Disclaimer: This is going to hurt, but is the painful truth we don't often talk about, before I begin, I will like to apologize in advance cause I might step on some toes, haha, just joking.
I don't know how it is in another country, so I am going to write it based on what I observe about women in my country, this is something we don't get to talk everyday cause it might feel like is their nature but it has to change, I have come across some news about women backstabbing each other, even more than men, most times it's not about money, they might just do it because they feel jealous of the one they called their best friend or just friend.
The only time you see women trying to stand for other women is when you hear about abuse or so (I am not saying it's a bad thing) but can't the stand continue, like supporting each other without a heavy heart, the sky is wide enough for all women fly, you won't have to bring someone down for you to be able to fly, I asked my self these questions Why can't women be like men and be happy for each other? Hardly you will a man being jealous of his fellow man progress.
So much for women supporting women, The heat between women in my country is something else and the worst part is that they don't talk about it like they might see each other on the way and they will greet each other like there's no tomorrow, calling each other love when the word didn't pass the stomach, haha, I keep wondering how women can be able to hold grudges for years, men hardly hold grudges for a day, the next thing, they are cool but women is the extended, haha.
The music industry isn't excluded from this, hardly you see two female music artists doing a song together or promoting each other, both of them will sing the power of a woman in separate songs but they still won't vibe together, I don't think they fought, but maybe one is waiting for the other to say Hello followed by Hi, haha, maybe that's the reason they haven't linked up and do some collaborate.
I guess by now some of us will already know where this article is going, yeah, I am talking about the lady that began to trend some few days back, though I am not a fan of hers the hate she receives from her fellow female gender is something else, if she isn't mentally strong, they would have reaped her apart through negative words, hate, and bad energy, it hurt me to see women ganging up against another woman because of something that is not supposed to cause a fight.
A few days back, a young lady started trending on TikTok and other social media like Instagram and Twitter, because of the way she use to shake her bum bum (what a man wants, haha) she does it very well and I can't lie, it was like she was not from Nigeria, but she is from Africa, she had a lot of videos on TikTok, but there was that trended the most and what most guys liked, some were just sharing the videos, when I said some, I mean the guys, they began to share the video and were praising her bum bum and the way she shake it very well in a Pro style.
It's like most of the ladies felt insecure because of the way her videos were trending, that was how jealousy start kicking in, firstly, some ladies started replicating her videos, while some was using the caption that ”she's aren't that cute” “Her bum bum is not even bigger than mine” “She aren't worth the hype”
They were just saying different things but that doesn't stop people from watching and sharing her video the more, haha, men can do the undo, lol, most ladies felt insure of her videos, so they went and reported her TikTok account which got suspended yesterday, that's so not fair, how can women do this to their fellow women, instead of them to be happy for her, they took it as a competition and some were just trying to do what she did to get the hype, they forgot that she has a lot of Nike Shoes in the background, haha, hope they can buy it too.
But seriously, I know they are going to say that she was disturbing their relationship and their boyfriends has her videos on their their phones, let's not forget that these same women (I use women to reprint all female gender) had crushed on Lee Min Ho(The South Korean actor), Justin Bieber (The music artist), Madura Okoye (The Nigeria good keeper) and etc, they were even using them as their wallpaper and profile picture and the men wasn’t moved about it, they laughed it out even though it hurts they can’t attack their fellow men cause it’s not their fault.
I remember in 2020,Nigeria women, like almost 70 percent of them used their money to buy gifts and sent it to the actor on his birthday, he posted the pictures of what he received and it was a whole lot and most of the gifts are from Nigeria, funny he has a wife already, haha, but that didn’t stop them from sending him gifts, most of the ladies took the money from their boyfriends or husband to send him gifts, the men might know but they won’t say a word.
This young vibrant, gorgeous and beautiful lady that knows how to use what she has just came on to the spotlight and most ladies has already hated her, Women supporting women in the mud, I have come to realize that most women will only be happy for their fellow woman if she is not bigger than them, if she become back, they will start hating her, like I said, I am not a fan of her but what they did to her is not fair, at least they should have been happy for her, instead of hate.
10-06-2022
ahahahah i think this is everywhere. our female artists here are always in polemic with each other. they never agree