisons around the world. Let's find out what the condition of the prisoners is here and why almost all the prisoners dislike it.
From physical abuse and infectious diseases to overcrowded prison cells and the dangers posed by violent gang groups.
DEVIL'S ISLAND
This area is the most dangerous and notorious prison in the **French Penal Colony**. Most of those taken to the island were political prisoners from **1852 to 1953, containing 80,000 prisoners**. Many of them lost their lives due to illness.
These neighboring islands can be visited by tourists but only Devil's Island is said to be strictly forbidden to be visited by any person.
HMS JERSEY
In the late 18th-century in America, war broke out in the area against the conquering Briton who had occupied New York City at that time. Thousands of American rebels were captured by the British and, as they could not find a prison, they imprisoned prisoners on one of their warships.
They call the ship **HELL**, this is the **HSM JERSEY**. In this area contains a thousand prisoners who are almost all experiencing severe torture from the British. `They are really hungry, many of them also suffer from various diseases. Imagine, a thousand prices of the ship's contents, while its capacity alone is up to 400 hidden only.`
THE MAMERTINE PRISON
This prison is located in **Italy**. This place is like a dungeon because it is underground, 12 feet deep. This prison was built as early as the ***7th century B.C.***
It is very dark in this place, there is no natural light entering it so it is really dark. `In fact, the only way for you to get out is that it has a hole in the tunnel up and most of the inmates who enter it are those who are set to execute.`
There are stories that the **Apostle Paul and the Apostle Peter were imprisoned in this place but did not die here.** It is said that the **Apostle Peter was imprisoned here before he was crucified upside down.** This prison later became a church, so now devotees visit this place.
PITESTI PRISON
Pitesti prison is located in **Pitesti, Romania**. It was called the ***home of experimental inmates***. Others call it the Pitesti experiment.
According to the opened democracy, the experiment was started in inamates prisons. They formed the **Organizations of Detainees With Communist Convictions.** The inmates here are educated but violently. There was a lot of torture on the prisoners here and the violence against those imprisoned here in 1950 was finally stopped. `Nearly 700 prisoners are suffering from severe torture here and 30 have already died.`
HOA LO PRISON
`This prison is located in Vietnam. It is also known as the Hanoi Hilton during the Vietnam War`. It was good then, they really built it for American prisoners during the war. It has only gotten worse since the number of inmates has increased rapidly. **The Vietnamese government uses a cruel method of torturing prisoners here**. They do this to raise some concerns about the military secrets of US soldiers.
**Prisoners' legs here are often chained. They are so tightly bound here. In the long run it causes leg injuries and infections**. Some inmates are also starving here as a way of torturing them.
Prisoners, no matter how serious the crime, whether in the eyes of the law or in the eyes of the people, it is not a reason to torture, hurt too much and give them a prison sentence. **Just proof that human rights violations have been experienced since time immemorial.**
I hooe you learn something today. Thank you for reading! 😇
Deadly or life-threatening mouth
The power of the mouth can destroy family, friendship, church, job, hope and reputation and can also damage the government and can lead to war.
The power of the tongue also gives peace and harmony to the people if it is used in a good way. This is how powerful our words come from our mouths.
`It is written in Proverbs 15:4` “A soft answer turneth away wrath: but grievous words stir up anger."
We can compare our tongue or mouth to a knife, we have options on how to use it. **We can use it to hurt or kill or to use it to save lives.** Sometimes we do not realize how we are communicating with others, with our family members and with our children.
Sometimes we can get angry if our children are naughty and disobedient but we should also be careful that we are careful with our words to them. They say ***"The power of words***" we can not say them words like lazy, stupid, worthless and so on because they can be true.
I am sure no good parent will give curses to their children. `It is written in Matthew 7:9-10 "Who among you can give a stone to his son if he asks for bread? If he asks for a fish, will he give him a serpent?"`
`Luke 11:11-12 reads as well: "Which father is there among you who, if his son asks for a fish, will instead of a fish give him a serpent instead of a fish?" , will he give him a scorpion?"`
Here are some examples of things we say to ourselves that we think may not be harmful but we do not know that it brings a curse on ourselves such as the words **I am poor, I am poor, I am sick and I will not recover, I will fail, I will have no hope, I will lose my job and many other negatives we can tell ourselves or other people.**
By saying these words we claim in our lives the decision and expression of self-destruction. Just as you are sick, **do not say you are sick but say you are healed in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ.**
`Luke 10:17 reads, "After that, the seventy returned with joy. They said," Lord, even the demons follow us through your name. "`
`John 14: 13-14 further states, "Whatsoever you shall ask in my name, that will I do, that the Father may be glorified in the Son. And if ye shall ask any thing in my name, I will do it."`
These texts clearly say that there is power in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ so do not hesitate to contradict the negative words or curses that are said against you.
Remember words are like seeds that can bear good or bad harvest in your life. What does God want coming out of our mouths?
`It is written in Ephesians 4:29 "Let no corrupt communication proceed out of your mouth, but that which is good to the use of edifying, that it may minister grace unto the hearers."`
`It is written also in Proverbs 18:21 "The words of a talebearer are as wounds, and they go down into the innermost parts of the belly."`
Let us be careful in our speech whenever we want to speak negatively, let us stop. Let us ask God to change our heart and change our mind. Let us fix my mouth to say the blessings of God in our lives.
Here is an example of positve words we can claim in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ: **"I am a child of God by the stripes of Jesus, I am healed."** My family will be saved in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ. I have God's favor in my life and some other positive words we can clqim in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ.
