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No One Can Help You Except Yourself..
My mom can help make it big in future, even if I don't work I'll make it because my uncle has made it big. Can one really rely on such statements? Let's look at that today . Hello everyone, is Dangerous_Fly once again. Please subscribe if you haven't and leave a like or comment if you want to. No one can help you except yourself is an article I made after I read through a comment by @FerferClear and I think it will be very good to share with you all. **Let's dive in.** Many are the times people look out for help from people who they think have already made it in society. Many also think that their relatives are there for them but the question is are you hundred percent sure that your thought is true? And if you are a hundred percent sure what happens when they lose their properties before handing it over to you? Therefore there is the need to work harder and help ourselves because depending on someone can actually cause you pain yes It can actually cause you pain. People's bad thoughts sometimes lead them into a state of late confusion where they then say," **Had I known**" but always this statement is late. The statement **had I known** is always late and by the time you say this statement or phrase there's no way to get yourself back. **Let's take one scenario today too** Once there lived a guy who thought he being the nephew of the richest man in the neighborhood was a plus for him. He had no manners and he was always roaming about doing stuff that are unnecessary. His uncle who was the richest man did all he could by sending him to the best schools, organising all types of classes and as well as promise sending him to study abroad if he passes his final exam. His uncle kept a high level of love in his education because the guy's parents were no more but the guy wasn't ready. All advices given to him fell on deaf ears thinking he will inherit all the properties of his uncle slow because he thought of this he was never prepared to listen to the advices that were given to him. He was always stubborn, showing off and doing all other things that didn't help instead of studying hard and passing his examination to study abroad. Little did he know that something can happen and cause him to regret all what he was doing. Finally the day came when his uncle was very sick. He was admitted at the hospital and because of his health he sold almost all he had to take care of himself. He sold his cars, houses, plots, companies and almost everything except only an uncompleted building. Upon all this his uncle didn't survive; he lost his uncle. When he heard that his uncle was no more he thought of it again that he is going to inherit his uncle's properties since he didn't know it has been sold. He left the hospital to the house of his uncle and there he realized that it has been sold. Upon hearing this, he realised what he has done to himself because his uncle was no more and so was the money and properties and he also knew his parents were not also around because they died earlier that was the main reason why his uncle decided to fight harder for him. He knew he had ruined his life and there was no way or chance of getting his uncle back or the money. He didn't also study to get any work for himself. He therefore resolved into a hard work in order to make ends meet and this was how he messed up his life with trusting in people or situations but not helping himself . **End of story...** The first situation in here where no one was able to help him was when he decided not to learn. No one could help him write his examination. The only thing they can do to help is teach you but can they force it into your head?? No, you will have to help yourself by learning because that is what can help you pass your examination not the classes you attend. They can teach you all what they want by your willingness to learn is what will make you pass therefore here's what the saying goes no one can ever help you unless you do it yourself. Why didn't they agree that the teachers writing exams for you? Because , it os your life and you will have to work for yourself. Again, when he realized that all was gone, he couldn't help but notice that he had wasted his life . No one could help him again and he had to do it himself but here without any support. Therefore I stand here to say , no one can help you succeed in life but they can help shape your decisions and with that or through that you can make it in life. Don't over depend on someone or think because my relative has this or that so I am safe because when he dies I'll get it. You might be thinking that way but no one knows the day or the time. For it is time for my people to wake up and get to work because **no one can help you except you help yourself.**
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Many also think that their relatives are there for them but the question is are you hundred percent sure that your thought is true? Of course not. I also used to think that way until I heard the stories of friends. Rightly said. Keep it up Bro
Indeed the story of friends can also help us since they have been in such situations and you listening to them and keeping that distance of not depending on someone is a really good idea. Thank you
Yeah!you are absolutely right.No one can help me untill I can help myself. My friends can give me support but I need to support myself. They can give advise only,,,,
Yes knowing that no one can help you except your own self -your own struggles, your own ideas, and your own dedication will be a very great help to you because life does not give us what we want you want but what we fight for. They can give you the chances or advices but that doesn't guarantee that's you be successful depending on their success.
Yeah!it's totally depends on you,,,,
Very well said depending to others can cause pain we should stand in our own in order to survive😍😍😍😍😍😍😍
Depending on someone is a very very very very very bad idea because the books even says that curse be on to the man that puts all his or her trust in another man. Depending on a person to say you'll be rich or successful will go a long way to go affect you since man can't be trusted. No matter how good they are they can't be trusted. For success in these days you need to put in all your best and put your trust in the lord for he cares for us
Yes, u r right n another helpful article again, no one can help u except yourself n u should never rely or depend on someone that much because at the end of the day, it will only be u although your family can help u n u can depend on them but not most of the time, u need to learn to stand on your own
Of course yes you have to go by that help your own self your family might help or can be able to help but don't over depend on them because the life we live in is not balanced and anything can happen at any time anywhere.
>For it is time for my people to wake up and get to work because no one can help you except you help yourself. Yes, no one can help you except yourself, but we must not think this way at all times. There are still people who are still willing to support as in all aspects and will lend as a hand whenever we need something. But thinking this way will make you strong and also independent which is also a good personality that one person should develop.
Exactly, your point of saying they are still people who are still willing to support us in all aspects and will lend us a hand whenever we need something is true but the question is how often does that happen? How often do people extend a helping hand to others? We are in an era where people nowadays think of only themselves not all people do but most people, there by the need to try and Force for yourself because depending on people or looking up to people is a really bad idea and when you don't make up your mind but still wait or count you are going to waste your life because by the time you realise everything is gone and all chances are ruined.
