Who's to take the blame for cheating

Who's to be blamed for cheating 

What a cold evening and the weather is being romantic as I am writing this article, someone should tell her that I am single and she should stop being romantic, haha. 

How did your day go readers, hope you didn't overwork yourself again, always remain to take a break when you feel like things aren't working, don't quit, just take a break, it makes you see clearly and it frees your day. 

In today's article, I will be talking about, as we already know, it's a related topic and I'm not talking about boyfriend and girlfriend relationship, this one is about the only relationship that is supported by God, which is marriage. 

Some of us here are already married (am not among the some though, haha) while some of us are still planning with the special one or waiting for them to come our way so we can tie the knot (I can't wait to get the day I will say the marriage vows to my partner on the alter, hehe) well, in the main time, let me be living my single life for now. 

Now to the topic, I was watching a movie today to relax myself a bit this afternoon and the movie caught my attention with the actors in it, the first person I saw was Nicki Minaj, I guess we all know her and we must have played her songs on the net, then I saw Ice Cube, not everyone is going to know Ice cube because he’s one of the 90’s rappers back then, during the time of 2pac, Dr. Dre, Snoop Dogg and more,  firstly, I’m the kind of person that love to watch action movies, especially I see that the actors have superhuman abilities, it’s a go for me, this movie doesn’t have that kind of action, but the casters made I watch it.

Okay, I don’t want to explain the movie to you, cause some people don’t like it, In case you want to watch the movie, the title: Barber the next cut, it was released in 2016, so it’s not a new movie, but it talks a lot of sense, which I picked this topic from, so here we go. 

When a husband cheats in the marriage, who's to be blamed? It's it the girl he cheated with or the husband himself, though many may say that the girl should be blamed because she knows that the man is married but she still went for him, why can't she just find her husband and live with someone else husband alone, this usually leads to the wife confronting the lady in question and try to beat her up for trying to steal her husband from her, we usually see these things happen in our economy when the wife will approach the sidechick of her husband and warned her to stay away from the husband unless something bad will happen to her, though some might be an empty threat, while some women don't say what they can't do, if peradventure, the wife catch the side chick with her husband again, she will regretting not leaving the husband in the first place. 

Some women can send thugs to beat up the side chick while some do the dirty work themselves by approaching her to disgrace in public, I heard of one that got poured acid, and now the husband of the woman doesn't even talk to her anymore, he has moved up with his wife or probably finds another side chick, after all, he has the money to get more side chick. 

A few weeks ago, I saw a video of a wife who approached her husband's side chick and gets what? The lady was riding the husband's car to show off in the state with her sexy clothes, haha, the wife took the car key from her and drove the car away, she was so embarrassed, she never thought that such a thing will ever happen to her, but it what it is, what doesn't belong to you, can't be yours forever, the original owner will surely come for it. 

In the movie, they all work in the barbershop which also has a salon for females, there’s this single lady that is a hairdresser who has eyes on the married man that is a barber in the shop, and the wife of the man is also a barber in the shop, though sometimes she also does extra jobs so they can save more money aside from the barbershop, the lady will play all nice to the man and the wife was suspecting her and she will always find a way to shun the lady when she tries to compliment her husband, something happened and the both of them was in the private room for workers only, the lady was trying to seduce the husband, which the husband was resisting. He doesn't want to cheat, that when the wife walked him, so the husband quickly hides because he knows that if his wife sees both of them together there, she won't be happy, which she saw of them together there, though the man didn't cheat on her, but his face was saying otherwise. 

Everyone was blaming the lady for sleeping with someone else husband but one other man spoke up, why is everyone blaming the lady the man is supposed to be blamed for cheating because he was the one that took the vow in the alter, he was the one that said “for better and for worst” the lady didn't take any vow, the man should be blamed for breaking his vows. 

Truly, if we look at it, men should take responsibility for their actions and not the side chick, the man didn't cheat on his wife though, but they all believe he did because he was sweating when he came out, and both couples later reconciled and the lady apologizes to the wife for seducing her husband, it was all cool at the end.  That was not where the movie ended though. 

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06-05-2022