Blessing in Disguise

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Written by

Erzel

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3 years ago

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How can you go beyond your former self that you love so much and that you still remember? And most of all, is the pain you have been given serious?

If that's your question, I'll tell you, "YOU'RE NOT ALONE"

Many singles ask how they can forget their past, they want to move on but they can't start and where to start.

And my answer is: You have to start believing that having your heart broken is the greatest blessing in disguise. You need to believe that what breaks your heart is really God's protection for you. Therefore, you will be safe from suffering with the wrong person for the rest of your life.

This is a problem for many people, especially when they are in their grief, they only live on themselves and they live in the past. They think of happy memories like "it's a loss of time together, a loss of investment, a loss of dreams we have built."

Yes you have a good relationship but I want you to think for a long time. I want you to go out and say, "Is this really the guy / girl you want to be with?" A person who has cheated you repeatedly, physically, or perhaps. Is this really what kind of person you want to be?

I think you deserve someone better. This is why your grief or perhaps your greatest blessing if you believe it.

I have a friend and she has had 3 painful breaks. She got engaged first, then the man ran away. The second was the same, she got engaged again and then separated again a few months before the wedding. And the third, on their wedding day, the man suddenly called and said, "I can't, I can't marry you."

Oh! If you are in a lot of pain, now you can't compare the pain my friend felt, but if you ask her today, she will tell you that these 3 painful tears, especially the last one, are actually the greatest blessings I have ever had in her life .

Why? Because it got her to the right person, the right man. And now they're married, and in a few months she's having a baby.

Why am I telling you this? Because you have to believe that "THAT PAIN IS TEMPORARY" and that pain can make you feel better and when you think about it for many years you want to laugh about it and you will see that this painful experience becomes the greatest lesson. You are and that can only happen when you let go and are ready to move on.

Remember, if you are still clinging to the wrong, the right cannot come. Let go and learn to move on. Yes, I hope that helped you but here’s the thing, you need to understand this “MOVING ON IS BOTH A DECISION AND PROCESS.”

Again, how to move on? You need to begin with believing that that heartbreak is actually your biggest blessing in disguise because the right one won’t come if you won’t let go of the wrong one.

Thank you for supporting me!