There was a trend here on read.cash particularly for single ladies where they had to answer some questions that single women are tired of hearing. I accepted the challenge and also published my entry for it through my article, "Single But Not Yet Ready to Mingle."
Among the 40 questions given on the website, there was a question that caught my attention. It was "Do you think you’re being too picky?"
I browsed and read some of the entries and I found out there are a lot of women on this platform who belongs to the Single Since Birth club, including me. And so I thought, What might be their ideal type or ideal boyfriend. Lol
Being a woman, I surely have my own ideal type of boyfriend. Maybe I'm being too picky when it comes to the one but I have set my standard so that I won't get hurt too much or things won't get too complicated when I already enter into my first relationship. But of course, when it comes to love, just like what Jolina Magdangal says in her song, "Kapag tumibok ang puso, wala ka nang magagawa kun'di sundin ito." So no matter how high your standards are, when you're already in love, you will overlook the imperfections and missing parts and see the one completely.
But because there is a constant trend here on read.cash about questions to certain things, I searched questions from Mr. Google about Ideal Type and this is what I got from this site. I will answer some of the questions that will visualize my ideal future boyfriend. Let's begin! 🙈🤭
1. Do you need him to be good-looking?
Kathryn Bernardo once said in her movie, "Mata ang unang nagmamahal, Ivan." No, he doesn't have to be as good-looking as Daniel Padilla because I believe when you are already in love with the person, even if he is not that handsome, he will be the most handsome guy in your eyes. But if he is handsome, it will be a bonus. Baka ipapa-tarpaulin ko mukha niya. Wahaha! 🤭🤣
2. Smart?
I prefer someone who is street-smart than book-smart. I want someone who knows how to handle difficult situations and find solutions to problems in life. Even if he is not academically intelligent, as long as he knows the basic things to survive in life, he is good.
3. Preferred age?
Judge me not but I really prefer someone who is 3 to 5 years older than me. Someone who has matured already and knows what he wants in life. But then, age has nothing to do with maturity. But if there is someone of my age and knows how to handle the immature side of me, and is already done with playing games, and have goals in life, then well and good. You're the one. Charot. 🤭🤣
4. Preferred height?
I want someone who has the same height or is taller than me. I'm 5"4 so it's better if he is 5"7 and above. It would be so cute if whenever we hug, I would be just below his chin. Hahaha! 🤭🤣
5. How about a sense of humor?
Yes, please. It's so easy to fall in love with someone who has a great sense of humor. We can go laughing all day even if your jokes are corny. I prefer someone who knows how to make me laugh to someone who is just handsome. Wahaha! 🤭🤣
6. How about piercings?
I wouldn't want him to have one, but if he already has one and it looks good on him, I'm good with it. But if it doesn't look any better, he should remove it. Wahaha! 🤣
7. Accepts you for who you are?
Of course. Who wouldn't want her ideal type to not accept her? If he wants me to change myself, then goodbye. But if it's something for the better, sure.
8. Thin or fat?
Athletic or fit is enough. He doesn't need to have 6-pack abs or a body-builder type, as long as he is healthy, he's fine.
9. Black, Brown, or White (skin color)?
White. Wahaha! Afam yan? Charot. 🤭🤣 Anything. It doesn't really matter.
10. Long hair or short hair?
It depends on his appearance. Lols 🤭 If the long hair is no longer suitable for him, he should just cut it short.
11. Smells good?
Yes. But don't go around bathing on your cologne. Just be naturally smelling good.
12. Smoker?
Oh no! 🤧
13. Drinker?
It's okay if it's just occasional, but if it's every day, no thanks.
14. Plays bass and/or acoustic guitar?
Even if it's not bass or acoustic guitar, as long as he knows how to play any musical instrument. Hihi 🙈
15. Sings very good?
Even if you don't sing like Daniel Padilla (sige, subukan niyong ibash! 🤧🤣), as long as you know how to sing with tune, it's a plus. Sing a love song for me every night, beybe. Charot. 🤭🤣
16. Shy type?
I prefer someone outgoing because I'm already the shy type. Hahaha! 😹👻
17. Rebel or Good boy?
He can be a rebel and a good boy at the same time. Wahaha! 🤣
18. Mr. love letter?
I want if he still exists, but if not, I'll just be the one to write him a love letter. 🤭
19. Poem writer?
If he is good at it, that's great. But if not, again, he'll just be the subject to my poems for him. 🙈
20. Serious?
Serious when it comes to commitments, but don't be too serious in life. It's okay to be playful and joke around sometimes.
21. Religious?
Preferably, someone who will bring me closer to God, but if he isn't, I respect that.
22. Loyal or faithful?
I want someone faithful and not a cheater.
23. Loves children?
Yes, please. I want someone who will be a great father to my 3 children. Wahaha! 🤭
Wow! I've answered a lot, I got carried away by these questions. Lols 🤭🤣
Let me just add. Aside from these mentioned above, my ideal type is someone who is God-fearing, industrious, respectful, family-oriented, practical, and have goals in life. It doesn't matter much about the physical appearance, what matters is he has a loving heart and a gentle soul.
How about you, if you're single, what is your ideal type? Share them on. 🤭
If you want to attract that Mr. Right of yours, right his qualities on your notebook. Start with 3 qualities and say "Thank you" and then add more 3 after a day. Read all of them and say "thank you 3x". Law of attraction :)