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I 'm bit busy today ,as what I've said from my yesterday's article that we are going to have some visitors now.
For those who read my article about our neice who get pregnant ,well today is the parents of our niece boyfriend visit us and talked our niece gurdian since her mother was not here ,she 's in hongkong and my mother in law and my husband is her guardian.
When my mother in law learned about her pregnancy ,she asked her grand daughters boyfriend if what's the plan and he said that his parents wanted to talked to us here ,so today is the date that we set to meet our niece boyfriend's family.
Everyone in the family get disappointed when they learned that she's pregnant but we can't do anything for this but to accept and support her.I know its hard for my husband's family to accept this coz they are having a big expectation that she will help her mother.Her mother raised her with her brother alone ,ate gave everything to her kids even if kahit saan saan nalang siya mangungutang maka provide lang gusto ng mga anak.
Our niece was having a big celebration in here 18th birthday ,ate spend a lot of money for it coz she wanted that her daughter can have and try what the things she never tried before.Ate was able to send her school and finished her studies.One of my brother in law knows everything how hard the life of her sister just to sustain the needs and wants of her kids thats why he was so disapointed when he learned about our niece ,he even did't attend this family meeting now.He was so mad of her.
Yesterday I was so busy cleaning the house ,and this morning I told my niece and asked her help coz we will continue cleaning since we had some visitors,her boyfriends family will be here.
In our dialect we called it ''manughok or mamaje" in other dialect it is called "mamanhikan".
The boy family prepared some foods for our lunch.And they are talking about their kids situation and since she's already pregnant ,the boy family asked our family if its okay that their wedding will be happen after our niece give birth and according to my husband,our family will not pressure them coz we know it that it needs to earn money ,and the both side are agreed on it.And they said wlthey will not neglected about our niece pregnancy.So ,this comming december is the month that they set for the wedding but we confirm it to our niece mother if she can have a vacation this coming December.
After we are having our lunch ,we had some chitchat with our niece boyfriends family and they are nice to us.
When I and my mother on law have time to talked ,she compared the "manughok"before and this generation.According to my mother in law ,before when the parents learned that their daughter was having a boyfriend they called the family immediately and talked about marriage ,they don't wanted that their daughter will get pregnant before the wedding .The parents of the girl before will asked the boy's parents to prepare house for them so that after the wedding they will stay on their house,a separate house from the parents.
But now a days ,we are not following the old set up about this .Just like us,my husband meet my family and talked about marriage when we are living together after 3 years.Sabi nga nila dati daw ipapakasal ang mag jowa kapag bilog ang buwan ,ngayon daw ipapakasal na daw kapag bilog na ang tiyan.Medyo nakakatawa diba but its the reality na ,a big changes na before and now ,whats important is magkasundo kahit hindi pa kasal ,dapat may respito sa isat isa and keep the love always.But then ,kailangan pa rin makasal .
For my sister in laws opinion mas mabuti ng hindi makasal agad as what happened to her,she married a man who is not deserving for her love ,so ang ending their marriage was broken .We are praying that hopefully laging may pagkakaintidihan sila pamangkin with her boyfriend .
How about you, whats your opinion about marriage?
And thats all for today ,thank you for time ,I have to rest now I feel tired cleaning and washing the dishes and I feel sleepy ,I will read your works maybe this night .
Thank you and stay safe.
I wish your niece a healthy pregnancy