It does not mean that we should brag and say that we are rich even if we are not. Because others will tell a lie compared to being positive and claiming God's blessing.
The word has power, it is seeds that produce good or bad harvest. Depending on what we say to our neighbor or myself. Do not let your mouth interfere with your blessing or with the peeling of another person.
`It is written in Proverbs 13: 3 "He that is slow to wrath is of great understanding: but he that is hasty of spirit exalteth folly."`
Wait, ***is there a chance written in the bible about the curse of the people and it happened?*** We read a lot in the bible about the power of the word.
Just for example when he saw his father Noah naked he had a curse here. `It is written in Genesis 9: 22-25 "Now Ham, the father of Canaan, came into the tent, and saw, and behold, his father was naked` `and he came out, and told his two brethren. Shem and Japheth took a garment. and they laid them on their shoulders, and went backward to the tent to cover their father."`
They did not look back because they did not want to see their father's nakedness. When Noah awoke from his drunkenness and found out what his youngest son had done, he said, "**Cursed be Canaan. You will suffer and be a slave to your brothers."** and if we read the events that follow in the bible we will see that the Israelites were not treated well the Cananeo, they were considered less.
Let us always remember that just as we guard our minds and so that evil thoughts do not enter, we must also be aware of what comes out of our mouths.
`We read in James 1:26 "If any man among you seem to be religious, and bridleth not his tongue, but deceiveth his own heart, this man's religion is vain."`
Are we one of these defined texts? Will we just let bad words continue to come out of our mouths? You still decide friends. I hope you learn something on my article. Thank you for reading!
Prevent negative thinking
Do you have a target you want to achieve? You know the steps on how to achieve this but you do not take action because you are thinking negatively. So in this article, I will teach you how to prevent negative thinking.
All I want you to know is that `every decision you make in your life is based on your emotional state`. To prove you war starts with emotion, two people get married because of emotion, other people do something against their will because of their emotion and most also do not take action even though they know what to do do because of emotions, so if you want to change your negative way of thinking, you first need to change your emotional state and there are two ways to change it.
Change your focus by asking better questions
There is a saying **“What you focus on expands.”** If you focus on the flaws you have, you will feel insecure and this feeling of insecurity becomes stronger because you are asking yourself allows a question.
For example, `you are fat and no one likes you and the question you always ask yourself is "Why does no one like me?"` and our brain is like a computer it will look for answers to your questions and the answer to you your brain is "`no one likes you is because you are fat, because you are greedy, because you are not attractive,"` and the result is that you are depressed and hopeless because you are very negative. So, instead of acting to change yourself you just accept that this is how your life really is.
On the other hand, if you ask better question, you will get better answer.
For example, instead of asking yourself "`Why does no one like me?" you ask yourself "How can I be attractive?"` and then your brain will look for an answer. You will be attractive when you lose weight then you will ask yourself again `"How can I lose weight?"` and your brain's answer is "`lose weight when you diet, exercise and eat healthy and these answers will motivate you to lose weight.`
Another example, there is a presentation assigned to you in the classroom or at your work and when the time comes for you to present in front of your classmates or co-workers, what you have in mind is `"What if I made a mistake?"` your brain will look for the answer, when you make a mistake `they will laugh at you, when you make a mistake they will look down on you, or worse they will tease you.`So you will lose confidence in yourself so whenever you are given the opportunity to present, you just rely on others.
On the other hand, you ask a question better question "`How can I improve my presentation?"` then your brain will find the answer, `you search on YouTube, you will ask people who have presented before` and this answer will change your emotional state from afraid to a conditional presenter.
Tony Robbins says, "`The only thing that keeps you from getting what you want is the story you keep telling yourself."` So, instead asking yourself "`Why you can't have it?" Asked yourself "How you can have it?"`
CHANGE YOUR PHYSIOLOGY
Do you notice when you are depressed or sad, you are often bent over, your tone of voice is slow and you often get "`Hayyy .." and your breathing is shallow.` If that is what is happening to you right now it means you are sad or depressed.
On the other hand, try to stand up, straight body, chest out, chin up, speak fast and loud and imagine that you have a cape in the back that looks like you are Superman, you will feel the sudden change of your emotional state and this too what I often use whenever I think negatively.
To summarize, if you have a target that you want to achieve you need a new set of action but to apply this new set of action, you need to change your emotional state because if your emotional state is in fear, anxiety , security you will think negatively and you will not take action but if you want to be an action taker you need a positive emotional state. `You are happy, excited, confident, motivated to do the right things and there are two ways :`
CHANGE YOUR FOCUS BY ASKING QUESTIONS
CHANGE YOUR PHYSIOLOGY
These are two ways that can help you prevent negative thinking. Thank you for reading!
Indoor plants that you should have at your house
Positive vibes create a better environment that leads to a better life. This is a proven fact. Many plants have a magical effect on influencing our homes and eliminating all negativity. Plants give you the best medicine that kills insects, clears the air and improves your mood when you feel low.
Many plants are associated with feng shui as energy boosters and eliminate negativity in your home. Let's look at seven indoor plants that absorb negative energy and boost your energy in your home.
ROSE
A very beautiful plant that comes in different colors. The rose is not only a decorative but also an important cleaner. **Its fragrance in the air removes harmful toxins and brings positivity to a home.** It is best to take good care of it because it is likely to dry out immediately. Do not skip water when it is watered.
