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Hola, May 27th is Children's day in my country, happy children's day!

I have three questions today, I've been thinking about them for a while and I thought of asking for your opinion.

1) Are gifts debts?

My focus here is on birthdays. I don't know about you but I feel absolutely bad when I don't get my friends anything for their birthdays and they go all out for mine.

When someone gifts me, I feel compelled to do the same. You might think that gifts aren't supposed to be so but in actual fact, it'll be nice to be reciprocated.

It's like a man that loves a woman and tells her he loves her and that she doesn't have to say it back but if she doesn't tell him she loves him after being together for while he might start questioning her feelings for him. He'll be happy if his feelings are reciprocated.

You'll also feel unappreciated if you're always giving your all to someone while the person doesn't seem to want to do the barest minimum.

Therefore, I see gifts as debts so I always try my best to reciprocate gifting but I'm also very petty, I'm not proud of it but I don't think it's important to wish someone that deem it important to wish me a happy birthday.

That reminds me, I've had an issue with my wallet recently and that's why it seems like I've not been reading your articles recently, I have but I feel weird dropping a comment without tipping especially to people that always tip my articles but thankfully, it's resolved now so I'll visit more articles now.

2) Appearance over intelligence?

I'm an advocate for marrying someone you're attracted to but does that take precedence over intelligence?

I saw a tweet a few days ago, paraphrasing 'imagine not being able to do your maths assignment because your father went for looks'

I like to think I'm sapiosexual but this made me pause.

Intelligence is genetic, I know a family, the two children of that family are dull. Not only school dull but dull in all aspects. It's the way the parents discipline the children for getting low grades for me. So, I took time to observe them and I discovered that the parents weren't smart either but then everyone's parents were the best in school💀.

So, would you go for looks or intelligence?

Think about this, would you rather be with a dwarf who has receding hairline, and one whose inner beauty can only be seen by the one who loves them but has an IQ of 150 or someone with that eight packs that you want to lick, has the height, looks straight out of your imagination, has that body that rivalled Nicki Minaj's own, has everything you ever dreamed of in a woman but is an airhead, like totally unintelligent, someone whose IQ is barely a real number?

Think about it, you can only choose one. My sister said she'll go for the latter, that she has enough intelligence to cover the children😂😂.

If you choose intelligence, remember you'll be risking your children's looks because there's no probability that your children will swim towards your side of the genetic pool.

3) Do you cringe?

Do you cringe when you remember something embarrassing you did and just facepalm and screech?

I do this a lot, and when I do, my sisters look at me weirdly as if I've did something otherworldly. Please tell me you do it too, please tell me I'm normal😂😂.

It's always that point I wish I had the power to rewind time and undo that embarrassing experience.

I love you guys

Whew, finally, this is the second draft of this article. We all know the first draft is always the best but oh well. I didn't realize it didn't save and I begrudgingly had to start all over.

Thank you for reading🤗

May 27, 2022.

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