Never promise what you cannot fulfill

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3 years ago

Promises are easier said than fulfilled. most times we use the word - "I promise" carelessly.

We are humans and most times bound to make mistakes or default, but we have to be careful when it comes to making promises to others.

Never promise someone that you will give them heaven and earth when you are not God.

Don't even promise what you don't have. Do things you know that you can actually fulfill so that people don't hold anything against you.

The most common trend among teenagers  is telling people you love them and promising to probably marry them or do all sort of things for them all in the name of love, then at the end of the day it is all based on lies.

Love is a beautiful thing no doubt but when it comes to promises be careful and mind how you thread into other people's heart to avoid hurting their feelings.

You are still an undergraduate in school probably and already promising your fellow classmates to marry them when you are just daddy's boy or mummy's daughter.

Such promises don't hold water... Let's be careful and smart.

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3 years ago

Yes brother you are right. We need more careful before given anyone promise. Befrore Given promise to anyone make sure that you are available to complete it otherwise i think tell him or her that you cant not do it. I think It's better to given anyone hart after uncomplicated the promise.

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3 years ago

Promise means you have to fulfil it.. Promise is very valuable. When you promise some for something you must have to fulfil this. Be aware before making any promise that can you fulfil this or not. If you break any promise It'll break someone hurts.

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3 years ago

That's absolutely correct

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3 years ago

Promises are such a thing that we must fulfill, if we not it may cause disappointment to one. Promise refers to a vow. Relations destroy if one could not maintain promise. So do not hurt any one and keep your promises.

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3 years ago

This is Very correct..thanks fo your lovely contribution on this

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3 years ago

Exactly!Promise are meant to be broken if the person who promised was not sincere to his/her words.Sometimes its hard to believe to promises because we are not sure if they can really do it for us.Dont expect too much because in the end we will just be in pain because of those promises

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3 years ago

You have valid points here...I appreciate your contribution on this

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3 years ago

Right

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3 years ago

yep you are right . If we make promises we have to fulfill them. And never breaks promises . Cause promises are the tree of trust,. And some relationship is fading away because of less trust.

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3 years ago

I love the way you said it here. Thanks for the lovely contribution

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3 years ago

Very true what you say, we should not promise something that we do not intend to fulfill. We must always honor our word, in these times it is a very valuable and rare quality to achieve.

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3 years ago

There is honor in keeping to our words

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3 years ago

we have to care about our promise. Because most of the time we don't know it, why we promise, & what will be the result. By the way we have to aware.

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3 years ago

I totally agree with you here, thanks for your contribution

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3 years ago

you are most welcome dear.

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3 years ago

Promises are made to be fullfilled not to be broken. But sometimes due to an unexpected and unwanted circumstances we tend to break our promises resulting it to hurt someone we cared for. Youths nowadays making promises only bcoz they are driven of their emotions towards a person,i dont think they were actually lying in that moment they were making such promises to the one they love but once that emotions gotten weaker the will to fullfill of that promise gotten weaker too resulting it to be a broken promise. So we should not make a promise only base in our emotion but base it in our own will.

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3 years ago

I Love your points here, really they are valid

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3 years ago

You don't need promises to prove you love to someone. You only need to show it. Make her/him feel your love. Prove it through actions not through words. :)

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3 years ago

This is absolutely correct

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3 years ago

Yes you are right. Promise is very valuable for everyone. When a person break their promise they shouldn’t know how feel the opposite person whose promise they broke up. So never promise if you can't fullfill it.

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3 years ago

That's just the point.. never promise what you cannot fulfill

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3 years ago

That's Good🙂

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3 years ago

Promises are meant to be fulfilled, not to be broken. That's why I am very careful stating promises to other people because it may lead to misunderstanding and disappointments.

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3 years ago

Thanks for your lovely thoughts here

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3 years ago

Like all they said promises are meant to be broken:) Thanks for sharing this article.

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3 years ago

Near the Qayamat people would not take care of their promises.they promise but fullfill them.Also a saying of Hazrat Ali R.A in happiness you should not promise any one.

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3 years ago

That's very true, the hall mark is , never promise what you are not sure of

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3 years ago

Your right. As saying goes "PROMISE ARE MADE TO BE BROKEN". AND this is really true we always say that but always end up nothing. We are human and we are not perfect but we can be honest right? We don't need to say Promise and be honest to our self that we will failed again.

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3 years ago

As much as we are Humans, we don't have to promise what we can't keep

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3 years ago

I hate promising without having the answers at hands. It's not because I'm afraid of commitment, I just don't want to make a promise until I'm sure I can fulfill .It’s better to say what you mean, and mean what you say. I have friends that struggle with saying no to a customer, or no to people in general. They don’t want to disappoint someone, so they agree to things they have no way of fulfilling. A lot of people like to say yes to everything because they want to help people. They genuinely care, but the problem is they’re people pleasers and by making promises they can’t keep, end up hurting themselves in the long run.

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3 years ago

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3 years ago

I mistakenly tap spam flag please am sorry.... How do I undo this.... Or better still can you delete that your reply???

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3 years ago

That's no problem,vat times it happens

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3 years ago

That is why action speaks louder than words. ☺

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3 years ago

Indeed action speak louder than words

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3 years ago

Promising ourselves that we are going to have a successful future is our way to be motivated and study hard. "Promises are meant to fulfill", said of the Priest, in our church. I you said your promise, you are responsible on doing it, because if you did not? It may disappoints the one you gave it. So we should be responsible in every word we say, it may not be important to you but to the one who you talk? It's really is.

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3 years ago

You have said it all my dear

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3 years ago

Thank youuu

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3 years ago

Promise is a debt,debt is a sin and the wages of sin is death We have to be very careful when making promises

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3 years ago

We must learn to keep to our word

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3 years ago

All you have is your word.

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3 years ago

That's true no doubts

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3 years ago

This is so true. People make promises but does not fullfill it. This is usually what makes us disappointed. Please, if we make promises let us try to do our very best to fulfill it because if not, then do not make a promise at all.

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3 years ago

Thanks for adding voice to this

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3 years ago

You're welcome😊

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3 years ago

So true 👍 and in my religion it's a sin to promise someone about something then can't fulfill it

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3 years ago

That's very True and I totally agree with you

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3 years ago

Yes thanks 😅

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3 years ago

Exactly, people always make fake promises but when the right time will come. They are gone. No one fulfill your promise.

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3 years ago

It is not right at all

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3 years ago