Keep These In Mind, If you want an Easy Life.

Here I am again talking about life. I am not an expert in life. We all have your differences and we are all looking forward to making things right. THANK YOU all for your support. It is good we have your backs. Don't forget to subscribe if you haven't.

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• You are not so special.

This might sound absurd but here is why I am saying so. Your personality is not unique. Your strengths have been identified in other humans. Probably you aren’t even the only person to have your name.

You are just another human. Nothing more.

For the better side: Your problems aren’t so special, so they have been solved before. Your weaknesses aren’t special, so another person can tell you how to manage them. Your fears aren’t special, so conquer them.

Those things are important to realize. What may be more important to realize is that none of your role models are special either. They are average human beings who decided to do special things, despite their humanity.

• Your heroes will disappoint you

Every person, at some point, will let you down. The higher you place an individual on a pedestal, the further they have to fall.

You want your role models to always be beacons of light and they aren’t. You want them to be a voice of certainty and they aren’t. It can be easy to feel foolish when a hero lets you down.

You want them to be gods and they aren’t. No matter how disappointed you are, broken or falling. You are bound to rise up to your feet and face facts. Which is why I love this song by Shakira - 🎵Try everything.. Especially the line which says:

🎵Birds don't just fly. They fall down and get up.... Nobody learns without getting it wrong.🎵..

• You are not supposed to save everyone.

Trying to save everyone from everything will dismantle you. It’s like trying to make someone happy times a billion.

Think you can heal the whole world? Spend 10 minutes on social media. Actually don’t even bother doing that. Just google “pandemic, It won’t take long to learn exactly how impotent you are.

The human brain was not designed to handle all the world’s emergencies in real time.

Don’t be a savior. Be a helper instead. Helpers don’t have an ego. Helpers get on board for a good cause. Helpers do the work. Helpers know that whatever they can give is enough.

• Life doesn’t always make narrative sense

Hollywood’s lies are irresistible. We want them in real life.

We want the bad guy to get his comeuppance. We want the days of our lives to have a meaningful arc. We want every journey to go full circle. Unfortunately, you can’t count on your journey to conclude at the end of 30 minutes, an hour, or even a season. Someone said;

Life doesn’t make narrative sense. Life is just a series of revelations occurring over time.

It’s easy to be emotionally stable when everything is going well. It’s much more difficult when the rug is pulled out from under you.

So this is the little I have got to say. Let's comment and add if it you are cool with this. Thanks for reading my article. I am truly grateful.

Be motivated - @ClDvor