ORCHIDS
This is an amazing plant. Orchids are an absolute stress booster. Not only does it relieve your tiredness, it also spreads a sweet odor. These plants attract the positive energy that leaves your home to be completely strong. **With the problem of breathing and maintaining your weak first person, orchids strengthen positively and help to cleanse the surrounding air**. They work like magic at night by releasing oxygen when everyone is at rest.
These plants can enhance the spiritual well-being of a home that contributes to increasing love and romance in homes.
IVY
This amazing plant can absorb harmful compounds. They remove poisonous air and provide clean air to breathe. If you have an Ivy at home, you can definitely breathe cleaner and have cleaner air. Properly proportional to increasing positivity in your home. **They are highly recommended for people suffering from asthma and allergies.**
However I advise to keep it away from pets and children as they contain elements that are harmful to them.
SNAKE PLANT
A useful plant to have at home, the snake plant grows fast and can live under the most difficult conditions. Their roots are capable of surviving even with minimal water. They are known to absorb harmful chemicals in the environment such as formaldehyde and benzene. You can keep them indoors or outdoors.
**However, to use their full benefits they are best placed inside your home. They clean the air without any effort and remove all negative energy.**
PEACE LILY
A gorgeous piece of beauty with grace in your home and remove your surroundings from all negativity. Peace lily is very pleased with your interior collection. **They clean the air around and provide a smooth and peaceful environment. The peace lily has the ability to report energy and positive at home or office**. These plants are easy to care for and live well in bad weather conditions.
JASMINE
A gorgeous find with a sweet smell that gives a light feeling. Jasmine is also used as a variant to make fragrant tea. They promote healthy living and eliminate all negative energy in your home.
Jasmine is common in most households today because of its healing properties. **It is said that the effect of the jasmine plant is best seen if placed on the south front window inside the house and northeast or eastern area if planted outside.**
BASIL
Their healing powers have many properties to provide the necessary healing and improved positive at home. Basil is not difficult to care for and only needs watering when the soil is dry, in the rains, water them regularly and in winter they can be watered twice a week.
**Basil is known to calm nerves and has strong antioxidant properties that attract positivity**. It produces a lot of oxygen and takes in harmful substances such as Carbon monoxide and carbon dioxide. The leaves of these plants are used in most homes to brew tea and sprinkle water around the home.
What indoor plants do I have in your house? Feel free to comment below.
Remember these interpretations are only a guide. You still have the decision and you are still in control of our destiny. Let us not forget to pray and trust in God. Thank you for reading!
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Torrent websites are a great way to download all your favorite movies and software. The popularity of torrents is due to its P2P file sharing model.
Most internet users use rivers because they are constantly updated with fresh content and users “seed” it so that others can download and share it more. The process, therefore, breeds. This camaraderie among millions of internet users gives a scattered sense of community.
For any newbie, this can be a daunting task as there is a lot of streaming of websites out there and which one is the best guess for anyone. In the middle of it, to find the most reliable website for downloading streams is difficult.
Best Torrent Web Sites For Daily Use (Links included)
**The Pirate Bay**
Simple, smooth and widespread, ThePirateBay is one of the most popular torrent websites used by millions of BitTorrent users. Users can easily upload and download torrent files. Pirate Bay gets over 5, 934, 300 unique visitors per day, using it to download videos, songs, ebooks, and software.
Here's the link . https://thepiratebay.org/index.html
**KAT**
Katcr.co is a clone site of KickassTorrents which means that it is practically the entire library of content including movies, TV shows, games and music hosted by the original KickassTorrent. The full interface of the website consists of subtle colors, well categorized content that can be accessed through simple navigation. The best thing about this website is the comments and feedback section.
**Your Bittorent**
Your Bittorent garnered traction when the main flames and there was chaos. Torrent web sites are shutdown left, right and center. Your Bittorent offers a clean interface where users find comfort. Now, it belongs to the top names for torrent searches.
Here's the link. https://www.bittorrent.com/
**RARBG**
RARBG is a free, secure and fast torrent website. The contents of the website are beautifully segmented. A slight disappointment is that you cannot upload files. There are four main categories which include, movies, games, software, and TV Shows etc.
Here's the link. https://rarbg.to/index37.php
**TORRENTS.ME**
Still not one of the popular torrent sites out there has the potential to be Next Next Thing. Their home page packs an impeccable dashboard and as a torrent fan you will love every bit of it.
Here's the link. https://torrends.to/
**Popcorn time**
Popcorn Time is a media streaming platform but can also be used for downloading streams. So if you want to stream, you can stream, otherwise you can always download your favorite movies and TV shows from the vast Popcorn Time library.
Here's the link. https://popcorn-time.ch/
**TOORGLE**
Toorgle is a torrent search engine that pulls content from over 450 databases worldwide and compiles them in one place. So if you are looking to get your hands on a ton of torrent content; books, music, movies and software - Toorgle should stop you.
Here's the link. https://www.toorgle.com/
**SEEDPEER**
The seedpeer contains a decent enough content database to meet your streaming needs. Fans of the site are always amazed at how fast its search function works. If there is a downside to Seedpeer, it is the interface that is less user-friendly compared to others in this list.
This brings us to the end of this blog.
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How to love a depressed person?
My girlfriend now is suffering in depression and anxiety, we're living together for a year and today's article I just want to share how I handle my girlfriend depression and how do I make her feel that I love her. So let's begin.
If you have a family member, friend, or romantic partner with depression, you naturally want to help them. In fact, the best way to help them is to give them your love.