So that's the question if how often. Well not all people will always rush for their helping hand. Sometimes they hesitate. It's true that we are in the era where people tend to think of themselves than others. We should still not lose hope foe the people who are still with us in our downfall. This was just my opinion. Sorry if this contradict with your ideas. I respect your side
I agree with you, the scenario is very true especially for the students who do not help themself to pass the exam. Because no one can help you except yourself that's why we should not rely on someone. They can support you in all aspects but we need also to become an independent person in doing the right decision and to help ourself. Thank you again for this helpful article and the scenario that you given.💞💞
thank you so much for your time too and your comments I appreciate and I like your analysation and relation to nature thank you once again
Woooow. I like the lesson of the story❤ All we have is our own self. Its only us who can help ourselves grow and learn. Keep writing dear❤
Yes indeed it is only us and us ans us who can help us meaning it is only you who can help yourself in times of trouble and disappointment because there can be times where the person you are depending on will or can or might disappoint you and when that happens like becomes a mystery. Thank you for your time.
You might lose the person youre depending too if he or she finds you annoying . Always welcome😊
You are right. We should not depend on anyone. We need to learn for ourselves. How we can stand on our own two feet. Nor should we think that our relatives or friends are always there for us. Even to our own parents, because First we must know that they are not there for life. We must strive to cope with everything, no matter how difficult life may be. Because no one else will help you but yourself.
we must strive to cope with everything no matter how difficult life may be because no one else will help you but yourself indeed I love this one you did it perfectly yes of course no one is going to help us and we don't have to depend on other people for survival but we have to actually make sure we depend on ourselves putting much effort and at the end of the day we are really going to reap what we sow
Yes. Thank you so much for making your article so well. And I know you will publish more articles with interesting information and advice with top discussions.
It's just that you shouldn't rely on anyone. Because no one will help you without his own interest. So you should have confidence in yourself, without relying on others. By the way it's a very positive post. And realistic.
Of course no one will help with you without his own interests but sometimes these people want to help us but situations come in and causes everything to scatter and when this happens you depending on a person or you putting your trust in a person because the person says he or she will help you will lead you to a great sense of confusion because all is gone.
"No one can help you except your self. " What a nice title and it's content. According to the story the guys are like deaf , deaf for all thing till his uncle died, the person he lean on. If I based it to my life I really don't want to rely on some one. Why because someone help can be temporary, it's not life time it's like our life it's temporary like the uncle in the story. What if I rely only to my mom, my mom will never live for a lifetime, what if I rely to my relatives, then they don't have anything ? What will happen to me? Well the best thing to do is to help my self , help my self to learn new thing , learn to survive, learn to hear some body's advice it's not bad sometimes. So that I can be ready for my future.
People are temporal and you relying on the person can cause you a great sense of danger because what if the person is no more or the person you're relying on or the properties you are relying on doesn't get to you? does that mean your life has just ended ? no that means you've ruined your life and I thought that maybe you might not be able to catch it up there for there is the need to learn how to survive learn how to do new things and also learn how to do correct things on your own and at the end it will go a long way to help you when things get worse.
Yes that's is why I don't want to rely on someone.
You really did get it! 👍👍 Your article touches me because it has somewhat similar to my experience. In my younger days, I just take for granted the pieces of advice from my parents. I am too stubborn to listen to them. In the years goes by. I realize that no one will be able to help me, not my parents, not my friends, or even my boyfriend but myself. Yes, people you are close with will be there to give support but can they shoulder the burden you are experiencing? Nope! Never because they also have there owned.
In fact you experiencing this is really worse but how will we do it you got to realise that no one will be able to help you not your parents, not your friends or even your boyfriend but your own selves,** yes your own selves it is only your own self that can help you in times of trouble and want * therby there is the need to work on your own self before these times come because sometimes these times come without preparing and don't depend on someone.
Absolutely! 😊
No man is an Island.
No man is an island indeed but does that comment go with my article?? I don't think so. Give my article a second shot maybe you did not *understand it or read it*
Thanks for sharing HAD I KNOW is always said when one has lost alot
That's so true. If you want to make it big in this life, You should never rely on anyone but yourself.
Yes that's right..
And not even so, because if you are working and you are not rewarded, you will fail.
For me, human as we are, value things when it is lost already. And realises bad habit when it is already worse. But for sure we must make our own path to journey our own future. We do not know ahead, but we can help ourselves to be in shape. Learn from the mistake of other people and take head of their advice's and live a peaceful life from your own effort to which is most sweeter. Thanks for sharing it
Believing to your abilities and trusting yourself since no one could ever do that thing but yourself only. Motivate ourselves and just keep going. Life must go on.
Yes of course put all things in your head that you are alone and strive in that way don't just look up to someone because someone can disappoint you
😂😂 Lots of people make this mistake. Being a strictly independent lady I choose to earn what I want and what I need rather than living off people. Thank you for this💙
Just choose to live on your own because depending on people will affect you when they disappoint you
It's heartbreaking to hear when humans thought that they can only rely on their own and that no divine intervention can ever help them, such reasoning is caused by our impefections and the deceitful crafts of. mankinds greatest oppressor.
Sometimes these things happen where people think they can depend on themselves but end up ruining their lives. But also the rich and most popular people in society did not depend **completely** on people, thereby we can depend on people to compete a task or something but we should not over depend or look up to people . thank you
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