Live-in Before Marriage?

The topic marriage is too broad to discuss and it was resulted into endless debate, some people says that, marriage is a thing that everyone should respect. It's a thing that everyone should enter with at the right time. Some people also says that it's just a piece of contract of each two person sharing their properties and nothing special, well this kind of mindset is for those bureaucrats and nobles that talks about money, they want to secure the future and wanna spread more of their reputation that's why their children's are required to marry those other nobles. Marriage is a process which two people are binds together so that they can recognize as married couple. It's a process which two people are exchanging vows in front of God and also in front of people, it's a tradition which two person gonna promise that they will love each other in times of sickness and health, in richness and poor and until the death do them part. For ladies, it's the best moment of their life since their dream to face altar someday with the man they truly love.

Somehow, other girls are happy to engage on marriage however some are not since they are force to marry a man that they didn't love. It's actually happening in other countries which they are engage on arranged marriage even though they didn't like the man. It's a sad thing but they can't do anything since its their parents decision. It's the main reason why they are not happy in marriage life and leads to committing a mistake. Did you realize the reasons why some married couple ended up having a separation and divorce? Well, there are certain reasons why their love ended up maybe due to series of fights, maybe due to third party, maybe due to abuse and many more. For me the best thing to do if the relationship is no longer healthy is too let go and decide to leave, you can never push yourself to stay in a relationship which you knew that won't work. It's true that we humans are the greatest artist, we can easily act as good but the truth is there's an evil inside of us that ready to unleash anytime.

A person who engage on relationship and ready to enter in world of marriage sometimes ended up regretting their decision since they didn't really know the attitude of their partners. Sometimes marriage couple having hardtime on understanding each since they are not aware of their flaws and imperfections. There are are lots of things to be consider first before entering in marriage, of course a couple must be sure that they really love each other, they must ready physically, emotionally and more importantly financially. Financial problems is one of the reason why couple often fight, sometimes it leads to serious fights and worst abuse. Another thing is, both couple must assure that they are loyal to each other and their relationship is so strong that no one of them will commit a serious mistake like cheating. It happens when one of them are not happy on relationship that's why they are finding another lover that can fulfill their desire.

It's an immoral act of a person that truly wrong since you already gave a promise to a person you with in front of God yet you choose to find another one and it's a big mistake that will lead to more conflicts. That's the main reason why couple prefer to live-in before marriage since they believe that living in one roof will give them a chance to know each other. Two couple are trying to do what married couple do in order to test how they gonna act once they are on situation. It's also a good choice since that would be the perfect chance to know their strength and weaknesses, that's the chance to know what are the things they need to change and need to adjust. Living in is not bad since it's a stepping stone for both couple in order to identify what would be the problems and struggles they will encounter once they already married.

Some of couple engage on living in stage ended up scuessful and overcome their flaws and imperfections somehow there are couples living in ended up breaking up since they prove that they are not for each other, there are also cases that a man act a serious mistake by finding another women and it proves that the man is disloyal to the woman. Living in is a proof test to measure how much you love each other and how you will manage to face those problems while living in one roof. That's why to those elders out there, I'm not a position to tell you that it's time to find a man then engage on marriage specially to ate Ruffa, just kidding. However, I want to say that before you make decision in life, you need to know what would be the consequences so that you are aware once you ended up failing that decision.