BEING THERE FOR THEM
**Accept the impact of their illness as much as you want harm**. If your loved one has a serious leg injury, you expect it to take time, patience, and a set of treatments to work towards recovery. You will also accept that their feet may not be the same. Similarly, depression is a serious condition that cannot be "fixed" and can cause permanent change.
Be caring, kind, understanding and genuine with your loved one with depression, as if you were seriously injured. Each of them is needed.
Then do not try to ignore or reduce depression because all this is happening on their head. It is a real disease that needs active treatment and support from loved ones.
**Listen to what they have to say**. Just listening is often the most important and useful thing you can do for a loved one with depression. When they are eager to talk, say as little as you can and simply lend a caring ear.
Let them know that you are truly eager and willing to listen: "I want to hear what you are feeling and thinking, whether you want to talk now or later."
Offer to listen only when you are truly ready and able to do it. Give them your full attention, and do not act like a burden or do them favor.
**Tell them you love them exactly**. People with depression may feel that they are in the wrong and that no one can or should worry about them. Tell them directly and often how much you care for them. Show that you love them for what you do, but do not assume that is enough - tell them too.
You can say something like this: "I love you like today, Nics and I love you tomorrow." or "I love you for who you are, and nothing will change."
**That means when you say you are there for them**. Depression can cause people to feel as if they are or will be abandoned by everyone who took care of them. That is why it is so important for you to stay true to what you said to your loved one. Continue to prove that you will not leave their time in need.
You say "I'm here to listen," then listen. If you say you love them the way they are, do not act as if you could not change for them to change.
Do not say "You can call at any time," **for example, unless you actually said it. If you are not ready or get calls during work or in the middle of the night, be clear.**
**Be honest with them about how you feel**. There is no way around it: sometimes you feel confused, hurt, frustrated, or even angry because of their sadness. Do not blame them for your feelings by using "statements". **Use first-person statements to express your feelings of support**.
For example, avoid saying things like "You gave me so much for what you did." - Instead try something like this: **“I was kind of disappointed when you refused to come by my side, but I understand why you are so hard to get out."**
**Act if you fear for their safety.** Ignore or ignore if the person starts talking about the “end of everything” or clues to self-harm or suicide in any other way. Call for help if you are afraid they may take drastic measures.
Sometimes, however, a person is more at risk for suicide if they do not talk about it. If the person seems to retreat further into the world and their life and does not seem calm, they may decide to try suicide. **Trust your instincts and take action.**
Call the emergency service number where you live.
**Invite them to stay active and involved**. At the same time keeping people busy with daily activities, try to get them out and active in society. Depression creates a strong desire to leave the world, but maintaining activity and connection is an important component of the treatment process.
Invite them for daily walks or other regular physical activity. Exercise is great for physical and emotional health.
If you used to have dinner with friends on Fridays or attend Sunday evenings on Sunday, invite them to continue the tradition: "**I know Shang and Ange love to see you, and I think we enjoy it too."**
Do not try to force them to go if they strongly refuse, but keep making offers to come out.
**Give your support if they choose to ask for help.** For depression treatment to work, the person must choose to seek help. Do not try to force them or give them a journey into guilt. Just keep letting them know that you will fully support them if and when they choose to get treatment
Put it this way, “I think seeing your doctor and discussing treatment options will benefit both of us. I will come for you in any way you need me to take that step.
This is the best thing you can do to love a depressed person- **Show your love by listening without judgment and telling and showing them that you care. If they receive treatment, they should invite you to stay active and busy and support them.** Be sure to also show love for yourself, however, for your own sake.
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Trade like a pro (for beginnners)
Why do we enter into trading? Well, there is only one reason**, financial freedom.** We have no intention of working for others for life. We are much more like an entrepreneur then we decide that we want to be a full-fledged trader.
We try to learn everything that we can. We read trading books, articles, watch youtube videos and attend seminars about trading, etc. But after a year or so, let's say three years have passed, but we are still not profitable traders.
**Do you know why?**
**Trading is like a business.** If you do not know how to be successful in your business, no matter how long you spend here you will not get good results. Just like in trading. I'm going to show you how to be a profitable trader and act like a professional trader in a simple step-by-step method.
**Are you excited yet? Good! First of all we need to understand first is the Law of large number.**
What does this mean?
Let's just simplify. You need a large number of trades to find out if the trading strategy you are using has an edge. Maybe at least about 100 trades. That is the minimum in the law of large number.
So what does it mean?
If you want to know if you are profitable every day, you need 100 trades a day.
If you want to know if you are profitable every week, you need 100 trades a week.
If you want to know if you are profitable every month, you need 100 trades a month.
Easy. Let's say you are a day trader, and you only trade 3-5 times a day.
When will you know if the trading strategy you are using is profitable?
About 2-3 months. If you are a swing / position trader and you traded 5-15 times a month. After a year or so, you will know if the trading strategy you are using has an edge. **This means that the more trades made in a shorter period of time — the faster you will know if the strategy you are using will give you an edge in the market.**
But if the trading strategy you use has no edge and you make a lot of trades, it will also consume your investment faster. Well that's really it. Once you understand these things, you will be ahead to most self entitle traders out there.
FIND YOUR TRADING STYLE
If you notice there are many trading strategies listed here in Read.cash. Because not all traders have the same trading approach. We will be different. You can be good at day trading and weak at swing trading or vice versa.
