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2 years ago
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Hello read cash world!

I 'm bit busy today ,as what I've said from my yesterday's article that we are going to have some visitors now.

Busy si iyaan 😅
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For those who read my article about our neice who get pregnant ,well today is the parents of our niece boyfriend visit us and talked our niece gurdian since her mother was not here ,she 's in hongkong and my mother in law and my husband is her guardian.

When my mother in law learned about her pregnancy ,she asked her grand daughters boyfriend if what's the plan and he said that his parents wanted to talked to us here ,so today is the date that we set to meet our niece boyfriend's family.

Everyone in the family get disappointed when they learned that she's pregnant but we can't do anything for this but to accept and support her.I know its hard for my husband's family to accept this coz they are having a big expectation that she will help her mother.Her mother raised her with her brother alone ,ate gave everything to her kids even if kahit saan saan nalang siya mangungutang maka provide lang gusto ng mga anak.

Our niece was having a big celebration in here 18th birthday ,ate spend a lot of money for it coz she wanted that her daughter can have and try what the things she never tried before.Ate was able to send her school and finished her studies.One of my brother in law knows everything how hard the life of her sister just to sustain the needs and wants of her kids thats why he was so disapointed when he learned about our niece ,he even did't attend this family meeting now.He was so mad of her.

Yesterday I was so busy cleaning the house ,and this morning I told my niece and asked her help coz we will continue cleaning since we had some visitors,her boyfriends family will be here.

In our dialect we called it ''manughok or mamaje" in other dialect it is called "mamanhikan".

The boy family prepared some foods for our lunch.And they are talking about their kids situation and since she's already pregnant ,the boy family asked our family if its okay that their wedding will be happen after our niece give birth and according to my husband,our family will not pressure them coz we know it that it needs to earn money ,and the both side are agreed on it.And they said wlthey will not neglected about our niece pregnancy.So ,this comming december is the month that they set for the wedding but we confirm it to our niece mother if she can have a vacation this coming December.

And the meeting is began😊

After we are having our lunch ,we had some chitchat with our niece boyfriends family and they are nice to us.

When I and my mother on law have time to talked ,she compared the "manughok"before and this generation.According to my mother in law ,before when the parents learned that their daughter was having a boyfriend they called the family immediately and talked about marriage ,they don't wanted that their daughter will get pregnant before the wedding .The parents of the girl before will asked the boy's parents to prepare house for them so that after the wedding they will stay on their house,a separate house from the parents.

But now a days ,we are not following the old set up about this .Just like us,my husband meet my family and talked about marriage when we are living together after 3 years.Sabi nga nila dati daw ipapakasal ang mag jowa kapag bilog ang buwan ,ngayon daw ipapakasal na daw kapag bilog na ang tiyan.Medyo nakakatawa diba but its the reality na ,a big changes na before and now ,whats important is magkasundo kahit hindi pa kasal ,dapat may respito sa isat isa and keep the love always.But then ,kailangan pa rin makasal .

For my sister in laws opinion mas mabuti ng hindi makasal agad as what happened to her,she married a man who is not deserving for her love ,so ang ending their marriage was broken .We are praying that hopefully laging may pagkakaintidihan sila pamangkin with her boyfriend .

How about you, whats your opinion about marriage?

And thats all for today ,thank you for time ,I have to rest now I feel tired cleaning and washing the dishes and I feel sleepy ,I will read your works maybe this night .

Thank you and stay safe.

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I wish your niece a healthy pregnancy

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2 years ago

Ako gani dae wa pa gyud kasuway og kasal hype na yan😂 inutang ra kunu ko dae. Hays dili man jud ta ka boot sa atung swerte,

Congrats sa inyung pag umangkon dae kay gipa may an na. Grabe jud nimog linimpyuhay ay hahaha.

