My mom can help make it big in future, even if I don't work I'll make it because my uncle has made it big. Can one really rely on such statements? Let's look at that today .
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No one can help you except yourself is an article I made after I read through a comment by @FerferClear and I think it will be very good to share with you all.
Let's dive in.
Many are the times people look out for help from people who they think have already made it in society. Many also think that their relatives are there for them but the question is are you hundred percent sure that your thought is true? And if you are a hundred percent sure what happens when they lose their properties before handing it over to you? Therefore there is the need to work harder and help ourselves because depending on someone can actually cause you pain yes It can actually cause you pain.
People's bad thoughts sometimes lead them into a state of late confusion where they then say," Had I known" but always this statement is late. The statement had I known is always late and by the time you say this statement or phrase there's no way to get yourself back.
Let's take one scenario today too
Once there lived a guy who thought he being the nephew of the richest man in the neighborhood was a plus for him. He had no manners and he was always roaming about doing stuff that are unnecessary.
His uncle who was the richest man did all he could by sending him to the best schools, organising all types of classes and as well as promise sending him to study abroad if he passes his final exam. His uncle kept a high level of love in his education because the guy's parents were no more but the guy wasn't ready.
All advices given to him fell on deaf ears thinking he will inherit all the properties of his uncle slow because he thought of this he was never prepared to listen to the advices that were given to him.
He was always stubborn, showing off and doing all other things that didn't help instead of studying hard and passing his examination to study abroad. Little did he know that something can happen and cause him to regret all what he was doing.
Finally the day came when his uncle was very sick. He was admitted at the hospital and because of his health he sold almost all he had to take care of himself. He sold his cars, houses, plots, companies and almost everything except only an uncompleted building.
Upon all this his uncle didn't survive; he lost his uncle. When he heard that his uncle was no more he thought of it again that he is going to inherit his uncle's properties since he didn't know it has been sold. He left the hospital to the house of his uncle and there he realized that it has been sold.
Upon hearing this, he realised what he has done to himself because his uncle was no more and so was the money and properties and he also knew his parents were not also around because they died earlier that was the main reason why his uncle decided to fight harder for him.
He knew he had ruined his life and there was no way or chance of getting his uncle back or the money.
He didn't also study to get any work for himself. He therefore resolved into a hard work in order to make ends meet and this was how he messed up his life with trusting in people or situations but not helping himself .
End of story...
The first situation in here where no one was able to help him was when he decided not to learn. No one could help him write his examination. The only thing they can do to help is teach you but can they force it into your head?? No, you will have to help yourself by learning because that is what can help you pass your examination not the classes you attend. They can teach you all what they want by your willingness to learn is what will make you pass therefore here's what the saying goes no one can ever help you unless you do it yourself. Why didn't they agree that the teachers writing exams for you? Because , it os your life and you will have to work for yourself.
Again, when he realized that all was gone, he couldn't help but notice that he had wasted his life . No one could help him again and he had to do it himself but here without any support.
Therefore I stand here to say , no one can help you succeed in life but they can help shape your decisions and with that or through that you can make it in life.
Don't over depend on someone or think because my relative has this or that so I am safe because when he dies I'll get it. You might be thinking that way but no one knows the day or the time.
For it is time for my people to wake up and get to work because no one can help you except you help yourself.
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@FerferClear hope I did it ??
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You really did get it! 👍👍 Your article touches me because it has somewhat similar to my experience. In my younger days, I just take for granted the pieces of advice from my parents. I am too stubborn to listen to them. In the years goes by. I realize that no one will be able to help me, not my parents, not my friends, or even my boyfriend but myself. Yes, people you are close with will be there to give support but can they shoulder the burden you are experiencing? Nope! Never because they also have there owned.