You cheat on me

Hello readers, this question is for those that have been or are in a relationship, what happened to the relationship? Did he or she cheat on you? Well, I would like to know if you don't mind, lets get straight to the article, shall we? Already then.

Some months back, a friend of mine broke up with his girlfriend because of the chat he saw between the lady and her male bestie, the story was something else though, I got to know about the breakup after some days, the lady message me on Whatsapp and asked if I have heard from my friend because she has been calling him and he's not picking up, I told her that I will check on him which I did and at first, he never wanted to tell me what happened, but after much talk, he decided to open up.

When I first got to his house, we chatted and I told him that his girlfriend had been asking about him, he said he doesn't have a girlfriend, I began to laugh because I know its a lie, I saw that he was serious about the statement, I asked him what happen and he said that they broke up some days back because of some issues, me knowing that the lady did something nice for me in the past, I just can't let the matter slide without knowing what caused the broke up.

He told me that some months back, the lady told him that she saw her old friend and they are now besties, that's when he became uncomfortable because he knows what he can do if he was someone's bestie, haha, he said okay and she told him, some days later while she came to visit him, she was in the kitchen cooking when a message alert came to her phone, the message was from her bestie and it wasn't a normal message (18+)

When he saw the message, he also read some of their old chats and it wasn't a normal friendly chat, after reading it, he kept her phone and continue with his own without saying a word to her about it, they were talking when he brought out the matter that he saw the message between her and the bestie, she began to cry and was begging him that it isn’t what it thinks, my friend wasn’t feeling her tears at all, he just went to sleep.

The next morning, the lady continue to beg him and which he decided to forgive her but on one condition that she cut ties with the so called bestie, she agreed that she will delete his number and not talk to him again, she went to work from the boyfriend place, some days later, she came to visit him again and she left her phone while in the bathroom, so this my friend went and check the phone and saw that the guy was still there but she has deleted all their chat, while he was checking it, a message came in asking her if she has gotten there from the bestie, that shows that she still keeps in touch with him very well and she just deleted their chats.

That was what caused the breakup, he also said that she has been here begging him to forgive her but he just can’t get back together with her because from the chat alone, it means that both of them have had s3x, he couldn’t sleep with the thoughts of someone else bending his girlfriend, she cheated on me, man, that’s when I asked him if he doesn’t cheat, his reply was “I am a man and it doesn’t matter” that statement made me to laugh.

I know this, my friend, some well that most time when I visit him, I see girls that are not his girlfriend, of course, he does cheat a lot and the girlfriend might have even known but he doesn't count his own because he's a man and as a man, it's okay to cheat, don't just cheat on me back, we began to laugh because he's othe only point is that he's a man and as a man, it's okay to cheat.

This was similar to a movie I watched today, not that I watched the whole movie though, but just a bit, in the movie, there was this guy that has a girlfriend and also a bestie that has been his friend since university, he was cheating on his girlfriend with an old friend of his, the girlfriend was very suspicious because every time the other girl will bring him food when she knows that he has a girlfriend.

Something happen and the girlfriend went to meet another guy at the hotel and they also had s3x, after the day, the next day when he was about to take the girlfriend out, she forgot something inside the room and quickly went to get it while she left her phone at the seating room, a message came in and he never wanted to check it but he was tempted to and when he opened it, he saw the s3x chats without his girlfriend and the other guy, he was so pained and he told her to leave his house.

The next day when he and his friend (male) was playing FIFA on PlayStation, he wasn’t hisself and the friend notice it, so he asked what’s wrong and he told him that his girlfriend cheated on him, the a friend told him that he also cheats on her and he told the friend that this is different, haha.

Well, for real, it's different though cause a lot of thoughts will be going through your head as a guy and you will feel like it's over for you, especially if you are faithful to her.

Stay safe out there.

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22-07-2023