Being a mother was not easy,lots of changes comes to you when you are already a mother ,but that changes makes you a better one.
Everything was changed when I was a mother and here are the changes in my life when my two little boys came.
Wearing high heels sandals no more
When I 'm not already a mother I used to wear a sandal with heels ,since I am too short ,my hieght is only 4"11 and I really need to wear a sandals with heels .I wore 2 to 3 inches heels sandals before especially when I was with someone who is tall,I don't want someone will call me a dwarf hahaha!
But it was change when I had already a baby ,why?its because its hard to run and caught your baby especially when they are in the stage that they knew how to walk ,they want to explore around ,run like all the places they think its a play ground .Even in the church ,they don't want you to carried them ,having a todler makes you became a runner hahah!
Forget to buy your own needs
I know most moms can relate this ,when you are in the department store and you are looking for the things you need ,then you saw something which you think was good for your babies ,you will forget what you need coz you are enjoying looking at the stuffs for your babies and when you go home ,you will realize you did'nt buy the things you need for your self .
When I was not yet a mom ,I always went to the sections for the girl stuffs ,but when my kids came into my life ,I always passed that section ,I went directly to the kids stuff section.
Things in bag
When my kids came into my life ,all things that was in my bag was changed ,I always used a bigger one but its always get full because of my kids stuff .Diapers was always there ,bottle for milk ,milkcontainer ,baby wipes ,extra clothes for them ,water and biscuits for snacks,towels and massage oil for them .See ,can you imagine how big the bag I need?
When I was not yet a mom ,I only used a small sling bag for my lipstick and face powder.
Became an athlete
When I became a mom ,I was suddenly became an athlete too ,I was like a marathon runner ,funny but true hihi ,all the things I was doing I always got hurry.Even in groceries and market ,I was like in a marathon running competition .I always in a hurry ,coz I always thinking my kids are looking at me ,I even heard their voice crying and calling "mama" I don't if its normal , hey!mommies out there ,are you like that also?
Taking a bath quickly ,after I finished taking a bath I felt like I did'nt washed my body because of being always in a hurry .
One time I was cleaning the house while my baby was sleeping ,I was in hurry coz when my baby is awake I can't finish what im doing ,my eldest son noticed me and he keep on asking ,why i was in hurry and he told me i almost run hahaha! Is there anybody chasing you mom?Be careful mom ,you might breake something.(He reminds me that reminder i always told him especially in other houses)
Body figure changes
This is the best changes for me ,my body figure was change after giving birth.I gained so much weight ,my breast are not equally thesame sizes because my baby don't like the taste of my left breast ,he only loves the right one ,maybe for him since its the right breast its probably the right milk he needs hahaha just kidding.
The body figure changes,the scars and the stretch marks was reminding me how much stronger I am as a woman.
I don't have any regrets for that changes came to me ,I enjoy and love the changes they made of me .
Living a quite place
Honestly before ,I said to my self I don't want to stay again or live in the country side .Aside of far from the city and stores I don't want to hear that sounds og insects in the night but it was changed when I became a mom ,I want to stay a quite place with no chismosa everywhere
I don't want someone who makes noises when my baby is sleeping .I want to live a quite ,peaceful place like this .
My kids changed my perpective in life ,now that I am mom I always think the best for them and always thinking the future of them which all the mothers do.
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GOD BLESS
I salute you Mama! Indeed, grabe jud sacrifices sa mga mama ay. Your scars and stretchmarks are proof of your braveness.