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2 years ago

Hahah ,labaw dae ,kay taod taod ng wa ko nag general cleaning oy ,maka hubya kay ako ray mo buhat ani😂 Sagdi rang wapay kasal dae ang importa te nagkasinabot mo . Unblocked na dayun😅

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2 years ago

Duh ,wa pa nako ge unblocked dae , magdusa siya char 😆.

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2 years ago

Hahah ,luh oy ,ayaw tinod a dae oy, gimingaw nato nimo.

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2 years ago

Basta dili mag matngon dae , na wala raba jud ko magsalig niya ever since , nagsalig raba kos akong kaugalingon, hihi bitaw dae oy maayu raman ng mga laki sa una. Except sa imong hubby hihi. Swerte ra kaayu mo dae nga magkasinabot mo.

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2 years ago

Luh oy ,seryos matter jud diay to dae?😂 Bitaw dae bot lang kaha og di siya ma pul an nako,6years paman sad me ,wa ta kabalo unsay mahitabo sa future😁

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2 years ago

Di nana mausab dae oy True love na yarn hihi, kami mag 15 years na mi dae , pero mao lage murag iring og iro. Hala no 15 years niya wala pa nakasal.

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2 years ago

Okay rana dae oy ,pohon pohon makasal ramo ,imbitaha ko ha😁

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2 years ago

Haha, natawa ako ate sa pagsabi na ikakasal na kapag bilog Ang tiyan. I think also, cause alot of individuals right now are rejecting the traditional way of entering marriage.

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2 years ago

Hehe yan talaga mostly ang sinasabi ng mga matatanda 😅

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2 years ago

Well maybe it's too early but guiding them is the best thing to do

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2 years ago

Your right ,tgey need our guidance especially that she 's already pregnant.

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2 years ago

They were too young to get involved in that hay naku po. But that's for the kids always had that, but I think parent shall be considered right now that boy just come first, I don't know and I am generalizing yet generations now is something, I think this kind of early marriage shall not be prosecuted so early define. I had a girl cousin best friend who get pregnant in the early days, and marriage is the one solution they thinks, yet now the man just went off to his responsibility, what reasons? He said because he wasn't enjoyed being a bachelor, hay naku.

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2 years ago

Ang hirap talaga kaya nga sabi namin sa kanila ,hindi biro ang pag aasawa ,dahil wala na kaming magawa sabi ng mama ni pamangkin na mas mabuti ng ganun para naman malaman nila kung gaano ka hirap ang buhay.

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2 years ago

Di they even asked ba to this two if gusto nila makasal? Di biro ang magpakasal. Kapag nagpakasal dapat sure na sure na. They are both young pa ata pati why not wait nalang muna. Why marriage agad 🤔. Well that's just opinion. As for me. No to marriage. Not ready to that lind of thing.

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2 years ago

Yes sis ,after daw manganak kasi need pang mag ipon para sa panganak niya.

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2 years ago

Wow, am happy you didn't send her out and your husband too understands, I hope they don't cancel the wedding, I wish she focused on her future first instead of pregnancy but the deed has been done, all you need to do now is to support her and after delivery encourage her to start school or work, so she can get better

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2 years ago

She already had a plan that after giving birth shes going to work.

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2 years ago

I am happy that things are going smoothly, and I hope that this marriage will be good for her. In my opinion, marriage should be based on understanding and love, and then everything will be secondary.

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2 years ago

Yes hopefully and we are qishing the best for them.

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2 years ago

I agree to your ate's opinion sis,hindi dapat minadali ang kasal and for me its better na mag live in muna sila to know more each other,kahit pa matagal na silang mgboyfriend/girlfriend hindi parin nila nakikialala ang ugali ng bawat isa hanggat hindi sila nagsama sa iisang bubong

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2 years ago

Totoo sis,iba talaga kapag nakapag live in na para magkalaman ng tubay na ugali.

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2 years ago

For me tita,,ok mn cguro ug dili sa dali-dalion ang kasal ang importante barugan ang responsibilidad ug suportahan ang bata.