First thing you need to know is which trading style is right for you. Let's say that being a day trader is right for you, because you are a bit aggressive and can handle the roller coaster ride of the market in this time frame.
The next thing you need to do is focus on day trading.
**PROVIDE BOOKS**
Buy books about day trading, or download free books on the internet there are many. But make sure you also check the reviews of the books you want to read. When the reviews are good then go for it.
**WATCH VIDEOS**
Of course you will also watch day trading tutorials on youtube, there are many good ones scattered there. Just subscribe to them.
**USE GOOGLE**
Not all traders have a youtube channel. So you can always try to search for a day trading article. There are many topics about day trading and you will get great information.
**SOCIAL MEDIA**
There are also many experienced traders on social media, you can join groups. Make sure you join a group of traders and not scammers. Now after you read the book and watch the tutorials. It is better if you write or save the things you learned here. So that you can also track other things that you do not know yet.
TRADING PLAN
What is your trading plan? Well, I buy with support and sell with resistance. Buy a dip! Is it a business plan? No! Let me give you an idea how to make a trading plan. But before that, what benefits can we get from it?
We can focus on our trading goals.
Our trading will have an objective.
We will also know the things that work in our trading strategy and not.
We can reduce the roller coaster trading experience.
How to make a trading plan?
We have some questions that need to be answered before we can make our own trading plan. These are as follows:
**What is your time frame?**
You need to identify which time frame you are comfortable trading. If you are a swing trader the most likely time frame you use is 4 hour or daily time frames
**What market are you going to enter?**
Most of the traders who read here are in the cryptocurrency market. However, this idea is applies in any market like forex, stocks, commodities, etc.
**Where do you want to trade spots or future?**
Just ask yourself where you are comfortable.
**How much can you risk per trade?**
One of the most important things in making a trading plan is the risk management.
**How much can you lose on a single trade?**
1%? 2%? or 3%. Depending on your ability and risk appetite. This means that if you have a $ 10,000 account, you should not exceed $ 100 dollars on each trade.
**What trading set up conditions will you use?**
We have requirements for doing set up trading. Trade with a trend or a trade or a combination of both. Mostly they trade with the trend. If you are new, you can stick first on trading with the trend.
**How do you enter the trade?**
Will you enter the pullback or breakout? What limit, stop, or market order will you use?
**Where is your stop loss?**
Remember you should act like a Professional Trader. As far as I know there is no Professional trader who does not use stop loss. You will always remember. Where will I get out if I'm wrong?
**Where is your target profit?**
When the price movement favors you, where do you exit to take profits?
EXECUTE YOUR TRADING PLAN
When you have completed your trading plan. Its time to take it into action. You can try it on a paper trading for practice purposes. But if you can allocate even a little capital to start on a live account, it 's okay.
There are five things that can happen when we trade :
**No lose, No win (breakeven)**
**Small wins**
**Big wins**
**Small losses**
**Big lose**
If you can eliminate number 5 there is a good chance for you to become a profitable trader.
`But before all. This is a MUST! You need to execute your trading plan consistently. Because if you trade based on your emotions and you do not follow the trading plan you made, everything will be ignored`. You never know when the trading plan you created has an edge in the market.
One more thing you should keep in mind, you cannot change your trading plan just in case you experience a few losing trades. You need to control your emotions to change it. Because you are really tempted. It means, you need to reach the minimum 100 trades in the live account, before you can say whether the trading strategy you are using is working.
I hope you have learned something new especially for traders who are just starting out. Trading is difficult, but there is nothing difficult for a person who is determined and determined to learn.
Why most of the students hates math?
You who are reading now, I'm sure you don't like math.
Many students, whether they are smart or not, from college or high school, Filipino or American, private or public school, fat or thin, are terrified by the horror and complaining about the hardship it causes. It is rare to see someone openly express a passion for broken cosine functions or logarithmic expressions.
But, why do some students react so negatively to this subject?
Lack of Understanding
One of the most common rationale for students is the lack of understanding of one or two course lessons. Often, in mathematics, the lessons are taught in the simplest to most difficult way, and if the student loses understanding in the middle of the process, he or she will feel "lost".
The situation will be exacerbated if the learning speed of a student body varies: there are those who are left behind, there are those who are ahead, and the teacher can do nothing but continue teaching. The child may also be unfamiliar with intense home study, or the teaching may be confusing.
However, if even the most basic concepts of the lessons are not understood, it will be very difficult for the student to understand the more difficult and higher levels of the lesson. **And if you do not understand what you are doing, you will fall, annoyed. Who would not be annoyed by something that causes moral decay? Eventually, math will be rejected.**
Different Teaching Systems and Learning Styles. There have been many teachers in the world, there have been many mathematics teachers. They also probably have more differences in the teaching system. There is quick to teach, there is elementary; someone uses a projector, has chalk-and-mouth; there is sweat in overeating, there is also an outlet of laziness. All of this affects the student's effective understanding.
There are also different ways of learning that suit a student. Some want hands-on, some just want to copy notes, some just want to listen without holding a pencil, and some want the book as a reference instead of the teacher himself. If the teacher system does not agree with the student's learning style, the point of the lesson may not be obtained immediately. `There will be a “loss” state: the lesson will not be understood, will fall, therefore a clear dislike of mathematics will appear.`
**Lack of Appreciation**
`"I'm going to be a chef, so I don't have to study how to get the value of x." "When I give birth, can trigonometric identities help me?" "The cubic function can't return the cellphone they cut off from me, can I still get that?"`
Once in your entire study life, you have likely asked yourself a question similar to the ones above. When a student does not find the value of what he is learning, hatred grows. As a matter of fact, why even study something that has not brought you any good? There is nothing wrong with those arguments, in case, you just missed something that math can do for you.
`You just have to understand that the "grace" of this subject is not just a flood and falling grades.` Unconsciously, your critical thinking is being sharpened, and every time you get the right answer to the problems you are being given, you give yourself the courage and confidence to solve the heavier blows in life. you will experience.
It is true that we cannot force a person to eat what he does not want to swallow or chew. However, the importance of mathematics is undeniable if it aims to be a professional worker of a student. Perhaps it would be better to make hope the fact that wisdom is always superior to intelligence.
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What happened on my finger? - Skin allergic disease
Almost a years since I'm suffering in eczema. I don't know where it started but my mom said she also had it because of washing or keeping her feet wet for a long time. My older brother also had it when he was still in high school and he also said he did not know how he had it, their eczema takes only a few months and disappeared immediately. I take medicine when he has an itch.
This is my finger looks now. As you can see it's a mark only but eczema not looks like that only. It looks like a bubble with water inside and that water makes you irritate because if the bubble didn't pop to make the water release, it's so itchy.
**What exactly is ezcema?**
**Eczema is skin disease that usually occurs in childhood and affects approximately 10% of the world's population. As eczema roots, it is an allergic condition that occurs under the skin.**
In my case, it is the irritation, rubbing or trauma to the skin that activates the inflammatory cells in the skin and produces a rash.
*Symptoms may include dry, itchy skin with red or brown patches, raised bruises or raw, broken skin, especially on the cheeks, arms, fingers and legs.*
**The more itchy the skin, the more scratches you have and the worse the symptoms, creating an endless cycle.**
Another problem with eczema is that irritation can cause bacteria to enter the skin, leading to further inflammation, scarring and potentially more dangerous infections. (see pictures below)
The symptoms also of eczema can be made worse by a certain foods. Food allergies are rarely alone cause of eczema. **Eating fish, chicken and other fishy foods can irritate your skin if you have eczema.** This skin disease usually affects young children but can continue to adulthood. They said that there is no cure in eczema.
**HERE ARE SOME FOODS THAT WE NEED TO EAT TO AVOID ECZEMA**
**Probiotics** are found in fermented foods such as yogurt. These so-called beneficial bacteria have "strong anti-inflammatory effects." They are also beneficial for maintaining gut health and a healthy gut microbiome, which is considered essential for overall health and well-being.
**Herbs and spices** such as turmeric and ginger have strong anti-inflammatory properties and offer other health benefits.
**Whole grains and beans** such as peas.
**Fruits and Vegetables**
**Vitamin C** found in various plant foods, mainly citrus fruits, Vitamin C helps maintain a healthy immune system.
**Flavonoids** are found in green tea, berries, citrus, red wine and dark chocolate. These compounds found in plants also have anti-inflammatory properties.
**Vitamin E** is an antioxidant that protects cells from damage and can strengthen the body's immune system. Seeds, nuts, and leafy vegetables are good sources of vitamin E.
An anti-inflammatory diet restricts or eliminates processed foods, leading to increased inflammation in the body. Although hard data on its effectiveness for eczema is illogical, anti-inflammatory methods are good for eliminating processed foods and eating fresh, whole foods.
Disrupting the skin's natural moisture with emotions, daily baths and other treatments can make a big difference in addition to eating healthy, reducing stress, and eliminating exposure. Other allergens and environmental stimuli.
Consult with your doctor to get the right diagnosis and find the right treatment. You may need to do some tests such as: Eating problems to find out what makes your symptoms worse and make sure there are no other skin conditions or allergies at work.
Healing eczema is a process that goes beyond the table. Eczema is a multifactorial condition. Diet plays an important role, but it interacts with other environmental factors such as weather and stress. Managing the condition well are these environmental factors. It means "relieve" and discuss further treatment and guidance with a dermatologist.
Is there anyone suffering this kind of skin diesease? How you handle the itchy skin? Share your thoughts and your treatment on this.
Thank you!
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Choox tv : Star for a cause-Positive Reaction
Recently, typhoon Ulysses hit Luzon and many were affected. Since we don't have a TV, I only watch the news on my cellphone. The typhoon released strong winds and heavy rains that killed dozens of people, destroyed thousands of homes, and left swats of the island region flooded. So far, Ulysses became the deadliest tropical cyclone to hit our country this year.
They are pitifull if you just watch, you can do nothing because your place is also one of the storms. Many families have been trapped in their homes due to the high water level. Many children have been separated from their parents because they are already confused. They posted on Facebook asking for help, there were even videos uploaded that the water would reach their roofs little by little. They shouted for help but our rescuers also did not know what to do with the excessive height and strength of the water flow.
I read another news and this is the most painful of all, the student returned her module but unfortunately, she died because she could no longer handle the water. When the flood subsided, his father saw that she was still hugging the module. It's just sad because if we were in the situation we might not even know what to do.
We could do nothing but the only thing we can do is pray for them during those hours. And when the typhoon hit the country, we looked for donors in the areas that were severely affected by the typhoon so that our donations could be synchronized. Fortunately, there was a woman who was collecting who wanted to donate so we never missed it. We pack old stock clothes with sanitizing them for safety of each other.