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2 years ago

Yes jud dae ,naa may daghab nga gikasal pero di man magkasinabot .

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2 years ago

Mao gyud tita,,,

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2 years ago

Relate ko Jan sis hayyst...mag birthday na sana Ako 1month nalang sa 18th bday ko at may celebration sana kaso ayun di natuloy Kasi juntis ...Pero Masaya Naman Ako Ngayon dahil sa anak ko at husband ko.

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2 years ago

Ayos na din na ndi nuna magpakasal bata pa naman sila, pede namang isabay na sa binyag ng anak at simple na lng total may anak na naman. Pero ang aliwalas ng bahay ng biyenan mo sis

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2 years ago

Yea sis yan ang plano nila para masabay daw yung binyag at kasal😁 Oo sis ,malaki kasi ang soace ng bahay ni ate,todo linos ako kahapon😅

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2 years ago

sis ako nakasal dahil nga nabuntis at bigla nalang namanhikan ang parents ni hubby without even asking us (me and hubby)if what's our plan,anyway I am planning to write an article about why talk marriage if you got pregnant.

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2 years ago

Sige sis ,gora na sis hehe Mga parents kasi mag decision agad no.

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2 years ago

Oo nga eh. Di ba pwedeng ang mg jowa muna ang mg decide

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2 years ago

Mao bitaw na sauna tita. Pero ako kay di ko ganahan pakasal tita. As in , daan na jud ko ana tita. Pero sila papa sige ingun na luoy ang bata. Daghan baja lageng cases nuon tita sa gikasal tapos nagbuwag ra pud. Mas maayo man ng nag uban na mo before e kasal kay atleast mahibaw an na ang batasan ba. Ako gani hangtud run kay di pa ko ganahan pakasal jud hahaha basin mo stick na kos ahu prinsipyo sauna na di ko pakasal 😅

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2 years ago

Bitaw dae mas maayo ng di magmahay jud kay di lalim pud og magbuwag inya kasado na.

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2 years ago

Di na jud kalingkawas tita ug kasal na. Bisan pa ug magbuwag nakadikit na jud apiledo ug memori3s na kasado na. Mao na taawon lang ni uy magpakasal ba ko 😅

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2 years ago

As what I've been posted earlier ago in my facebook account,hahaha

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2 years ago

Hahaha mao na. Bitaw, maajo ng di pa kasal kay arun kung magbinuang ahw free uie. Way hasol ba 😅😂

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2 years ago

Hahahaha, magwang jd d i ka nahu🤪🤪🤪

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2 years ago

it's good for marriage to have the approval of both parents because their blessing is very influential for both partners to build a family. The incident that has happened to one of your family members is indeed very worrying but this also cannot be allowed to remain to be taken care of because of the future for the child in the womb.

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2 years ago

Its true ,that why our family accepted it to make them live without any worry.

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2 years ago

please .help me .how can i win from my artical .i have 62 view but i dont have mony froom reed it

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2 years ago

every incident regarding pregnancy outside of marriage is something that cannot be reversed because it would be nice to mediate between the two families it is impossible to let this incident happen because their next life will have an impact. maybe for me wisdom to think about the future for both of them so that the child from the womb when it is born will know its parents.

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2 years ago

Veey well said friend.Anyway ,thank you for your time

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2 years ago

Buti sis pinagutan yung niece mo sis at namanhikan na sila. Yung iba kasi sis pag pregnant yung babae tatakasan lang ng mga lalaki. Kumukulo dugo ko sa mga ganung lalaki. Yung bigla nalang mawala.

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2 years ago

Waman sad pasagdi sis ,mao lage among gi ingon nga suportahan nalang kaysa biyaan sa laki ,dawaton nalang jud

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2 years ago

Mao gayud sis. I-accept nalang kay nahitabo na. Blessing sad ang baby sis.

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2 years ago