As I was reading the news, I saw a post by a mobile legend game streamer Choox. He is my favorite game streamer of all. For those who do not know him yet, choox is a mobile legend streamer with 7.8 million followers in his livestream on facebook.
Okay so let's go back to choox star's post for a cause. I'm happy and I know I'm not the only one happy for choox to do. Choox is generous, his livestreams are not boring to watch. When I don't have anything to do, I look for his uploaded videos to watch. He is funny to watch, how he is pissed and angry with his allies and opponents.
In the live stream it is unavoidable to speak bad words so you should need parental guidance before you watch it. He can say bad words but those are just his reactions, then he suddenly says don't say that words to all viewers.
Imagine, there are still people who can afford to give too much money just to help others. Choox is different! All his income in a week of live streaming, he gave all to the victims of the typhoon. Because if other people have this money in a day, they will be selfish, right? But choox is not because maybe he also knows the feeling of nothing. Choox has also helped many times not only with the victims of typhoon Ulysses.
You can visit and watch some videos on his Facebook page. Here's the link : https://www.facebook.com/CHoOxTV/
I know that many artists that can afford to help also helped the victims of the typhoon like Ivana Alawi, she went to our province to deliver help. It's just sad that we didn't see him because the place he went to was far from our place. So we must learn to be thankful to them and above all to God because despite everything we are experiencing now, there are still many good people. Thank God!
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What is your experience during typhoon Ulysses? You can share it below. Thank for reading!
Why is it difficult for a women to let go of their toxic partner?
Hello everyone! It's me -erzel again. This my third published article. I got an expected tip from robot lately for yesterday post, so I just want to say thank you for those who leaves a comment on my article and to those who views, thank you! So let's start.
**Are you a cheater? Have you experience cheating on your partner? or Have you experience cheated many times by your partner ?**
I heard this question many times and most of those who experience repeated deception are women but I'm not saying that men are all cheaters and not experiencing this. Of course they are also experienced this kind of situation.
**Women are soft-hearted. Maybe man think that a women is easy to get like When you look for someone else, she can easily forgive you because the women's heart is soft. Admit it or not, most of the boys thinking that women is easy to get.**
`The relationship among people or groups is the manner wherein they experience and behave towards each other. A relationship is a near connection among people, specially one related to romantic or sexual feelings.`
Having a guy partner is truly the dream of some women especially when they are in teenager stage. They want to be treated as a princess like what other women experience. Teenager women want to be loved but they don't want to feel the pain. It's kinda funny but they don't know that pain is part of relationship.
**Relationship is not just a happy moments, it is also to feel the pain.** Deny it or not but the truth is women thinking also in that way. I'm a women and I admit that sometimes I want that kind of relationship that full of happiness. I think that's because when I'm in teenager stage, my partner cheated me many times but now I realized that **relationship is not just happiness, sometimes you need to feel the pain for you to be learned.**
So, why most of women choose to stay in their partner even though he has cheated on her over and over again?
**I have my ex girlfriend from Dasmariñas Cavite. She cheated many times, and I know there's a lot of viewers here experienced this kind of pain or maybe some are experiencing this now. I can't remember how many but the only thing I remember is I loved her before and if you love her fight for it. I'm right?** Kaway kaway sa mga niloko dyan ng partner! HAHA
They cant let go because there is still the love that even if they want to give up or refuse, they can not let go. There is also the doubt that they may eventually regret why they did not choose to stay or why they gave up immediately.
Sometimes they think that their partner will change because it is not unlikely to happen because in my cases where the partner has changed while others also have the word hoping that maybe the relationship they started and formed will be better or saved.
The others also regret the relationship. They also see in their partner the qualities they really want that are difficult to see in others. Or maybe they think that it will be difficult to get back into a new relationship and get to know each other again.
There are so many reasons why almost all of their cheating partners still choose to stay even though they are hurting not just physically but also in emotional feelings because there are more people who rely on it than people who give up right away, it's okay for those who try not to give up right away and you gamble even though you know there is no certainty whether their partner will change or not so they prefer to stay as long as they know they can until they know my feelings that will not end just like that.
Whether is man or women, if you are experiencing cheated by your partner many times and If you think you are not the same as before, give up even you love his/her because the hardest thing to find is to lose yourself.
Toxic relationship is toxic. Grow up and move on. If men are strong, then we need to be strong also not for them but for ourselves. One women, deserves one man.
Hope you understand my grammar. 😅✌️ and hoping also you leave a like and comments below. Thank you for reading!
Students Addicted In Computer Games Disadvantages
We all know nowadays children are addicted to computer games and most of them are students. You will experience different kinds of children behavior.
You can see before when there was no pandemic and the students were still able to enter normally in school, almost after class or almost their lunch break, they just went to the computer shop to play.
Sometimes other students do not come in school just to play computer games. And when the teacher catches them not attending or learning nothing every day because they are always in the computer shop, their parent will get a message that they need to go to school and in the end, the parents will be scolded.
**Parents are pitiful when they are always called to school for their child's behavior. In this article, we will talk about the advantages of always playing computer games while studying.**
A computer games is a computer-managed game in which gamers engage with items displayed on a screen for the sake of entertainment.
**YOU WILL LEARN TO TELL LIE WORDS.**
If the first thing we ask when we go home is our parents, what do the parents ask their student if you went to school or not? Of course, you will say yes, I went to school even though you came from computer shop because you will be scolded and when your parents asked you “What did you learned today”? You do not know the answer because you did not really go to school. In this situation, you learn to lie on your parents because of computer games.
**YOU WILL HAVE A BAD INFLUENCE FRIENDS**
We meet a lot of players when we are in the computer shop and most of them are bad influences. Let's say, you are happy when you play with them or you are not baby and you already know what you are doing but you do not know that they are a bad influence. When you have a bad influence friend in computer shop or let's say your playmate, that's when you start learning to run away from your parents just to play because your playmate invites you and then you will lie again.
**Note : I'm not saying all your friends in your life are bad influence. This is specifc only for your friends/playmates in computer shop.**
**YOU WILL LEARN TO CUT YOUR CLASSES.**
We can't avoid bad guys or bad friends at school. Even me, I had my bad influence friends when I was still studying. Even you are happy with them, or they helping you with your problem, or they are your crying shoulders, you cannot deny that they are a bad influence when you are ruined especially when your teacher catches you on computer shop and you are absent or you cut your class just to play with your playmates or bad influence friend.
**Your parents know that you are in school, but the truth is that you are in the computer shop.**
**YOU WILL LEARN HOW TO SAY BAD WORDS.**
We notice now that children know how to say bad words. I don't remember how old I am when I saw a kids while I'm walking in the street. They are playing with smile on their face, and it seems that they are compatible. But when I passed, they could no longer get along.
Suddenly, I heard a child cursing, I looked at them who were already fighting. I didn't go back to them because I did not know them and I had no right there. When I was continue walking, I wonder where they learned to speak bad words. But one thing I assure to myself, they don't have proper guidance from parents.
**YOU WILL LEARN HOW TO STEAL MONEY.**
No parent will give money to their students for their addiction in playing computer games except if you are spoiled.
Most of the students now use their money not for a lunch food, but for playing computer games. And for their addiction, sometimes they have no money to play games.
He will start to envy his friends, and they will start thinking about of taking money out of his parent's pocket or wallet. This is bad idea. Learn to ask them. Stealing money is never a good idea.
Does any advantages that I missed? What are your experiences while you are students? Are you also addicted to play computer games in the computer shop before? Share your thoughts below. Thank you for reading and I hope you support me. 🙏😅
-erzel
How did I know I was bisexual?
Hello everyone! Before anything else, I just want to introduce my self here even if no one is interested. I'm erzel, 22 years of age and I'm proudly pinoy. I'm also part of LGBTQ community. I'm a bisexual and today I want share how I start being bisexual. Sorry if have a wrong grammar, I'm not professional in english. It's hard for me to talk in english but I hope you enjoy!
Being part of the LGBTQ community is one of the hardest situation you need to decide. Being part of this community is not a joke. Many people will judge you about your personality. You have a different side, someone will tempt you until you reach the point where you cannot go outside your house because you are shy about being part of this community.
When I was in second year high school, I had 5 girl friends and I think 3 boy friends only. I'm the type of person that I will not approach you, if you're not the one who approach me first. I'm a shy person. Then, one day the beautiful one girl approach me, she's not just beautiful, she's kind, friendly and generous.
The days go by, I always want to see and talk to her. I don't know why but it's not bad to have a crush, right? It's just a crush and it's part of growing up. I'm also a naughty person and I want to see her smiling because of me. (HAHA BATA PA KIRI NA) I don't know why she is really different. Just as a man likes a woman based on behavior, so maybe I like her but I did not think I was a man. I think that's normal. Since we became close, we are always together going to the room, eating lunch and going home almost every day until school year ends. Of course with my three friends who are also her friends.
We are in third year of high school, we still doing the same thing. Same routine, same friends. If we're all have a free time, sometimes we go to their places for a trip.
In the middle of being in third year of high school, it suddenly became awkward. We are not the same as before. (Just like magjowa haha) Seriously, suddenly we don't pay much attention anymore. It looks like she doesn't want me with her anymore, I don't know why. Maybe she already realizes that I crushed on her or maybe some of my classmates are already teasing her. But I haven't admitted it yet because I still don't know if I really like her or if I'm just happy when she's with me. Is there such a thing?
I just let her go if she doesn't want to be with me. The day I was looking for was passing by again and that's when I started to wonder to myself what I really was. Until the end of third year and fourth year of high school when I did not admit to her.
I'm afraid if they will judge me as a lesbian, that I will be rejected because I like women. Because for those ages, liking a woman's fellow woman is the immediate result of being a lesbian. We don't have idea about being bisexual.
A few years later, I met a woman on Facebook who was also a troop of my friends. I sent her a message on the messenger for no reason. Nothing, I just want to chat with her. Not because I'm boring but because I see again my crush to her.
With those simple hi and hello, we became close. She invited me to come to their house just to talk. I'm still nervous because I don't know what I'm doing in my life. I have never felt love for her, it feels like I was just like in high school. We met every day, sometimes I always at their house and that day I started to like her and day goes by we have mutual feelings so we decided to have a relationship And that's when I thought I might be a lesbian but when we were in our relationship for two months, I only found out about the other gender. The bisexuals came out and the others were just having fun. Some of friends also reveal their true personality and I decided also to reveal my true personality. They accept me for who I am.
Take note, she is my first girlfriend but we did not last long in the relationship due to many family complications. But I'm happy now because I have girlfriend and we're living together for almost 1 and half month.
**One thing I learned on this experience, you need to suffer and receive first hurtful words before you can have the courage to admit what you really are.**
**The only thing you can do if you're part of LGBTQ community and you don't want to stress yourself is don't mind them.**
Thank you for reading!
@Erzel
